If you want to get close friends, you must first open your heart. Speak the truth, be truthful, don't be secretive or hesitant, and exchange your frankness for the sincerity and friendship of your friends. Just as Comrade Xie Juezai wrote in a poem: "After traveling thousands of miles, the body is still healthy, and the courage is not cold after experiencing many hardships. But there are dusty blemishes that need to be wiped away, and the heart and lungs are open for others to see."

There is a British writer. , named Halton, who interviewed Darwin for a book called "The Character and Cultivation of British Scientists". Darwin's frankness is well known. For this reason, Halton asked Darwin directly and bluntly: "What is your main shortcoming?" Darwin replied: "You don't understand mathematics and new languages, you lack observation, and you are not good at logical reasoning. "Thinking," Halton asked again: "What is your academic attitude?" Darwin replied: "You are very diligent, but you have not mastered the learning method." After hearing these words, who would not applaud Darwin's frankness and sincerity? Ordinarily, who would object to a world-famous scientist like Darwin saying a few innocuous words in response to a writer's question, and even adding a few more halos to his reputation? But not Darwin. One is one, two is two, and even exposes one's shortcomings unabashedly in front of people. Such a noble character must be rewarded with sincere trust and respect. The same goes for friendships. If you dare to tell the truth, your friends will be moved by your honesty and they will truly like you, and the reward they will give you will also be to tell the truth.

In ancient my country. When making friends, the word "faith" is emphasized. "Believe" means sincerity. "Yan Zi Chun Qiu Nei Pian Cun Xia" contains the words "Believe in friends". Think of "letter" as an important link between friends. "Faith" was regarded as one of the five permanent virtues in feudal society and a human virtue. In the past, the enlightenment book for children, "Young Learning Qionglin", there was a chapter dedicated to making friends, and there were various summaries: "You and I are of the same mind, and the sun shines brightly, and friends who support each other shine brightly", "There is no going against the will of the heart, and the old "The friendship between young and old is forgotten", "The friendship between the two is like being with Lian Po, and the friendship between Sun Ce and Zhou Yu is the same." What is mentioned here is the depth of friendship, and the root of deep friendship is to treat others sincerely.

Emotional communication between people is mutual, and harmonious emotions are heart-to-heart communication. Only when we meet each other with sincerity and sincerity will our hearts be united. Psychologists once listed 550 adjectives that describe people on the topic of "Like and Attraction" and asked students to indicate the extent to which they like a person with the above characteristics. As a result, six of the eight highest-rated adjectives—sincere, honest, faithful, authentic, trustworthy, and reliable—were related to sincerity; while the lowest-rated adjectives were lying, pretending, and Dishonest. The passage of time and the changes of the times have not weakened the luster of "sincerity" in the palace of friendship. On the contrary, due to the progress of society, people have added luster to "sincerity".

Without sincerity, there is no friendship. The voice of a sincere person can arouse the cries of a large group of sincere people. Give me a peach and give me a plum in return. sincere. Should become a permanent companion in our lives.