She has only one goal, that is, to send her children to key schools.
The difference between ordinary mothers and "Haidian mothers" lies in the degree, method and mentality of "Chicken Baby".
Of course, "Haidian mother" doesn't mean a mother who lives in Haidian, but it can be any one of you and me.
They have a special way of communication. If you don't understand these slang words, you can't get into the circle of friends of "Haidian Mom". For example:
Another example:
These "slang words" are well known in Haidian's mother's stomach. If you don't understand, congratulations, you may not be a qualified "Haidian mother".
Haidian mother attaches great importance to her children's academic performance. If her children's academic performance is poor, she is likely to make herself sick.
People's Livelihood Channel once broadcast a story that a child was "lame" by anger because his grades dropped!
Ms. Chen, 35, woke up one day and felt weak, limping and afraid to lift her feet.
Ms. Chen said that this situation is related to the children's grades.
Her children are going to junior high school soon, and their previous grades are ok, but they are too playful. In the final exam last semester, the child only got 6 points. Because of my poor family conditions, I was particularly anxious and didn't sleep for several nights.
on that day, I suddenly found myself unwell, bored and unable to walk normally.
Later, it was diagnosed as hysteria by doctors.
The doctor explained that hysteria is a mental illness, such as some life events, inner conflicts and self-suggestion, which act on individuals and cause mental disorders.
fortunately, Ms. Chen has recovered after treatment.
Ms. Chen's story is not just an example. It summarizes the news of "Chicken Baby" in the past two years. Let's see if it is familiar.
Many netizens commented: It's really "deformed" for parents to be such "chicken" babies!
When ordinary mothers are still thinking about whether or not to help their children with their homework and how to help them with their homework, they keep hitting the wall; In the eyes of Haidian mother, it's nothing at all.
How can a child cope with the "Six Xiaoqiang" exam if he only studies the contents in the textbook? As a result, they have worked closely with off-campus institutions.
The "Haidian mother" I know is also a second-born mother. Dabao is 1 years old and Erbao is 5 years old.
Let's take a look at this mother's "Chicken Baby" schedule.
Dabao's baby timetable: Brother, 1 years old, grade 4, gets up at 6:3 every day and goes to bed at 22:3.
From the analysis of my brother's schedule, my mother attaches great importance to the English of the "chicken" children:
Of course, if I want to "chicken" in the direction of "Niu Wa", English is the foundation. As far as I know, this brother has passed the PET exam.
Let's take a look at Erbao's schedule again: Sister, 5 years old, in kindergarten, gets up at 7: every day and goes to bed at 22:.
Compared with my brother's schedule, my sister is in the "input" stage, and there are relatively few English tasks, only one: brushing RAZ.
However, compared with my brother's math, my sister's math is a bit "fierce":
It seems that my mother makes this arrangement and hopes my sister can make a breakthrough in math. After reading my sister's schedule, I almost forgot that Erbao is just a five-year-old girl!
Haidian mothers generally have a state of mind-anxiety.
In order to make their children "go ashore" successfully, they quit their high-paying jobs in foreign companies and become full-time mothers or full-time fathers.
You can see the clue from some extracurricular training institutions, such as the Olympic Mathematics Training Course. Because parents can study in class, children sit in the front row and parents sit in the back row.
Parents study much more carefully than their children. They brush the questions first, then understand all the knowledge points, and finally guide their children. If children are poor at school, the anxiety level of parents can be imagined.
I have a friend, who is Miss Tsinghua University. Her child was promoted to junior high school four years ago. In the second half of the sixth grade alone, I enrolled my children in three Olympic math classes, which cost 3, yuan.
She said: I'm a teacher in Tsinghua. If my children can't get into the middle school attached to Tsinghua University and won't go to Tsinghua in the future, they will definitely be looked down upon. This invisible pressure is pressing on her and making her breathless.
Fortunately, the child was admitted to Tsinghua High School. She said that if the child failed the exam that year, she would have to commit suicide ...