Love is a beautiful word, but often people have a vague concept of love and lack the ability to discern the truth of love, leading to failure in love or even falling into a love scam.

With the popularity of online social networking, the most common thing that causes women to lose money, money, and suffer mental trauma is the "pig killing plate" in online dating.

What does pig-killing plate mean?

First use empty sweet words to charm a woman in love. This process is called "pig raising" by scammers.

Then they start to defraud the woman of money, exterminate the woman's spirit, and continuously destroy her in order to obtain the maximum monetary benefit. This process is called "pig killing" by the scammers.

This kind of scam usually appears in economically developed cities. Scammers will choose to target women who have a certain financial strength but are spiritually empty.

Many women have also been deceived into bankruptcies, debts, and even mental breakdown due to lack of awareness of prevention.

Today, I want to talk to you about how to see through love scams and recognize the truth about love? And help more outstanding women find their own position in relationships, understand the normal rules and logic of true love, and achieve a happy life!

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First, be wary of perfect persona and avoid emotional traps.

By analyzing many cases, we found that all cases suspected of "pig-killing plate" have one thing in common: a criminal group is often controlling the entire scam.

They usually obtain “hunting” targets through dating websites or by purchasing female profiles.

They will analyze the characteristics of the "prey" and then design the perfect persona they want to see for these "prey".

For example: plenty of money, dedication, successful career, no burden of children and the elderly, etc.

A fan left a message before. She is 40 years old, has been divorced for many years, has children, and runs an independent company in Suzhou. She met a man on WeChat who added her through his mobile phone number. He was about the same age as her and had been divorced for many years. He had a son who was going to study in the UK and he also ran an independent trading company.

It only took three months for the two to go from exchanging WeChat messages to discussing marriage, but they have never met.

One day three months later, the man suddenly disappeared, and the frequency of contact between the two suddenly changed from close to distant. The woman is puzzled by the man's indifference and unable to resist the man's sweet words. She is very confused about this.

Obviously, the man’s character in the story is perfect and fully matches the woman’s ideal marriage conditions: children abroad, no burdens, similar age, and the same marriage and career experience.

This perfect persona was tailor-made for women, so he immediately overcame this female fan’s most basic line of defense and chose to believe him even though they had never met him.

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Second, think rationally and tear away the disguise of "career man".

Why is this man said to be highly suspected of fraud?

We can think about the following questions rationally and logically:

1. If this man is really a middle-aged man with a successful career, he should be very busy at work. , and the first three months of chatting with this woman took him a lot of time.

How could a career man have so much free time to chat with a woman? This is not logical.

2. He is a middle-aged man who has already had a failed marriage. How could he fall in love and discuss marriage with a woman before they even meet?

Moreover, all of his chat content is to attract the other person to the relationship as husband and wife. He talks about marriage before they meet, and wants to lock in the relationship between the two as soon as possible. This is not logical. .

3. A man who runs his own company cannot completely ignore personal interests.

A marriage is related to his personal interests.

The quality of his marriage partner will directly affect his future prospects. How could he not consider it after a period of contact.

How can we get married without discussing the rights of both parties to live together in the future? This is illogical.

4. They met by "adding their mobile phone numbers" on WeChat. They have no identical friends, and there is no way to find out anything about each other.

Let’s imagine this: Does a high-quality career man need to take the initiative to add a stranger’s mobile phone number in order to find a partner? This is very illogical.

It is very likely that the information and mobile phone number related to this woman's company opening have been leaked long ago, and this man found her through the leaked information.

5. In this story, I saw one of the most common routines of "killing pigs": "play hard to get".

When a woman and a man are chatting with each other very enthusiastically, the man suddenly ignores the woman, and some even disappear for a while. Some women may say that the other person is too busy, but how can a man do that alone? You've been so busy for ten days and a half and there's been no news?

At this time, the criminal group uses the "play hard to get" method to get the "fish" to take the bait, and then suddenly disappears when it is about to close the net. Women's worries, fear of loss, and worry about gains and losses are exactly what the other party wants. effect.

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No matter how powerful people are, they all have weaknesses, but this weakness can only be exposed to the people we trust most, not those who rely on just a few words without any examination. In front of the person who seduce you with your sweet words.

Here, there are two important anti-fraud suggestions for everyone:

First, don’t give the other party money, don’t give the other party money, don’t give the other party money!

Say important content three times.

Be sure not to give money to a man because of various reasons such as "investment failure", "child accident", etc. Even if he makes fantastic claims, don't give money.

Second, if we are suspicious or hope that the relationship can develop normally, we must bravely break the illusion and meet the other person.

And we must meet the other party in the city where we are located, do not go to the other party's city, let alone go to a far away place.

We can find a restaurant next to the local public security bureau, make an appointment with the other party and say: "I have made a reservation at the restaurant next to the so-and-so public security bureau and would like to treat you to a meal" and see if the other party comes. If the other party is a liar, he will definitely not dare to keep the appointment.

If it is an extremely bold and cunning liar, he may also go to the appointment. At this time, we can bring a friend with mature thinking and life experience to accompany us to the appointment.

If the other party comes openly, we can get to know him in person, instead of being trapped in empty talk without having ever met.

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I would also like to give three pieces of advice to girls:

First, get rid of greed.

Perfection does not exist. It is impossible for God to suddenly drop a Lin Daiyu to a homeboy; it is also impossible for God to drop a golden bachelor to a woman for no reason.

For older unmarried young women, the contact information of a reliable partner is worth tens of thousands. Now suddenly one of them falls in front of you, which is equivalent to a five million grand prize falling from the sky. How? Possible?

Second, don’t be hungry or thirsty.

Girls’ hunger is a sign of lack of love in their hearts.

A man said inexplicably: "My wife should eat more", "First of all, I must treat my wife well and capture her heart", "Give me a little cotton-padded jacket"...

< p> This is not about falling in love, this is about talking nonsense! Xinjiang’s marshmallows are not that sweet.

This kind of extremely high emotional value cannot be given by ordinary men. Only liars can satisfy it. Because this is their trick.

Third, establish basic logic.

Every liar’s deception process will be full of flaws. It depends on whether we can think and identify rationally.

The tricks of liars: they can provide high-level emotional value, they can meet the requirements of our marriage selection conditions, they will avoid real interest issues, they will play hard to get, and they will lock in the relationship as soon as possible. It’s all about reeling in the net and “fishing” a person as quickly as possible.

Many women are, at best, inexperienced and too well protected. At worst, it lacks logic and basic common sense.

Just like the woman I talked about above, she is already the mother of a child, but she doesn’t know how to distinguish the dangers of the world. Should I be happy for her, or sad?

Adults must learn to understand basic common sense of life and analyze basic logic, so as to avoid the dangers of the world.

There are many common deceptions in reality: For example, pretending to be a career man in order to defraud money, targeting women who hope to change their class through marriage; pretending to be a romantic man in order to defraud women, targeting those who are in great need Romantic women; there is also a kind of man who pretends to be injured, targeting women who like to act as saviors and have the heart of a holy mother.

In the future, my team and I will summarize more anti-fraud experiences and expose more deceptions for everyone, just so that everyone can live a truly happy and beautiful life.

Finally, I hope we can unite and work together so that scammers have nowhere to go!

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