People often ask me questions like this. For example, after being with so-and-so, I feel that my luck has become worse; for example, after doing something with someone, will the other person suck my luck? Wait, and so on, what it means in summary is, will the luck between people affect each other? I have spoken about this issue before, and I would like to say it again today. As follows: (1) Everyone has his own destiny, and everyone has his own destiny trajectory
This is what I have always emphasized, what is destiny? It is a pattern of time and the trajectory of a person's life. And this kind of law and this kind of trajectory are determined from birth. For example, who can change this time pattern? What cannot be changed is that it happens year after year, day after day, and follows a fixed sequence. Since fate is a law of time, it is also the same. Therefore, a person's luck is naturally within this trajectory. What kind of time there is will have what kind of life trajectory and destiny rules. Therefore, no matter what the influence of luck between people is, the first important point is that everyone has his own destiny and trajectory. This is fundamental. (2) What kind of people you will meet and what kind of luck you will have are also in each person's own destiny
For example, some people who open their own companies or businesses will be asked some questions. That is to say, what kind of subordinates with zodiac signs can make you prosperous and beneficial to you at work. I don’t know if this type of problem was “invented” by some colleagues, which makes some people have such views and ideas. Right? Something is definitely wrong. Of course, one's own company or enterprise is controlled and controlled by one's own destiny, and develops according to one's own destiny. How can it be that employees determine the boss's luck? Does everyone think so? It's impossible that just because an employee's zodiac sign matches yours, your destiny and luck will change. It's impossible. The good or bad luck of luck always depends on one's own destiny being the internal one and playing the main role, and the external destiny being the external one and playing the secondary role. It is impossible for the secondary role to affect the primary role in turn. Therefore, what kind of luck you will encounter in life is actually already determined by everyone's own destiny. For example, if the boss of this company is lucky, he will naturally be able to hire capable and good employees. This is the reason. (3) The luck of people is more often a kind of intersection
So, since everyone has his own destiny, why do some people really think that the company started to have bad luck after hiring a certain employee? ? And why do some people have smooth sailing and become rich after cooperating with so-and-so? And why do some people become prosperous immediately after being with someone else? Is this because the other person's luck helps my own luck? Did the other person's fate make me lucky? They look similar on the surface, but what’s the essence? Of course not. So why do some people's luck change immediately after meeting someone? In fact, this is a cover-up and is superficial. In fact, your own luck is changing and changing at the same time. For example, if some people's luck improves, they will soon meet corresponding noble people, corresponding capable friends, etc. Wait, some people's luck gets better, they get married, have children, and then have a successful career. It seems that all these changes are because of who they are with, because they are in partnership with someone, or because they are partners. None of this is true because of who you marry or who you marry.
What is really happening is that your own luck is changing. Because of these changes in luck, you will naturally meet the corresponding people or things. When your luck becomes good, you will naturally meet good people and good things. If you have bad luck, you will naturally meet bad people, wrong people, and bad things. Therefore, these things are just a phenomenon, a phenomenon, and they are actually caused by your own luck. Therefore, don’t worry about whether the loss of money in recent years is due to someone else. In the end, it is just your own luck. Once you understand this, you will no longer be obsessed with finding a wife or husband with a certain zodiac sign, and you will no longer be obsessed with finding a person with a certain zodiac sign for cooperation or partnership.
Therefore, when we face these numerology and luck, we must distinguish the priorities and never put the cart before the horse. In fact, there are many people who put the cart before the horse in life and work nowadays.
(4) How to treat the changes in luck between people
Although it is said that everyone has his own life and his own destiny, in life and work , it’s an interconnected environment. Therefore, the connection between people is inevitable and essential. I remember a saying that there are no permanent friends and no permanent enemies in the world. I think this sentence is very reasonable. Why? Because this sentence looks at the relationship between people from a changing perspective. Indeed, the relationships between people in life and work are constantly changing. For example, ten years ago, you had the best relationship with so-and-so; ten years later, you have the best relationship with someone else. This is a change. These changes are naturally caused by one's own destiny. In fact, it is what we often say: birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups, that is, they are not one family and do not belong to the same family.
Therefore, it is true that the change in luck between people determines what kind of luck meets what kind of person. Therefore, making friends, being with whomever, or marrying whomever you want is not just what you think or wish for. No, everything is still determined by your own destiny. Therefore, don’t worry about what kind of people or friends you have to make. It’s inherent in fate and luck. It comes naturally. If you don’t have it, you can’t force it.