At any stage of life, you must be cautious in your words and deeds in order to go far. Sometimes we fail because we don't think and speak too freely.
00 1 Be careful when drinking.
I have a friend in the army who is straightforward, easy to make friends, generous to friends and a little youthful.
Once, at a dinner party, I had dinner with my leader. I was drinking happily when a village director ran in and toasted the leader with a smiling face.
When the village director handed it to a friend, out of courtesy, the friend made a courtesy greeting and clinked glasses with the village director. Who knows, the village director's eyes tilted and his mouth tilted. "Who are you?"
Friends are also moody people, and they get angry when they listen. With the strength of wine, they grabbed the beer bottle on the table and smashed it on the ground. Persuaded by others, the meal broke up in discord.
Later, because of this incident, although it was caused by the village director, my friend was also affected.
My friend told me that he regretted it afterwards. I was a little impulsive when people were sarcastic. I should be able to do something smarter. Especially after drinking, we should pay more attention to our words and deeds.
After listening to my friend's story, I also paid special attention to this point on the wine table. When I feel that I have started to drink too much, I will control my tongue, talk less and go home and lie down. Drunk behavior is an important aspect to test a person's character.
Be careful when surfing the internet.
Nowadays, the Internet is very common and developed. Because on the internet, it is another world separated from life, as long as you don't violate the law, you can express your opinions without fear. When a person is alone, he should pay more attention to caution and independence. Everything you say and do represents your personal brand and will leave a mark.
Therefore, whether in the community or in a corner of the network, we should always pay attention to our words and deeds and abide by legal norms, moral norms and personal behavior norms.
For example, the "death of a poor family's champion" that has been continuously fermented on the Internet recently suddenly became a news, and was immediately pointed out by netizens that the content of the article was fabricated and the time was disordered. Indeed, articles like Cold Door often go beyond the basic moral requirements of the media in order to pursue more click-through rates, cause a sensational effect, grasp some psychological and life pain points of young people in their self-development, catch their eyes with fabricated methods, and distort their expressions with dramatic methods, thus being criticized in many ways.
003 people should be careful.
To strengthen personal cultivation, don't get carried away just because you have some skills, but be more cautious. Often when a person is not in power, he can still maintain a modest and prudent attitude. Once you reach the leadership position, there will be more flowers and applause around you, and more people will say compliments. At this time, it is easier to be proud, lose yourself, speak in an arrogant tone, and always do things lavishly. In the end, it was himself who suffered.
For example, Yang Xiu, the most famous genius in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, was finally killed by Cao Cao because of his arrogance.
"A gentleman is sensitive to things, but cautious about words."
There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people. In any case, try to do your own thing, keep a modest and prudent attitude, and insist on visiting yourself three times a day. Especially in three aspects: drunken behavior, network and personal cultivation, we should be more cautious.