I have been an independent person since I was a child. Although my friends have complained about me, I can't live independently. Almost all the decisions were made by myself. What high school did you go to, what university did you go to, what major did you choose, and what job did you do when you came out. As the boss of the family, I even make decisions for the youngest child, what school to go to and what major to choose. So in the face of any topic, I can weigh the pros and cons and make my favorite choice, although this choice may not be correct.
But I still have a woman, most of whom have problems and like to be affirmed by others. So even if I already know what I'm doing, I still have to ask my friends for advice. At this time, I think a true friend can hear my bias from my narrative attitude, stand on my side and support me and say: this is good! ! In this way, I can take a road that I am willing to take without hesitation! Even if I go the wrong way in the end, I have seen the scenery on the road!
Most good friends reflect their real life or some aspect of their ideals. Life itself is full of contradictions, and it is especially easy to lose oneself when the will is not firm, especially those who lack care since childhood, like to look down on themselves, are indecisive and lack firm strength in their hearts. So some hobbies are different and nothing.