Possession is a desire to have and control the initiative for one's favorite items or people. A person's possessiveness towards another person is first for some reason, perhaps out of love, or for other reasons, and it is necessary to control this person. Then if you are too controlling, you will have the idea of exclusive enjoyment. Some people like exclusive friendship, but it needs to be controlled reasonably. If exclusive to the point where their friends are not allowed to contact anyone, it is irrational possessiveness and terrible mistake! At present, many people in China do not have a good grasp of friendship. It is easy to cause a sense of oppression and a kind of "bondage" to the other party. So that the other party feels that this friendship is a kind of possession and persecution. There are also many possessive people around us, who, to a great extent, have a kind of suffocating pressure on each other because of their wrong understanding and strong feelings. In fact, both friends need to give each other a certain amount of space and time, so that you will be comfortable and spread in your communication.

in addition, possessive people. To some extent, it's not giving to each other. Instead, I hope the other party will give me more. In the name of friendship, ask for too much from each other blindly. It's easy to get out of balance. Everyone is more or less possessive, but if possessiveness is too strong and there is nothing in the end, it will not only ruin others, but even ruin yourself, which is very harmful.

Therefore, it is better to have a good attitude. Everything is born or not, and everything should be put aside, because nothing belongs to a person. Too strong desire will turn into despair, and in the end, it will be empty. Therefore, we should treat everything seriously and leniently, because we can't run if we don't own it, and we will be sad if we get it. Otherwise, you will not only destroy others, but also yourself.