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Every life will always go through a flower season and a love season. May a pure and lovely daughter pass by rationally and calmly.
Different ideals, pursuits, personalities and opportunities will create different family styles, connotations, forms and results. It's the sun, it's spring, it's rainbow, it's sunset, only when it's gone; It's the wind, the rain, the thunder, the electricity, and the experience that made me understand. Parents always want their children to be smooth sailing, not to be hurt, and to have a happy life. Children and women always expect their relationship to be a three-dimensional picture of innocence, success, supremacy and infinite scenery, which is created and made by themselves. I sincerely hope that the second generation can create a bright future that Jiada likes.
Different people have different opinions. Entering the flower season and the love season, marriage is everyone's biggest bet; It is also the biggest chess game in my life; Vote right, go right, be happy, and vice versa. It is true in the family; The dribs and drabs in life; Love between husband and wife; A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step ...
Feudal arranged marriage is a sin and there are countless tragedies. It is a pity to refuse suggestions continuously, and there are endless misfortunes. Parents' heartfelt words and well-intentioned, although only tell you what they have seen, heard and experienced from their feelings, will let you learn from your later life through frank communication, so as to avoid detours, scars and losses. With your wisdom, let your boat sail with hope in the long river of years. I believe that you will be a competent helmsman, set the right direction, bypass the reef, cross the stormy waves, face the sunshine, and sail to the other side of happiness, success and happiness. ...
Below I will summarize the love patterns of boys and girls in the human world for your reference and understanding:
A, look at things from different angles: no matter how long they love each other, no matter how deep their feelings are, when another person they like appears, neither side will turn back like passers-by and walk away. I still speak ill of you behind your back, out of thin air.
B, face value type: only the pursuit of image (body shape, five tubes, height), what to eat in the bowl, what to eat in the pot, beautiful guys changed one after another.
C. Style: As long as you have money, no matter your image, wisdom, quality, connotation and personality, you can spend money like water, be jeweled, eat, drink and have fun, make friends, and your life is messy and smelly.
D, filthy racket: As long as they are close and in love, they will possess each other in all directions, talk about an outrageous thing thoroughly, and don't care about one-night stands and cohabitation ... Once the other party proposes to get married, they will break up, and whoever wants children will be in trouble and unforgettable. .....
E: Find a laundryman: The drunkard's intention is not wine. It is true to talk about friends and feelings. Washing clothes, washing quilts and washing dishes are all true. In fact, it is to find a long-term free hourly worker.
F. Break up after graduation: You can fall in love at school, care for each other and be all-round, but you only fall in love and don't get married.
G. Empathy: When your family, economy, health and difficulties change qualitatively, the other party proposes to break up, which aggravates the pain.
H, multi-angle love type: the first one established the second love relationship without breaking up, or dated this friend today, invited that friend to travel tomorrow, had dinner with another friend the day after tomorrow, and finally got married in the auditorium. Neither side knows.
H, slave general: when you are in love, everything you say is true, and the other person is obedient and always revolves around you. Give whatever you want, so that the other party won't go west. Everything he says and does is well-designed and optimized appearance and body language. Once the relationship is determined, the advantages are not retained, but the disadvantages are increased.
Me: I am the only one who is strong: both sides are pursuing housewives or women and men. Whoever has a high degree and a high position will do nothing but business. On the contrary, people with low education and low positions can do anything. There is no room for discussion, that is, the strong make the final decision and live in an atmosphere without democracy.
J: Drunk and dreaming: avant-garde, fashionable in life, following the fashion, buying when it looks good, spending in advance, brand effect, debt management, beautiful wallet, credit card online banking, only a few dollars saved, and tomorrow will worry about tomorrow.
K, jealousy is fierce: as long as you talk, do things, study and work with friends of the opposite sex, the other party will be jealous, make trouble, suspect cheating and be unprofessional.
L, AA system: At present, tomorrow and in the future, the economies of both sides are kept separately, and only loans are made, and each family does its own thing and gives its own. You and I both know each other very well.
M: Pure and sincere: Love in college is just caring for each other, encouraging each other and flying with me. After work, sublimate love, focus on career, and talk about marriage at an appropriate time. Mutual respect and love, mutual respect and mutual accommodation.
N: Background-rich: study hard during college, lay a good foundation for falling in love, occasionally date and actively participate in appropriate social activities, enrich knowledge during school, learn technology and further study during work, and never be satisfied with knowledge pursuit and business ability.
O: Ordinary type: average study, falling in love in college, not wonderful life, not brilliant career and single-minded love.
P: Children are good at home, but not good at home: the overall quality of the other lover is good, but the family background, family style, cultivation and so on. None of them are satisfactory, and it is difficult to decide whether to release or arrest.
Q: Rogue type: Everything was fine when I chased you, but I was entangled when I broke up. If you no longer get along, the other party will try to stop you from living a quiet life, set obstacles, run amok, retaliate and attack you maliciously.
R: Obedience: The other party always says, do what you see, it's up to you. What do you think if you can't get his advice, advice and help and live with people who have no opinions?
S: Five Poisons: If you have more contact, you feel that the other person is beyond recognition and unreasonable. He is a smoker, an alcoholic, a gambler, a prostitute, an addict and a little happy ... life is chaotic, he is not confident in learning, he doesn't love himself, and he doesn't cherish himself. To recognize him clearly, we must be firm and not soft-hearted. Keeping away from him and getting close to him will always be your shame and psychological burden.
I just want to share with you all the personalities mentioned above, from which I may see the actual situation of the world, hoping to be of reference and benefit to you.
I still say: Dad is your elder and your friend. Some words are better to communicate directly and frankly, and some words are better to communicate in words. In short, since some things have happened, we should face them frankly, put ourselves in their shoes and have the best way to solve the problems.
Finally, I want to say something from the bottom of my heart: Daughter, you have grown up, and you have your pursuits and ideals. I firmly believe that you will think and operate rationally with Leng Leng on special events and problems. When you grow up and mature in different periods, there will be happiness and trouble. If you are happy, we will be at ease. If you are worried, we will be worried. You are our hope and ideal, because we only have you, and success or failure is closely related to our flesh and blood.
Although our family is poor and free from corruption, it is honest, full of democracy, tolerance and happiness. Although you are not beautiful, you are very connotative, quiet, educated, intelligent and enterprising. You have your personality charm. It goes without saying that you can firmly believe that you are good and excellent.
The following are just my suggestions: you can participate in appropriate social activities in the university, try to expand some social circles, get to know some classmates and friends of different levels and disciplines, and increase your social experience, social experience and way of doing things. I don't object to talking about friends in college, but I have to be selective and observe. You don't want to be the best, but to pursue and accept the best friends for you. Love what you choose, choose the person you love, that is, the person who will be your soul mate through thick and thin in your future life. When Cupid's arrow hits you, you should be serious and think twice before you act. The colored ball in your heart is thrown, retained and caught in an appropriate way. Different interests, let him pass by. If they are like-minded, take advantage of them. It's up to you whether it's worth it or not. But one thing dad should seriously remind you: don't try online dating, because there will be friends in various poses in the virtual network, and many people will describe it with the best language and ability. It is not enough to rely solely on your perception and judgment. You can keep your promise online, and there may be a 30% chance that it is good. Then I suggest you get to know, understand and love each other in your study and work. Many facts in TV reports prove this point. Of course, your love and marriage can be completely decided by you, so can our parents give some advice?
Some phenomena in life and study may be natural products, accidental opportunities, parents' ideological deviation, the other party's persistent investment, or ...
The fragrance of wine is not afraid of the depth of the alley, and the inner show is not afraid of no true feelings. Distance produces beauty and happiness. Love may not be as short, flat and fast as a women's volleyball team, but it may not be as good as stewed beef with a small fire. Sometimes wisdom is better than publicity, and sometimes silence is better than sound. A good girl will have self-esteem, self-love, self-confidence, self-improvement, self-protection and self-control.
Knowing and falling in love, from a micro perspective, is a matter of two people, while from a macro perspective, it is sometimes a major event between two surnames of two big families, which will involve all aspects and reach both ends.
Perhaps it is my father who complicates simple things and sincerely hopes to make our present and future things simple, open-minded, inclusive and happy. The past is over, and tomorrow will be sunny. Let's join hands and work together for the harmony and happiness of Qi Xin.
Spring is beautiful and happiness belongs to everyone. Mom and dad will always shelter you from the wind and rain, cheer for you and cheer for you.
Chinese New Year, set off firecrackers, and we eat together.
Come on, come on. Let's take a selfie of our family ... click, wait a minute, right? Three pigs? Why do all the golden pig years become pigs? Hey ... two old pigs and a little pig ...
Honey, look, you are an old pig ... yeah! Mom, dad, that big pig in' 94! ! Ha ha ha ... daughter, you are the little pig! hahaha ......
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