In modern society, blind date has become the main way for many people to find the other half. Blind date is a traditional way of understanding. Through the meeting and communication between the two parties, it is judged whether the other party meets their own mate selection criteria. However, it is often not enough to judge a person only from aspects such as appearance and manners. It is more important to understand each other's three views, namely, world outlook, outlook on life and values. Then, in the process of blind date and getting along, how should we understand each other's three views? The following suggestions may help you get to know each other better.
1. Communication
In the process of blind date, communication between the two sides is the most direct way to understand each other's three views. Through chatting, you can know each other's family background, growth experience, hobbies and other information, so as to judge whether the other party's three views meet their expectations. In the process of communication, we should pay attention to listen to each other's views, respect each other's ideas, and avoid expressing our views too strongly, so as not to cause the other party's disgust.
Step 2 observe words and deeds
A person's words and deeds can often reflect his three views. In the process of blind date, we can understand each other's three views by observing each other's behavior and words. For example, the other party is not good to the waiter, which may indicate that he lacks the consciousness of respecting others; If the other person always complains about life, it may indicate that he has a negative attitude towards life. Of course, we should maintain an objective and fair attitude when observing, and we should not judge each other's three views because of some individual phenomena.
Know your circle of friends.
A person's circle of friends can often reflect his values and outlook on life. In the process of blind date, you can try to get to know each other's circle of friends and see what kind of people his friends are, and whether there are people who don't agree with their own ideas. By understanding each other's circle of friends, we can understand each other's three views more comprehensively. At the same time, we should also keep a proper distance, and don't pry into each other's private lives too much, so as not to make each other feel disgusted.
Share personal experiences
In the process of blind date, you can actively share your growth experience, outlook on life and other information with each other, so that the other party can understand our three views. By sharing personal experiences, you can let the other person know more about his own personality and values, so as to judge whether he is suitable for the other person. At the same time, we should also listen to each other's experiences, give care and support, and enhance mutual understanding and trust.
5. Observe the ways to cope with stress.
There will always be all kinds of pressures and difficulties in life, and a person's coping style can often reflect his three views. In the process of blind date, we can judge each other's three views by observing their coping style when facing pressure. For example, if the other party can actively face difficulties and bravely seek solutions, then he is likely to have a positive outlook on life; If the other person always complains and evades when encountering difficulties, then he may have a negative attitude towards life.
In short, it is very important to understand each other's three views in blind date and getting along. Through communication, observing words and deeds, understanding friends circle, sharing personal experiences and observing ways to cope with stress, we can understand each other's three views more comprehensively and accurately. Only in this way can we find the right partner and live a good life together.