I feel that there is no need for heart-to-heart talk between colleagues, and there is no need for heart-to-heart talk between colleagues.

In fact, the relationship between people in the company is like hedgehogs. When the weather is cold, they need to huddle together for warmth, but if they get too close, they will be pricked by each other's sharp thorns. , too far away to achieve the effect of heating. After many attempts, they finally found a suitable distance, which can keep each other warm without hurting each other.

The distance between hedgehogs is the distance between people's hearts. Don't try to cross it. It is good for you and the other person.

You must understand that the workplace is different from other places, this is a vanity fair.

This stems from human nature. After all, humans are still a gregarious species and like to develop companions, and friendship is one of the capitals to win companions. Let me say, this is actually a kind of vulnerability and compromise, a compromise with one's inner fear of loneliness, a compromise with one's own impulse to win recognition, and a compromise with the luck of wanting to take shortcuts.

Think about it carefully, when you have a heart-to-heart relationship with someone, do you have such a mentality that you long for recognition, understanding and relief when necessary, and get some convenience? You see, I have given you my truest self. Do you think I am good and trustworthy? I made a mistake or I need help, will you forgive me and help me? You know I won't use you to hurt you, shouldn't I do the same? Because you already know what my heart is like.

Is this such a mentality? Because the other party knows you, they get close to you, so there is no misunderstanding, so they choose to support you, and you get satisfaction and convenience. Unfortunately, this is just a sweet dream!

So, being quick to talk is digging a hole for yourself, a sign that you are not strong enough in your heart, and is speculatively using what you think is the easiest way to get what you need, instead of choosing to use strong strength. Earn recognition and respect.

As the saying goes, if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives, but if you are poor in the city, no one cares about you. A strong you is destined not to be ignored by your colleagues, even if they are friends with you against your will; a fragile you is destined to be stepped on by others at some point, even the one you thought was a true friend.