Keep a smile on your face, quietly fade out of the current circle, and look for friends with whom you can chat again.

Everyone has his own life circle. Maybe this circle is so big that you can’t recognize all the people in it. Maybe this circle is so small that you feel you need to make more friends. But when you have nothing to say to the friends around you, maybe you really are not suitable for this circle.

Put a smile on your face, listen more to other people’s exchanges, and try to find similar topics. I used to be a very introverted and shy person, but after entering the society, I found that this personality would make me run into obstacles everywhere. I became more willing to get along with others, but I really didn’t know how to do it at the beginning. .

My boss at that time told me: Smiling is the best way to bring you closer to others. If you smile when you see someone, you won’t suffer. ?From that time on, I tried to face everything in life with a smile, and I found that it did help.

When I get along with others, even if I don’t understand what they are saying, a smile on my face can express my kindness. I tried to find common topics between us and tried to integrate into the circles around me, but not every circle I could integrate into.

When you cannot fit into a circle, choosing to fade out is also a good choice. As someone who loves reading novels but never watches movies or TV shows, I really can’t get along with people who discuss the plots of TV series all day long.

Even if I sit next to them and listen to them chatting for a long time, I feel confused and depressed, as if I am the only exception. Therefore, I slowly faded out of this circle and looked for a circle that likes reading novels. In that circle of friends, I can feel more comfortable.

For everyone in life, finding a circle of friends that suits them is a very important thing. When you want to expand your circle of friends and make new friends, having the same interests and hobbies is very important. Don't always do useless work in areas that you are not good at.

Find a circle that suits you. In a field you are familiar with, you can smile happier and more sincerely.