Everyone has it now. If you are going on a blind date simply to get married, then the woman is almost 100% dependent on you.

Almost, most girls, as long as she has a stable and decent job, and she is not ugly, and her family conditions are not very bad.

I guess this is the bottom line. If the aunt's condition is not bad, people still want to see how you are …

If you don't have a room, no girl won't talk to you. This is a true story. How many relatives and friends are there beside me? Some of them have been looking for someone, but they haven't found it for several years.

In the end, you can only lower your requirements. If you lower your requirements, people still think you have no room, that is, the woman has problems, and the disabled still think you have no room.

Tell me about my cousin's real experience.

This kind of tragedy happened to my brother. My brother works in Beigang, his home is in the suburbs, and he has no house in the city. Although he has been working for almost 10 years, he will turn 30 this year, and he has some savings, but he can't afford to buy a house, and even the disabled discriminate against you. ...

I found more than n objects, but none of them succeeded. It's not that the object condition is really bad, it's not ugly, it's a disability problem. His legs are a little lame, and he has no room.

Then, her whole family must need my brother to support her. There was one the year before last, that is, the family condition was not good, and the woman had no job, and she was two years younger than my brother. She is a clerk in a drugstore. She is not bad-looking, with a good figure and a decent face. However, her father was paralyzed, her mother suffered from sequelae of cerebral hemorrhage, and her family still owed more than 65,438+foreign debts. Another brother went to high school and went to college two years later. Exactly.

Under such conditions, the woman just wanted to find a down-to-earth person, and finally there was no result because her brother could not afford a house.

It will turn yellow after a delay.

Don't think what I said is the plot in the movie, it's all true!

My brother, who started dating 12 for four years at the age of 26, didn't get married because he didn't have a house and his parents didn't have endowment insurance.

Although he earns a decent salary of about 2700 yuan a month, he leaves a lot of money by himself. However, women don't want to be dragged down by anyone. Besides, my brother is not the kind of person who comes to the meeting especially. He can't say compliments, and he is honest and can't fool any girls.

My aunt and uncle are farmers, and my uncle is a carpenter, doing odd jobs. Now I am doing welding in the factory, and my monthly salary is more than 1000. My aunt doesn't have a job, because she lives in the suburbs and has land at home, so the family's life is very free and completely self-sufficient.

My brother's last date, she stuttered, a little fat and a little black, and the woman's personality is very good and gentle. Her family urged my brother to buy a house and get married quickly, but my brother still had the same problem. ...

He said he wanted to buy it with a loan, but the woman's family did not agree.

Buying a 70-square-meter house with a loan will take 20 years. Considering my aunt and uncle, my brother should at least buy a two-bedroom apartment.

So this is a tragedy.

Although what your colleague said is a bit absolute, more than 95% want it, if not absolute.

Otherwise, when you marry a chicken, go home with it. A chicken doesn't need a house or money, as long as you can marry her and be kind to her. ...

Among the people I know, those who are two or three years older than me are basically old enough to get married. Many of my sisters have good relations with me. In fact, their requirements are not high, but they must have a house, because only a house can have a home. Can they feel safe when renting a house?

Then there are similar people, not too bad, with stable jobs. These points are already the lowest.

Benxi is a small city, people in small cities, men don't like to climb, and women climb less, and they are generally almost married to themselves.

It is normal to ask for a new house. Parents raised their daughter for 20 years for nothing, and then married someone else. Can parents rest assured that the conditions are not good?

Getting married and buying a new house is the minimum requirement of ordinary people.

For example, a woman's career does not need to be too good, her looks are not bad, and her personality is OK. Therefore, a job like a primary school teacher, without the burden of parents, is not a good condition. If you don't spend 20W on a new house, it is estimated that you can't get married.

No matter how good the job is, no matter how beautiful the person is, no matter how good the personality is, no matter how good the family conditions are, even if there are some minor shortcomings, such as cleanliness, you can't think of such a girl unless you are particularly excellent. ...

Don't buy a house, buy a car, work is ok, and people are particularly nice. I don't think the other family will agree.

Generally speaking, women's parents are more serious about marriage than girls themselves.

It is not ruled out that 5% of people can find their true love, but that is the tip of the iceberg, and even if they get married and have no material foundation, they will not create it, or they will not be able to create it, so they will continue. 10 years, 20 years, 30 years, they will still be together, and the probability of being very happy is almost zero.

There are also self-made people, and I know one. I sat with her father in junior high school. After I got rich, I abandoned my old wife and found a second wife to have a second child ... It turned out that her mother followed her father when she was seventeen or eighteen, but what can I do after more than ten years? She is rich and not materialized.

Nowadays, girls, girls I know, often chat with them, and the information I get is this.

Most people want their other half to be perfect, but perfection is unrealistic, so there must be some conditions, basically just a few.

You have to have a house, a family with similar conditions, ordinary, but absolutely no drag.

You have to have a stable job, or a profitable job. The man is nice and has some potential.

Generally, girls hope that they can keep an eye on a boy's wallet (keep an eye on his money), instead of letting girls keep an eye on boys because they have too much money. Unbalanced, good family conditions, good self-conditions, or similar girls will never accept it.

Tell me a few more truths.

I have a sister who is 1 year older than me and has a good relationship with me. Her father and her father are gay.

Family conditions are good, my father is in a state-owned enterprise and my mother is a civil servant.

Parents' monthly income 1.5W-2W. (Her father is my father's leader) The monthly income of middle-level cadres in state-owned enterprises is XXXXX.

A year's family income is 35W+, or even more. As long as it is a cadre, which one has no gray income …

If the state-owned enterprises are good, the wages of ordinary employees are also good, reaching 7000+ per month, but they are not cadres and have absolutely no gray income.

Her family is very rich. She graduated from a key university in Beijing. The school is a secret. She is beautiful and everything is fine. She listens to her parents and has never been with anyone.

Through her father's relationship, she also went to XXX unit, where many people chased her, but those were in vain. ...

Her family has high standards for her to find someone ...

First of all, people are good, family conditions cannot be delayed, and the future son-in-law must have a future.

Basically, people who have chased her and met her several times don't agree with her family ... Her family doesn't object to me being with her. Unfortunately, we are best friends, brothers and sisters, not lovers. ...

Basically, her family's requirements are much higher than mine

You have to have a house of similar size and buy a car. ............

I can't afford a house without the help of my parents. Although the salary is not low, there is a housing provident fund, and it is not low. I still have a 2.0-displacement car, but if I want to buy a house, I will have no money every month. I am a standard poor man.

There are only a few hundred pocket money left. Eating, living and living with parents are free. ...

The house price is too high now. If young people don't depend on their parents, they can't afford a house.

The family is not a drag, with a monthly salary of tens of thousands. In such a small city, while maintaining a car, it can also provide a mortgage.

Buying a house generally takes into account the problem of children going to school in the future, and no one will go to the slums to buy a house. ...

That's the problem. Nobody's parents want their children to be well.

Everyone thinks that his son married this daughter-in-law belongs to his daughter-in-law, while parents who married their daughter all think that their daughter's son will lose.

It's all psychological, so ......................

The urbanization process of Benxi is relatively fast, because the city of Benxi is too small, too small, with a total population of 970,000.

There are only over 300,000 people in the urban area. If we calculate the proportion again, we will find that the proportion of civil servants, leading cadres of state-owned enterprises and rich people is the highest in other provinces and cities.

A city has a team, so many people, and in a city with a population of 6 million, 2 million and 3 million, it is very few ... but the population has decreased, so it is different. The total population of Benxi is 1.54 million.

Therefore, if there is conditional comparison, this mapping will naturally form.

Just like prices, some people can still accept the price increase of things in Benxi. Not in Shenyang. If you raise 50 cents, someone will take care of you in three days.