Tips to me

1. The appearance is not annoying. If the appearance is not good, let yourself be talented;

If you have no talent, Then always smile.

2. Temperament is the key. If you are not good at fashion, you would rather be simple.

3. When shaking hands with others, hold it for a while. Sincerity is a treasure.

4. It is not necessary to use "I" as the subject in everything.

5. Don’t borrow money from friends.

6. Don’t “force” guests to look at your family photo album.

7. When talking to someone, please sit next to the driver first.

8. Persist in saying good things about others behind their backs, and don’t worry that the good things won’t reach the ears of the person involved.

9. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.

10. When driving a car, don’t stop to say hello to a colleague on a bicycle. People will think you are showing off.

11. Visit your colleague when he is sick. She naturally sat on his hospital bed and washed her hands carefully after returning home.

12. Don’t let others know everything about the past.

13. Respect people who don’t like you.

14. Be kind to things but not people; or be ruthless to things, but be affectionate to people; or be a person first and do things second.

15. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise does not.

16. Nothing improves your bowling performance more than onlookers. So, don’t begrudge your cheers.

17. Don’t take other people’s goodness for granted. Be grateful.

18. The "starling" on the banyan tree is talking, but he only talks but does not listen, and the result is chaos. Learn to listen.

19. Respect the master in the reception room and the aunt who does the hygiene.

20. Remember to always start with "we" when speaking.

21. Applaud everyone who takes the stage to sing.

22. Sometimes you have to ask questions knowingly: Is your diamond ring expensive?

Sometimes, even if you want to ask, you can’t ask, such as: How old are you?

23. Talking too much will lead to mistakes. Talk less when there are many people.

24. Change the unspoken "no" to: "It takes time", "I will try my best", "I'm not sure", "I will give it to you when I decide"

You call”...

25. Don’t expect everyone to like you, that’s impossible. Making most people like you is a sign of success.

26. Of course, you have to like yourself.

How to use language arts and self-deprecation to protect yourself

Korean people laugh at themselves and say: "In Korea, there are many people selling golf balls, but few people who can actually play golf."

Americans laughed at themselves and said: "In the United States, there are many people who help basketball stars with lawsuits, but few people who can actually play basketball."

Fans said: "In China, help China There are many fortune tellers on the football team, but few who can actually play football."

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Humor has always been said to be only smart. It is a language art that only talents can master, and self-deprecation is also called the highest state of humor. It can be seen from this that those who can laugh at themselves must be the wisest among wise and the master among masters. Self-deprecation is a technique that people who lack self-confidence dare not use because it requires you to scold yourself. That is to say, one should "make fun of" one's own mistakes, shortcomings and even physical defects. Instead of covering up or avoiding the ugly and shameful parts, one should amplify, exaggerate and analyze them, and then cleverly extend them, justify them, and get a smile. It is impossible to do this without an open-minded, optimistic, detached and playful attitude and mind. It is conceivable that people who are self-righteous, calculating, and sarcastic are hard to come by. Laughing at yourself doesn't hurt anyone, it's the safest thing to do. You can use it to liven up the conversation and eliminate tension; to find a way out of embarrassment and save face; to gain human touch in public situations; to insinuate under special circumstances and prick the unreasonable villain.

1. Tickling yourself and laughing

In interpersonal communication, when you are embarrassed in front of others or in an embarrassing situation, using self-deprecation to deal with the embarrassment not only makes it easy to find steps, but also often produces humorous effects. Therefore, laughing at yourself, tickling yourself a few times, and laughing first is a very clever way to escape.

It is said that in ancient times, there was a scholar Shi who accidentally fell to the ground while riding a donkey. Most people would be at a loss, but this scholar stood up calmly and said: "Thankfully I am a scholar Shi." , If it's made of tiles, why don't you break it into pieces?" A witty remark made everyone present laugh, and naturally Shi Xuetu was spared the embarrassment in the laughter. By analogy, if a fat man falls down, you can say: "If it weren't for the weight of the body, wouldn't the bones be broken?" If you switch to a thin man, you can say: "If it weren't for the light weight, this fall would break the bones." "I've become a meat pie!" The author personally experienced such an incident: the wife of a short scholar laughed at her husband for being too short. The scholar said with a smile: "I think it would be better to be shorter. If I am not 1.57 meters , can you make a masterpiece now? If it weren't for my short stature, would you have won every battle? If I hadn't been short, could you have said that I was too short?

It can be seen that it is easy to be funny when you laugh at yourself by fiercely attacking one of your own shortcomings. But with this magnanimity and courage, others will not let you laugh alone, but will usually laugh with you a few times.

After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, Zhang Daqian returned to his hometown in Sichuan from Shanghai. Before leaving, his friends held a farewell banquet for him and specially invited Mei Lanfang and others to accompany him. At the beginning of the banquet, everyone asked Zhang Daqian to take the first seat. Zhang said: "Mr. Mei is a gentleman and should sit in the first seat. I am a villain and should accompany the last seat." Mei Lanfang and everyone else did not understand what he meant. Zhang Daqian explained: "Isn't there a saying, 'A gentleman speaks and a villain uses his hands'? Mr. Mei uses his mouth when he sings, and I use my hands when I paint. I should understand that Mr. Mei should sit first." All the guests in the hall laughed and said Ask them to take the first seat side by side. Zhang Daqian laughs at himself as a villain, as if he is self-deprecating, but "the drunkard's intention is not to drink", which not only shows Zhang Daqian's open-mindedness, but also creates a relaxed and harmonious conversation atmosphere.

A man was about to go abroad for further study. His wife said half-jokingly: "When you go to that colorful world, you might fall in love with other women!" He said with a smile: "Look at me. He has a handsome face and bow-legged legs. He is so handsome that people can’t even look at him when he is standing on the road.” His wife was amused by this sentence. Everyone is taboo about mentioning their flaws in appearance, but this husband is able to accept his own congenital shortcomings and does not care about exposing them. This kind of self-deprecation embodies a sugar-candy attitude and life wisdom. Isn't it more effective than solemnly swearing to your wife that you will never flirt with women? At this time, he must have become beautiful and lovely in the eyes of his wife.

In social situations, when you fall into an embarrassing situation, you can often get out of it gracefully by laughing at yourself. At a reception at a club, the waiter accidentally spilled beer on a guest's shiny bald head while pouring wine. The waiter was so frightened that everyone in the audience was stunned. But the guest smiled and said, "Brother, do you think this treatment method will be effective?" The people present laughed at the sound, and the awkward situation was immediately broken. By using self-deprecation, this guest not only showed his generosity, but also maintained his self-dignity and eliminated his sense of shame.

It can be seen that self-deprecation in a timely and appropriate manner is a good cultivation and a powerful communication skill. Self-deprecation can create a relaxed and harmonious conversation atmosphere, make you live a relaxed and free life, make people feel your loveliness and humanity, and sometimes it can more effectively maintain face and establish a new psychological balance.

2． Public figures need to laugh at themselves more.

In interpersonal interactions, it is easy for people to feel arrogant when dealing with people in high positions or celebrities. It may be because others are too nervous and stressed, or it may be that these people have not yet figured out how to get along with ordinary people. Generally speaking, making fun of yourself can relieve the stress of others, and can also make ordinary people feel humane and like ordinary people, which makes people feel comfortable.

There are many such examples, and some comedians, comedians or program hosts often use this to win praise from the audience.

There are also such people in life. A teacher, although only in his 40s, has mostly bald hair, revealing a "barren land". In the past, students often called him the bald teacher behind his back. Later, he simply explained the reason for his baldness due to illness to his classmates in class. Finally, he added this self-deprecating sentence: "There are benefits to losing your hair. At least the light in the classroom will be much brighter when I go to class in the future." The students burst into friendly laughter, and no one called him the bald teacher again.

Of course, self-deprecation does not mean self-abuse, nor does it mean making oneself embarrassed. It’s important to be measured here.

Strive to be personal, vivid and learn to laugh at yourself appropriately, which can often make your own words interesting. The power of humor can identify with humorous things. Therefore a truly great man laughs at himself and encourages others to laugh with him. They give and receive by sharing their humanity with others, and you can do the same!

President Lincoln also made fun of himself, especially his own appearance. Once he opened his communication with others with such a short story:

“Sometimes I feel like an ugly person. I met an old woman while walking in the forest. The old woman said: "You are the ugliest person I have ever seen. ’ ‘I can’t help myself. ’ replied the ugly man. ‘No, I don’t think so! ’ The old woman said, ‘At least you can stay at home and not go out! ’

“I wasn’t good-looking when I was a kid,” said humorist, actor, and director Woody Allen. “I didn’t look like this until I grew up. ”

Laughing at the way you look or at the things you do less than beautifully will make you more human. If you happen to be handsome or beautiful, try out your other flaws. If you If there is really no shortcoming, just make it up. It is usually not difficult to find. A college football coach was asked about a certain star player. The coach said: "He is a senior and a very good player. But there is one drawback: he is already a senior. ”

If your characteristics, abilities, or achievements may cause others to be jealous or even fearful, then try to change these bad perceptions. For example, you can say a wisecrack: “There is no one in the world.” is perfect, and I'm the perfect example of that." You laugh with others by making fun of yourself, and you will help others like you, respect you, and even admire you because the power of your humor proves that you are human.

"I like you" leads to "I understand you", and then "I believe you". So, your final goal is trust. When others trust you, you can influence them and make them push themselves to develop. Their potential. This is the ultimate goal of everyone when communicating with others.

In fact, whether you are a big person or a small person, laughing at yourself can make you popular. Self-deprecating can reduce jealousy and gain a good reputation. Little people can enjoy themselves and even become comedians overnight.

3. If a person does not laugh at himself, he will appear stingy

Open-mindedness is inherent in humor.

Being optimistic about everything, seeing hope even when you are in jail, instead of being sad and gloomy all day long, your valuable thinking mode is 'it's no big deal,'" It’s not about being preoccupied and overly serious; thinking too much about your own shortcomings and incompetence, often laughing at yourself, rather than being the best in the world and blindly trying to win. This is open-mindedness.

Open-mindedness often means detachment, but it does not develop to nothingness, so it is still a positive factor and a manifestation of beautiful human nature.

(Chinese Soft Humor) recorded such an incident: A film director went to live in rural Sichuan in the 1960s. When it rained at noon, he saw a small hut to avoid, so he rushed to break down the door. When I walked in, I met an old couple making out in bed, so I hurriedly left, feeling embarrassed and unsure whether to stay or go. Not expecting the old man to go out and invite him warmly, he smiled and explained: "Nothing will happen on a rainy day." The old lady also interjected: "It also saves you from being hungry."

(Selected Yaxiao ) has the following story: A man boasted to his guests about his wealth: "My family has everything." He stretched out two fingers and said: "The only thing missing is the sun and the moon in the sky.

Before he could finish speaking, a servant at home came out and said, "We have run out of firewood in the kitchen." The man stretched out his finger again and said, "The sun, moon and firewood are missing." ”

The protagonists in the above two humorous stories made fun of their own embarrassment and predicament, allowing them to get out of the embarrassing situation gracefully, which shows their open-minded demeanor. Let’s just imagine, What else can they do?

Standing outside themselves and appreciating their own trauma can produce a period of happiness for a man named Heywood Bloth. He had invested 40 years of savings in the stock market and lost them all in the 1929 crisis. When he heard the news, his reaction was not to burst into tears or shout, but just to say: "It came quickly. , went away quickly. "It was lost overnight. We have to say "it went quickly", but was it really "quickly came"? No, we know that it was his 40 years of savings. Obviously, he escaped from his own disaster There is a story in Qi Yan Lu: Liu Zhuo and his cousin Liu Xuan were both very knowledgeable and were arrested for breaking the law. The county officials did not know that they were big officials. Scholars were all put in shackles. Liu Zhuo said: "I sit in shackles (home) all day long, but I can't go home." " Liu Xuan said, "I also sit in the shackles of my wife all day long, but I don't see my wife. "

Compared with Bloth, their self-deprecation is more interesting and more skillful. The lonely and desolate life without their family and wife does not seem serious. Like Bloth, they Laughing at one's own tragedy actually means defeating it.

Narrow-mindedness, calculation and stubbornness are often the enemies of open-mindedness and boldness. Therefore, they are often ridiculed and ridiculed in humor. . See:

When Donald came home from a day in the capital, he kept complaining that the rent for the room he stayed in that night was as much as six pounds. His friend said: "It's nothing. , I believe you will enjoy your sightseeing there. "Donald said: "Where! I haven't seen anything good at all! Do you think I would pay so much rent and not make full use of the room? "

Donald's gains and losses are clear at a glance. This is quite like Chen Kesheng, a Chinese writer Gao Xiaosheng, who fainted in the city and was sent to a high-end hotel. When he checked out, the price was so high that he was surprised. He immediately Go back to the room, sit on Simmons and the sofa and jump a few times to make full use of the room. Chen Kesheng and Donald have become the objects of ridicule by the author, which shows the importance of open-mindedness.

Finally. , what needs to be pointed out in particular is: you should be detached when mocking yourself, rather than being harsh and humiliating.

Most scholars believe that laughing at one's own shortcomings and stupidity is the highest state of humor. The emotion of ridicule is different. If we laugh bitterly at ourselves and feel that we have made stupid mistakes and deserve to be punished, we will only feel humiliated because the underlying idea behind this attitude is to believe that we should be more than we actually are. Well, this attitude towards life is the obstacle to our detachment. If we laugh at ourselves with love in our hearts, we can achieve a kind of amiable detachment, because we think we are stupid, but we don't care about ourselves.

4. It is safest to scold yourself

When you want to make a joke, tell a short story, or make a witticism or a funny talk, the safest target is yourself. Who would be unhappy about it?

There is an unwritten law that says that those who can laugh at themselves have the right to make fun of others. Sir Winston Churchill once used the power of humor to reduce the stress of war. A wise saying about a political colleague: “He was a humble man, and he had many things that humbled him. "

People in politics must be mentally prepared and may be attacked at any time. However, for ordinary people, in daily life, if the "he" in Churchill's wise saying is changed to "I", It will appear more powerful. Whenever you want to criticize, complain, or make suggestions, the "I" point of view is ideal.

Establish yourself as a humorous target, and you can convey information and express opinions without being distracted. Attack others.

For example: "A conceited person has a low appetite and is more interested in himself than in me."

"I am not old, I have just reached the prime of my life. It's just that I have spent more and more money than others. It takes a lot of time to reach the prime of life. "

"I am a friend you can rely on. I am always there for you - when I need you."

Self-deprecation is widely used and safe. Here are a few examples:

① In impromptu speeches, if the speaker can self-mockery and distort himself in a timely and appropriate manner, it is a sign of high intelligence and education. Speakers can get humor from this to "lubricate" the relationship between the speaker and the audience and increase the interest of the speech.

On February 9, 1930, Cai Yuanpei’s 70th birthday, people from all walks of life in Shanghai held a banquet for him at the International Hotel. When thanking him, he said humorously and freely: "Everyone who comes to wish me a birthday is nothing more than Asking me to do things a few more years. I have lived to be 70 years old, and I feel that I have done wrong for the past 69 years. If I want to live a few more years, I will just do a few more years of wrong things." When the guests heard this, they burst into laughter. , the whole banquet was full of laughter and laughter. Just imagine, if he had put on a serious look and said his thanks in a serious manner, he would not have created such a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. However, when using the "lubricant" of self-deprecation, you must pay attention to the scene and situation. It is not appropriate to use this "liquid" that makes people laugh in serious situations or in sad atmospheres.

③ Frankly teasing yourself can relieve tension.

When movies or TV shows show blind dates, often when one of the parties is about to speak, the other party also happens to speak, making the two people extremely embarrassed and have to swallow back what they were about to say. After a pause, , the two spoke at the same time... This embarrassing situation happened repeatedly. From a third perspective, this is a comedy, but for the person involved, it is a quite bitter experience.

I have also witnessed this embarrassing scene. At that time, the man who seemed to be both gentle and honest, in order to break the deadlock, said half-jokingly: "We seem to even breathe in the same breath!" After hearing this, not only the heroine couldn't help but laugh, but also the adults who came with her. They also laughed. Afterwards, everyone seemed very relaxed and everything went smoothly.

It is natural to feel nervous when meeting someone for the first time. The problem is, if you think too much about your first meeting, the tension will build. In order to avoid this situation from happening, it is a feasible method to talk about the situations when you are nervous or even failed and laugh at yourself. For example, when someone says, "Look! When I'm nervous, it's like I'm suffering from alcoholism. My hands keep shaking. There's nothing I can do about it." After saying this, his hands stop shaking.

③Bold self-sarcasm can show self-confidence and maintain face.

Sometimes you are embarrassed due to your own reasons, such as appearance defects, your own shortcomings, mistakes in words and deeds, etc. Confident people can better maintain their self-esteem, while people with low self-esteem often fall into embarrassment. . Boldly and skillfully mocking yourself for the shortcomings that affect your own image can unexpectedly show your self-confidence, and you can quickly get out of trouble while showing your unrestrained social charm. If you are "not at a high altitude", you might as well say that you are small in size, strong in face, and concentrated in high technology; if you are ugly and you find a beautiful girl, you might as well say, "I am ugly but I am gentle"; even if you Just like Liu Jing, if you have a small hunchback on your back, you might as well say that you are a crooked person. No wonder the American Herb Trudeau listed self-mockery as the highest level of humor in his book "A Humorous Life". It is even more amazing if you can combine your own embarrassment into the topic and elicit educational and enlightening truths based on the specific communication situation and language environment. For example, a teacher with a Cantonese accent and poor Mandarin once took Chinese language classes. When I was talking about a certain problem and wanted to give examples, I said "I have four metaphors" instead of "I have four farts." For a moment, the classroom seemed to explode, and the students laughed uncontrollably. The teacher had an idea. , recited a limerick: "Four farts, making a big fool of yourself. Dear classmates, don't follow my example. Practice Mandarin well as soon as possible, and you will be young, free and beautiful." "The teacher's wit and humor won warm applause from the students.

④ Self-mockery can show open-mindedness and increase human touch.

Laughing at our own appearance, or laughing at the things we don’t do very beautifully, will make us more humane and give people a sense of affability. Once, Chen Yi went to a relative’s house to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival. . When he entered the house, he found a good book, so he concentrated on reading it, marking it with a brush while reading. The owner urged him several times to go to eat. When he didn't go, he brought rice cakes and candies. While he was reading and eating, he actually put the glutinous rice cake into the inkstone, dipped it in ink and put it into his mouth. The relatives laughed heartily when they saw it. But he said: "It doesn't matter if you eat some ink. I just feel that I have too little ink in my stomach! People like Chen Yi. Isn't it related to his open-minded and humorous nature?

In short, in social interaction In situations, self-deprecation is a rare panacea. When other methods fail, you might as well make fun of yourself. At least it is safe to criticize yourself. Unless you criticize others, you will generally not dislike others. The golden rule of a wise man is: no matter what If you want to laugh at others, laugh at yourself first.

5. Don’t laugh at yourself

When your mistakes cause conflicting emotions, if you can laugh at yourself in a timely manner, It shouldn't be difficult to get forgiveness. It's like two people fighting. One of them suddenly falls to the ground and thinks he is no match. If the other person is not a rogue, the hostility will usually disappear in a good-natured and funny way, and maybe he will help himself to defeat. The following is a specific example of this method:

① If the hostility in the conversation comes from a minor gaffe, it can be tactfully explained by just laughing at yourself. For example, you said an unpleasant and dirty word during the conversation. If you say obscene words, the other person's face will darken. You can laugh at yourself and say: "Hey, I'm such a rough person. I can't get rid of the dirty words in my belly. I have to forgive you a lot. "An interjection can make the other party no longer mind. Or if you are a little excited during an argument, your words are blunt, your voice is loud, and the other party is already unhappy. You should quickly stop the conversation: "I'm sorry, I am easily excited. I was really excited just now. Became a fighting cock. "The other party will definitely laugh.

③ If the conversation hurts the other person's self-esteem and exposes the other party's hidden scars, it is dangerous. If the other party is well-educated, he will definitely keep silent and leave; if the other party is poorly-educated, See if he doesn't attack you personally! At this time, you must think of a way to laugh at yourself, right? But you should try to be more humorous and sincere to make the other person feel happy. For example, you talk about healthy people in front of a disabled person. Advantages, and mentioning the jobs that he cannot do, he will definitely be very dissatisfied. You can say: "Well, having said that, healthy people may not be strong. Zhang Haidi was paralyzed, but he was able to learn a skill and became famous all over the world. I am a person with well-developed limbs and a simple mind. I speak without thinking about the future. My mother often calls me a bad old man..."

③After the wrong words are spoken, wittily lead the topic to the next. Self. Eliminate the other person's hostility and shift the other person's focus of attention through friendly attacks. The advantage of this is that it can take care of the other person's self-esteem without any trace, and at the same time subtly ease the tense atmosphere.

The new students arrived in a certain dormitory and were vying for seats. Lao Qi was outspoken and argued with Lao Ba for a long time. When Lao Ba, who was a few days younger than him, finally took the last seat, he said, "Okay. You're at the bottom. You are the treasure of our dormitory, and your surname is Wang. From now on, I will call you ‘King of Liao’. "The speaker was unintentional, but the listener was intentional. It turned out that the old man had pimples all over his face, commonly known as "Youth Beauty Syndrome". He always felt very deeply about it. How could he not be annoyed at this time? When Lao Qi saw that it had caused another disturbance, he felt very regretful. On the surface, he was neither anxious nor annoyed. He looked into the mirror and said to himself: "'Curling up with your cheeks parted, leaning between your ears, all the charm lies in a little bit.' Alas, Lao Ba, I am really like 'one wave is not over, but another wave is rising'! "When Lao Ba heard this, he couldn't help laughing. It turned out that Lao Qi also had freckles on his face.

Lao Qi's self-correction skills are very good. After inadvertently offending others, he immediately responded implicitly. He made some self-mockery, and cleverly used Yu Guangzhong's poem to point out that he also has freckles. His words "one wave is not over, but another wave is coming up", which is not only a self-deprecation of the distribution of freckles on his face, but also a comment on himself. He expressed implicit self-blame for causing trouble twice, thus winning the old man's understanding smile. This kind of self-mockery can gain the other person's forgiveness by making fun of oneself, so it is also a very flexible method of correcting mistakes.

④ Use self-deprecation to resolve distance and hostility in new environments.

Bailey works as a clerk in the shipping department of a large corporate company. When the company was merged with another large company, Bailey was ups and downs in the wave of personnel changes. His new colleagues seemed unfriendly to him, until one day Bailey resorted to self-deprecation. "They wouldn't dare fire me," he explained. "I'm so far behind in everything."

Bailey made fun of himself, making his new colleagues laugh with him, and Help him establish a friendly and cooperative professional relationship. If Bailey's quip really shows that he does have a bad habit of putting off today's work until tomorrow, it also serves as a reminder that he can better understand himself. He used self-irony to objectively examine his own problems - procrastination - and improve his performance, thus achieving success.

6． Saying that you can also make others blush

Any humor is usually a sign of being generous and kind to others. The humorous protagonist who embodies the intention of the humor user or the author usually does not get into trouble with others everywhere, is always in trouble with others, and does not cause trouble over nothing. Generally speaking, he always avoids situations. Even if he is treated unfairly or is wronged that is unbearable for ordinary people, he will not gnash his teeth in resentment, curse in anger, or even use his trump card to kill the other party. However, he is not a wimp, and he will react in his own tolerant way, perhaps with a little ridicule, but certainly less without self-deprecation. In this way, he often becomes a winner at a higher level.

Legend has it that the wife of the Greek philosopher Socrates was a shrew who often lost her temper with him. Socrates always laughed at himself and said to others: "There are many benefits to having a wife like this. It can train my patience." Strengthen my self-cultivation." Once, his wife got angry again and made a fuss, and refused to give up for a long time, so Socrates had to retreat. As soon as he walked out of the house, the angry lady suddenly poured a large basin of water from upstairs, dousing him like a drowned rat. At this time, Socrates shuddered and said calmly: "I have known for a long time that there will be heavy rain after the thunder, and it is just as I expected."

Obviously, Socrates He was somewhat helpless, but his self-deprecating sarcasm helped him escape from this dilemma, showing Socrates' profound life cultivation.

You can make the other person blush by "innuendo", which not only relieves the discomfort, but also serves as a warning, so why not do it.

Comedian Carlo Boni was sitting in a restaurant having lunch. At this moment, an old woman came to her table and raised her hand to touch Carlo's face. When her fingers slid over Carlo's facial features, she said apologetically: "I don't see how beautiful it is."

"Save your blessings!" Carlo said. "I don't look that good."

It is absolutely rude to copy someone's face when you don't know them; when she pretended to be sorry but was actually jealous, the old woman said to the young man The jealousy of a pretty woman develops almost into a vicious acrimony. It is conceivable that if she faced someone as brash and narrow-minded as herself, people might witness a fight. However, Carlo Boni performs comedy, and she deeply understands the difference between comedy and farce. So, with a calm look on her face, she first described the old woman's offensive putdown as a "blessing" and asked her to stop "blessing". Then, he frankly admits that he is not very good-looking, mocking the other person and himself. In the face of rude and arrogant aggression, he preserved his dignity, and at the same time showed a kind of tolerance and kindness, thus defeating the opponent spiritually. There are many elements to make people laugh, and even more elements to make people admire.

Anyone who can control the highest level of language art - humor is already a person with "excessive intelligence", then those who can use the highest level of humor - self-deprecation as a weapon can be called a person on the field of human manipulation. "The uncrowned king", how can we not be awe-inspiring