Having a strict friend is actually a very good asset. Why do you say this? With such a friend, you will learn a lot from him, because he is meticulous in doing things and can make casual people become rigorous and rigorous people become more rigorous. I believe that whether at work or in life, your partner and boss will prefer people who are meticulous. Such people not only keep their own lives in order, but also make the lives of those around them orderly, and the people around them will save a lot of thinking.

Are rigorous people perfect? Definitely not. No one is perfect in this world. If you are a very strict person, and at the same time you have a very strict friend, there will be many conflicts between two people with very similar personalities. When rigorous people meet, it is undoubtedly like two bullfights meeting. Everyone wants to do their best in dealing with others and complete everything conscientiously. This will form a contrast in the other's heart. They will look at each other's ways of doing things and getting along with others and compare them with their own, and then compare them with themselves. If they do better than themselves, they may feel a little confused, and they may not do as well as themselves, and they themselves A bit disdainful.

People may all have such a twisted personality. How can we avoid such contradictions? The simplest way to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages is for two people not to do the same thing, nor to get along with people who get along particularly well with each other. In this way, there will not be much between you in life and work. **The intersection of the same. The two of you are completely independent individuals, and because of each other's interests and hobbies, you have become friends. Without the same circle of friends, there won't be many people comparing you together. In this way, you two Getting along with each other is more casual and will be more relaxed. If you don't complete a task together, there won't be too many conflicts of interest, and there won't be any calculations about who gets more and who gets less.

For people with a lazy personality, having strict friends is a great experience, but it can also cause a little trouble. Because people with a lazy personality are not so careful in doing things, to put it nicely, they are informal and a bit procrastinating in doing things. Such people may be the most troublesome in the eyes of strict friends. For example, if you have to finish something tonight, a rigorous person will finish it in the morning, while a lazy person will have to wait until 11:30 in the morning to start. Such rigorous people will not be able to stand it, and they will urge lazy people to work all day long. Friends, that's how they are. No matter what method is used, they all hope that each other can be better.

For such a situation, what the lazy person has to do is to follow the strict person and slowly get rid of his lazy personality, and don't be too impatient and tired of his serial life-threatening calls. Because once such a mentality arises, there will be a lot of conflicts between you. If he doesn't treat you as a friend, he won't waste his time and energy on you. Sometimes, they may blame you for your procrastination, but they will still help you as always. In fact, it is a great thing to have such a friend around you. He may help you with many things without making you worry too much. If you do not do well, he will help you over and over again. Change and make those things perfect.