Why do friends alienate each other
First, friends are alienated because they look down on the world, and it is neither interesting nor boring to associate with friends.
A friend's heart can't look straight. If you look directly at it, you will find that a friend's heart will be extremely strong and peaceful when there is no interest involved. But when it comes to interests, friends will start to haggle over every ounce. In this way, they will feel less tired and only more tired. They saw more changes in human feelings among their friends and heard more indifference in the world among their friends. They don't want to be close to their friends, preferring to be comfortable alone. They would rather spend more time with their families than with their friends. ?
Second, the relationship between friends looks strong, but it is actually an illusion. Intrinsically so fragile, if you don't continue to operate, the relationship between friends will gradually drift away.
We can't live without eating and drinking, and we get together every once in a while. But when there is no contact for a long time because of various delays, the relationship between friends will gradually fade away, let alone meet, even if there is little contact, there is no other intersection except false greetings on holidays. After the ups and downs of Friends, I realized that friendship is one of the best realistic relationships in the world. The relationship between friends is not like that between close relatives, so friends are better than close relatives in achieving their goals. When friends achieve their goals, their actions are far less than those of their closest relatives. Friends are maintained by water, but closest relatives are maintained by blood. Whenever and wherever, blood is thicker than water.
Third, the management of friendship needs to be natural. The more people grow up and mature, the more they will put family first. In daily life, they will spend more spare time on their families, making their lives colorful.
True friends don't need to be managed, so they won't make their friendship indifferent. True friends never need to be deliberately maintained. However, when you are in urgent need of money or friends' help, true friends will do their best to give generously. Unfortunately, the number of real friends is small and hard to meet, and nine times out of ten they will follow suit.
Conclusion: Don't give up the foundation in communication. If you treat your relatives with half your mind as you treat your fake friends, you will not be in vain, and you will even get multiple rewards.