Friendship is a lamp that illuminates the darkness in my heart;
Friendship is a huge box, harvest happiness and share happiness.
Find a friend in the vast sea of people? Difficult! Find a bosom friend? It is even harder! But all these encounters seem to be arranged by heaven, so that you can get a precious friendship inadvertently, depending on whether you are willing to cherish it. ...
Perhaps, friendship is like this, unexpected. Of course, I am no exception.
Time seems to go back, back to the day when I first got real friendship.
"Rinrin Bell ..." As soon as the bell rang, the students, like birds released from cages, "flew" to the activity venue outside the classroom. Soon after, a burst of laughter came to my ears. Curious, I walked out of the classroom, sat under the tree next to me and watched the game composed of only two or three people. I wanted to dance with them, but I didn't dance after a week. When I got up the courage to join their game, they accepted me without hesitation. In the game, Zhao Zhang and He Lang became my best friends and my first friendship, and this friendship gradually became clear in the interesting game. ...
Of course, there is more than one friendship. In the fourth grade, a boy named Kun Wang sat next to me and was the main seat in the class. At that time, I didn't expect his name to enter my "good friends" list. Because of the seat, our feelings are growing day by day, rising to the position of my bosom friend.
In this way, day after day, year after year, the four of us became inseparable bosom friends, which also made me feel happy from my friends-especially that rainy day.
Which rainy day is a rainy day that makes people unprepared.
Rain keeps falling and changes at any time, sometimes heavy and sometimes small. In the face of this sudden rain, Su Xin and I were at a loss. It's getting dark and the rain hasn't stopped. Just as Kun Wang and I decided to rush home, an umbrella covered my head. I looked back in surprise. It turned out to be He Mingbin. He seems to know what I am thinking. Before I could speak, he asked, "Are you going to the East, too? Then let's go together! " I smiled happily, warm as fire, and instantly occupied my cold heart. I don't know when, He Mingbin appeared between Kun Wang and me, opened his umbrella and said, "Let's go together. I'll just take He Mingbin to the food market. "
In this way, the four of us talked and laughed, breaking the silence on campus.
At that moment, there was a distance in my heart, because at that moment, I understood what true friendship is-lend a helping hand when you are a friend, and a friend will cheer you up when you need help, but in any case, don't abandon your friend or friendship at the last minute.
As time goes by, primary school life is about to say goodbye. There are only a few months left to spend with friends. After graduation, maybe God will let our fate continue, but maybe not. I think, cherish the present time, cherish the present friendship and leave deep memories among friends. Such friendship is the real friendship!
Friendship is an angel that makes me happy;
Friendship is sweeter than cherry happiness;
Friendship is an important part of making the boat of life extremely wonderful!
Isn't friendship worth cherishing
Friendship, a familiar word! The ancients said, "However, as long as China keeps our friendship, heaven is still our neighbor." Teenagers who don't want to have a few sincere friends! But how to build a bridge of friendship? It needs mutual understanding and trust between friends; Friends need heart-to-heart communication.
People are divided into groups. There are no people who have never made friends, but what about those who have really tasted friendship? Only sincere people will cherish friendship and use it to raise the sails of life. And true friends in life, when you are successful, will be happy for you, will celebrate for you and will not support you. As long as you personally experience a sincere friendship, you will be very happy.
A thousand dollars is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. In the vast sea of people, a person who can be called a confidant has your best friend. When you are lonely, he or she will accompany you to relieve boredom. When you are happy, he or she will accompany you and share your happiness; When you are sad, he (she) will guide you and let you stand up again. Having your best friends can not only understand and trust each other, but also have the same interests and ideals. Just like the friendship of management treasure, mutual support, mutual understanding and mutual trust have left an enduring story. Therefore, it is not easy to find a sincere friend.
Heart to heart, a once-in-a-lifetime friendship can become friends, and congenial words can also become old friends. Sincere friendship makes life full of enthusiasm. Just as Marx said: "Friendship is as pure as the fog in the morning. Flattery cannot be obtained, and friendship can only be consolidated by loyalty." Friendship is beautiful and precious. Maintaining friendship is no less than supporting the third pillar of life.
Friendship lasts forever!
Friendship;
1 & gt； A friend is someone who shares happiness with you when you are happy. It is when you are happy that happiness is doubled; When you encounter difficulties, you will break them down; Is to help you get rid of it when you are lonely; It's the one who encouraged you when you were down and out.
Friends are the people everyone wants to have and the people everyone wants to be. In order to make everyone friends and consolidate the relationship between friends, we need something called friendship to water them.
In China, friends are very important. Traditional Confucianism attaches great importance to it and puts forward "sincerity", "faithfulness", "benevolence" and "loyalty", which have always influenced us, penetrated into our lives and influenced our behavior. The rule of being our friend. A series of stories, such as "Looking for a bosom friend in high mountains and flowing water" and "Flying over the eaves and walking on the wall far away from Qian Shan, drinking cups with thousands of waters", are profound expressions of friendship.
"Depend on your parents at home and friends when you go out", which shows the importance of friends and the role of friends is to rely on each other. Instead of opening evil flowers for personal gain in the name of friends and friendship. The difference between the former and the latter is that the former depends on each other and helps each other, especially when friends are in trouble, they depend on each other, encourage each other and help each other out of trouble; The latter "watered" friendship when friends were behind the horse in the spring breeze; It is wise to protect yourself and abandon your friends when they are in trouble. What's more, he added insult to injury.
"A friend in need sees the truth, and a friend in need sees the truth", which is also a criterion to judge the authenticity of friendship. It also shows that friendship needs refinement and sublimation. The friendship of calling each other brothers on the wine table and crowding round when things go smoothly is not a real friendship; True friendship is to give you advice when you are proud and words of concern when you are down and out. Because it has not been flattered by the temptation of fame and fortune, but has been verified and sublimated in difficulties.
"A friend of a gentleman is as light as water" means that making friends should be nothing else. Only in this way can we be alone and not lonely, and make life warmer and more comfortable.
In fact, friends who ask nothing are rare. You might as well close your eyes and delete all the friends who want you. How many are there in the end? Because true friendship is "nothing to ask for", she should not ask for anything, should not rely on anything, refuse all contracts, and be pure and fragile forever. Therefore, it is always so easy to mud and break. Various books also introduce various ways to prevent friendship from breaking up, but those methods are technical. Once technical means enter the emotional field, there is always no good result. Friendship needs to be watered with heart and cultivated with life in order to blossom a brilliant flower of friendship.
In short, we should not only cultivate correct feelings. Because we can have no achievements, and we can never have no friends; We need friendship, but we also need to be alert to evil, prevent hypocrisy and oppose betrayal. About friendship, let's end with a sentence from Mr.
Is it easy to come to this world once?
Is it easy to meet once?
Is it easy to call a friend?
Again-
Learn to cherish and be careful.
It is often said that the purest friendship in the world exists only in childhood. This is an extremely sad sentence, and so many people agree. It is conceivable that life is lonely and difficult. I disagree with this sentence. Childhood friendship is just a pleasant joke, and what adults add by memory is very unreal. The true meaning of friendship comes from adulthood, and it is impossible to reach the best state before it is meaningful.
In fact, many people suddenly find themselves growing up in the sudden change of friendship and feelings. As if it were noon or evening, the difficulties encountered by a good classmate made you feel an unshirkable responsibility. You slow down and begin to understand the weight of life. At this moment, you suddenly grow up.
My mutation happened at the age of ten. From my hometown to Shanghai middle school, facing a strange city, I only have friends in the countryside, but I can't find them. One day I went to a small bookstall to read comic books and happened to see this one. My whole body seemed to be covered by a strange spell, and I tossed and turned. Until dusk, the old man in charge of the book stand patted me on the shoulder with his finger and said that he would go home for dinner. I closed the book and put it in his hand respectfully.
The names of this comic book are Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi.
The pure adult story, on the other hand, makes the difficulty simple and makes me fully understand it. It is clearly saying that no matter how important you are in the future, you will one day escape from the excitement and ride alone, just seeking to meet the mountains and rivers. If you go far, you may meet someone, like a woodcutter, like a hermit, like a passerby, who appears between you and the mountains and rivers. Just a few words will surprise you and make you regret it for life. However, God can't tolerate such perfection. You are doomed to lose him, and at the same time you will lose most of your life.
The story is led by music, then leads to Wan Li's loneliness, then leads to an eternal bosom friend, and then leads to the fragments of the lyre. A wordless starting point leads to a wordless ending, which is friendship. People can't use other words to express its sublimity and rarity, so they can only keep the word "high mountains and flowing water", which has become a strong and ethereal expectation in China culture.
Of course, I didn't know the position of this story in China culture that day. I just know that yesterday's friends are eclipsed, and no one can be regarded as a "bosom friend". How can I have a bosom friend when I haven't made a decent voice? If you are a bosom friend, how can you give up searching hard in the vast sea of clouds and just land on your side and class? These questions made me seriously raise my head for the first time and stare at the streets and people in confusion.
I've been watching it for almost forty years, and it's the year of frosty leaves. If someone asks me, "Did you find it?" My answer is a bit difficult. Maybe I can only say that my lyre is not broken.
I think it is far more difficult than me. In recent years, I attended the memorial service of several predecessors and noticed a detail: the elegiac couplet hanging in the middle of the mourning hall often touched mountains and rivers, but I know that the deceased felt different about the author of the elegiac couplet. But what's the use? Only a few days after the deceased lost his refutation ability, at his only life summing-up ceremony, this friendly speech was so shiny and hard that all the people attending the ceremony bowed their heads and accepted it.
When it was impossible to play the lyre again, Zhong Ziqi came, and there was more than one. In other words, all the bustling Yu Boya people are crying in front of the tomb, and crying has become a "mountain stream".
No malice, just dislocation. But malice can be subverted, but dislocation can't, so dislocation is even more tragic. Among the absurdities of life, the first one is the dislocation of friendship.
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The dislocation of friendship comes from our own confusion.
From the beginning similar to that cartoon, there are always a few wisps of ethereal music hovering in my heart, but I naturally don't like arrogance, I like to take things as they are, and I don't cling to the shortcomings in daily communication. These two aspects are often difficult to balance. After a long time, ethereal music has been difficult to capture, and the excitement around it is boring. Looking for a lonely boat of friendship, neither side can dock. At a loss, some precious fate is fleeting, and a bunch of boring feelings are still being irrigated. You irrigate it, and it grows, covering the sky layer by layer, with branches like dragons and roots like nets. You can't blame it. It thinks it is foil, protection and doting on you. After decades of accumulation, I may have grown into a whole with it, just like in the tropical rain forest of Southeast Asia, architecture and plants are inseparable. No one thought that life, which began with the expectation of friendship, was blocked by friendship and didn't know who he was. Kawabata Yasunari's last words when he committed suicide were "great congestion", which shows that congestion can be fatal. We will be a little more stubborn than him and have the opportunity to shout to ourselves in the face of congestion: what do you want?
I can only wait for my own answer. Ironically, however, most of our answers are not our own. What you can spit casually are the voices of early teachers, kind elders and old works. Fortunately, the fleeting time has also given us another vague discourse system, and we can already argue with those familiar answers.
They say friendship comes from the same profession. Elders like to talk big, and career is actually a career. Are peers the foundation of friendship? Of course not. If it happens occasionally, you can't put the cart before the horse. Can feelings be attached to work, friendship to make a living, and friends limited to colleagues?
They say, you depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out. This sentence not only shows the importance of friends, but also shows that the value of friends lies in being relied on. But can you be friends without reliable practical value? Can people who have helped you count as friends?
They say a friend in need is a friend indeed. This also puts forward a requirement for friendship, hoping to appear in time in times of crisis. It's good to be there, but friendship is not an emergency reserve, so don't deliberately test between friends. ……
I don't know why our nation, which lacks business thinking, emphasizes the principles of practicality and communication so much in friendship.
True friendship does not depend on anything. It does not depend on occupation, fortune and status, experience, orientation and situation. In essence, it rejects utility, ownership and contract. It is the mutual echo and confirmation between independent personalities. It makes people lonely but not lonely, and explains the meaning of their own existence. Therefore, the so-called friends are just those who make each other more comfortable.
Among all the beautiful words about friendship between ancient and modern China and foreign countries, I especially agree with the words of the English poet Hubbard: "It is not the friends we want, but the real friends." True friendship should have the nature of "nothing to ask for" Once you want something, "seeking" becomes the purpose, but friendship has turned into an external decoration. In my opinion, at least half of the friendships in the world are required to be corrupted, even if the content of the requirements is not bad at first glance; Let friendship share sorrow, and let friendship promote work ... Friendship has become a busy tool. What is this? We should lighten the burden of friendship and relax our friends. A friend is a friend and wants nothing more.
In fact, friends who ask for nothing in return are the hardest to find. You might as well close your eyes and delete friends who want you. How much is left?
The friendship between Li Bai and Du Fu is probably the most admirable in the cultural history of China except Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi, but their communication is so short. It's too late to get to know each other and say goodbye in a hurry. Li Bai's farewell poem is: "The eaves are far away, the cup is in hand", and we have never met again. Affectionate Du Fu missed Li Bai from now on, and wrote unforgettable poems no matter where he lived. Li Bai should also miss him very much, but he has a wide range of friends, and Du Fu's name has never appeared in his poems. There seems to be a huge imbalance here, but the best feeling in the world is not conditional on balance. Even though Li Bai no longer missed him, Du Fu made a unilateral promise. Li Bai wants nothing from him, and he wants nothing from Li Bai.
Friendship is profound because there is nothing, whether it is balanced or unbalanced. The poet Zhou Tao described a profound balance: "Two trees talked noisily for a long time in summer and saw each other's yellow leaves falling in the autumn wind. They were silent for a while and said goodbye to each other: see you next summer! "
Chu Chu wrote a profound imbalance: "I really want to live well for you, but I am very tired." You didn't come at the end of my life. Just to see you one last time, I fell here. "It's all unrequited depravity and poetic nobility.
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True friendship is always pure and fragile, because it asks for nothing and does not depend on anything. All lonely people in the world have also met friendship, but they don't know how to identify and maintain it, and they are broken one by one.
In order to prevent damage, predecessors have thought of many ways.
A hard way is to bind friendship, that is, to form gangs. No matter how grand and powerful the ceremony is, in the final analysis, the gang still does not trust the stability of friendship, so it must use heavy punishment under the oath of blood to eliminate deviation. Faction has turned alienated friendship into an organizational violence, which is exactly the opposite of the original meaning of friendship's freedom and autonomy. I think that once the friendship is bound, it has already begun to deteriorate, because no one can tell, how much of the partner's loyalty comes from the heart and how much comes from the rules. Of course, it's not sincere loyalty or friendship. Even from the heart, how many personal elements are left under the embrace of group action? And lose a person, where can we say friendship? It is not difficult to understand that all combinations that devour individual freedom will inevitably lead to large-scale cannibalism. In history, the vast majority of gangs holding high the banner of friendship have finally become the barren land of friendship, even bloody and barren.
A softer way is to dilute friendship. Similarly, out of distrust of the stability of friendship, we can only use dilution concentration to obtain extension. Can it be broken without being condensed into a solid? "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" is a clever statement, which contains wit and helplessness. Unfortunately, it was applied by people who had no wit but no choice. I'm afraid that all the promises can't be fulfilled, so I don't make promises; I'm afraid that all happy encounters can't last, so I didn't make a happy encounter, just kept smiling and nodding in the shadow. Some people also borrowed the mysterious oriental aesthetics to support this attitude: only words can understand; Without a word, it is romantic; I can't find any traces ... in this way, friendship has become a kind of freehand brushwork in ink and wash. However, at this point, what is the difference between friendship and acquaintances? This is not so much maintenance as suffocation, and dying friendship is worse than no friendship, which we all know very well. In the street, an acquaintance politely tugged at the corner of his mouth and handed us an overly reserved smile. Why are we so bored that we would rather turn our heads and say good morning to a statue? At the banquet, a guest extended his hand to show friendliness, but when shaking hands, he extended his finger to show indifference. Why does it make us so sick that we want to wash our hands by the pool?
There is a more vulgar way to paste friendship. Neither cliques nor pretends to be elegant, but greatly reduces the standard of making friends, expands the scope of making friends, and cultivates them harmoniously and widely. I really need friendship, but I don't trust it. I tried to accumulate the dosage to resist the desolation. This is a very tiring thing. I must accept every invitation and respond to every greeting. No one dares to offend. As a result, none of his friends regarded him as a confidant. With such a large catenary, there will inevitably be all kinds of troubles. He doesn't know how to express his position and has no coordination ability. Therefore, his eyes are often erratic, and his tone is flickering, which is inevitably suspected and looked down upon by any party. Most of these people are not bad people and have done nothing wrong. When there is a crack between friends, he sticks to it, and when friends are alienated from himself, he sticks to it. In the end, he also had bitter doubts about this friendship. There is no other way but to stick it in his heart. Always smiling, always in a hurry, but never clear: what is friendship?
The strong bind friendship, elegant downplay friendship, vulgar stick friendship, all in order to prevent friendship from breaking down, but it seems that they are not good methods. The reason may be that these methods rely too much on technical means, and once technical means enter the emotional field, there is always no good result.
In my opinion, in the field of friendship, what we should guard against is not the fragmentation of friendship itself, but the invasion of heterogeneity. Heterogeneity here does not mean differences in the general sense, but confrontation in the fundamental sense. Once invaded, the whole friendship system will undergo a fundamental change, and the consequences will be far more serious than the rupture. Obviously, this is not a technical problem.
Heterogeneous invasion touches an ontological paradox in the field of friendship. Friendship is born without a defense mechanism, which is the problem. After a few cups of strong tea and light wine, we can talk about the past and present for half a night, and then meet each other and become bosom friends. Of course, the so-called intimate friends should also close the door, dare not speak out in front of others, and spit out the inconvenience on weekdays. The darker and more secretive they are, the closer they become. If what you say is decent vernacular, how can you be a bosom friend? If you only treat family chores and short streets as private rooms, how can you behave? So this seems to be a natural fantasy space, where many people and things that are not willing to contact under normal circumstances are twisted together. Facts have proved that once distorted, it is difficult to get rid of it. Why did a wise scholar finally become a traitor because of the visit of several old friends? Why do great entrepreneurs who have never miscalculated go to jail just to show a friend something? What's more, a wrong hand is full of trouble, and a bad friend is involved for half his life, and every step is lost. There are many reasons for these consequences, but one of them must be to tolerate alien invasion for friendship. I was once uneasy, but I was afraid that I would fall into the trap of alienating friends and abandoning friendship. As a result, friendship has become a crutch to ugliness.
From this, it is more clear that we must never take preventing the breakdown of friendship as our goal. If it is broken, let it be broken, without pity; Although there is no break, you should break if you find that the noble essence of your life is seriously damaged. Rodin said, what is sculpture? That is to get rid of those unwanted things on the stone. Our own sculptures should also be chiseled away from those foreign impurities attached in the name of friends. If you don't chisel it off, you won't have a decent self.
For me, these truths have long been understood and many lessons have been learned, but it is still difficult to recognize the heterogeneity before things happen. The only thing I can do now is that when I hear the call of friendship, whether it is a young and enthusiastic voice or an old and kind voice, if I hear a vague whisper and smell a strange smell at the same time, I will stop quietly and stop moving forward.
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Broken friendships are often bound and stuck by us, while friendships that should not be broken are often crushed by us. Both of these situations are tragedies, but the friendship that should not have broken is so precious, but it is crushed by our own hands, which is almost fatal to human conscience.
When we mention this sad topic, we will see a series of sad pictures. Two great writers have written the friendship of human beings incisively and vividly, making many readers in the world understand the true meaning of mutual love, and they themselves are in trouble. Who would have thought that their last few years were a complete breakdown of friendship? I talked with one of them for a long time more than ten years ago. This literary master, who is so good at choosing words and making sentences, just complained angrily in the face of the strange circle of friendship and completely lost his analytical ability. At that time, I felt that friendship seemed to be the most elusive thing between heaven and earth. There are two literary predecessors at the same time as them, one of whom is my hometown. They had a thousand reasons to be friends, but they became enemies under the same banner. With you and without me, you live and die, affecting the ruling and opposition, stretching thousands of miles. Until a bottomless disaster came, both sides learned something. But when they met again, the man from my hometown was dying, and his dim eyes were opposite. Have you read any books about friendship?
You can definitely cite Qian Qian as the same example.
The reason can be attributed to misunderstanding, personality or history, but they are all knowledgeable and noble people. Why can't they ask, explain and coordinate? Some are as insignificant as sesame and mung beans. Why do you lock up so many great souls? What happened to my admired predecessors?
Trying to solve these problems may run through my life, because in my opinion, it is actually trying to solve life. What I can barely answer now is that the friendship between noble souls may also encounter psychological traps.
For example, psychological allergy caused by getting to know each other.
We are too familiar with each other. When considering each other, we no longer do shift experience, but only speculate and expect according to our own ideas. Therefore, we are very sensitive to small differences. This difference is caused by a kind of * * * communication, which is completely different from the heterogeneous invasion mentioned above; But in the sense, on the contrary, because most of the * * * communication has produced extraordinary sensitivity to differences, just like falling into the sand in the eye. He can tolerate the sand dunes in Wan Li, but nothing is allowed to be embedded in his body. He treats his friends as his own. In fact, how can there be two identical leaves in the world, even if they are close together? There are differences, but there is no difference preparation. Everyone regards differences as betrayal and exaggerates to ask the other party to correct them. This is the grievance of both sides, and the memories of friendship add weight to this grievance. It is impossible to correct yourself with such a weight, and both sides are on the road of no return in anger. Anyone who values friendship and stresses righteousness will have this kind of anger, but only small people will not be angry, so once a gentleman falls into this psychological trap, it is often difficult to jump out. Noble souls struggle in the trap, swallowing unspeakable truths.
Another example is the psychological black box caused by mutual trust.
What can friends be wary of? Based on this idea, many people handle many things related to friendship neatly and in obscurity. No matter whether it is done or not, there is no explanation or explanation. It's strange to say it, and it's not beautiful to say it. Friendship is like an infrared detector with infinite magic, which can illuminate all hidden corners clearly. It doesn't matter if you don't understand. Understanding is everything. Friends can always understand. If you don't understand, you are still friends? However, when misunderstanding inevitably comes into being, all the original unknowns turn into doubts, which is tantamount to adding injustice to the suspected party; There is no way to complain. His performance is definitely abnormal. Abnormal performance can only arouse greater suspicion, and mutual friendship immediately becomes unmanageable. Until now, the inertia of trust has made it impossible for both sides to tear their faces and expose them publicly. They still convey gloom in the darkness, and anger is superimposed on anger. This has formed a horrible psychological black box, in which the cable of friendship winds and circles, making a knot, forming a short circuit, and disastrous consequences are inevitable.
The two psychological traps, allergy trap and black box trap, mostly overlap. Too clear and too unclear are two extremes, which are mutually causal, increase each other's danger, turn feelings into enemies, turn friends into enemies, and all happen among good people, which really makes people sigh.
For several nights in a row, I have repeatedly discussed a difficult problem with some psychological researchers: Why do some people make friends and lose a lot but make up again, while others make friends but are unforgivable for life because they say two short sentences? Why can some enemies become friends after a long struggle, while some friends are not as good as an enemy once they are at odds?
I think, don't always look for reasons from the basic quality, one of the keys is that some disordered psychological procedures have caused psychological traps.
I don't know to what extent I can avoid these traps, but I always feel that it is always good to do more research. The wealth that truly belongs to the soul will not be deprived by external forces. The only thing that can deprive it is the fault of the heart itself, but the fault of the heart will eventually be discovered, analyzed and dealt with by the power of the heart, not to mention the noble mind we are talking about.
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Having said so much, it may create an impression that true friendship in life is not easy.
In fact, to sum up, the problem is that human beings have added too many other things, too many obligations, too many impurities and too many intimate shadows to friendship. If we can get rid of these attachments, everything will be easy.
Friendship should expand the space of life, not narrow it. Unfortunately, all these paradoxes show that the expectation and practice of friendship can easily narrow our living space, thus having the opposite effect.
Expanding the space of life, the ultimate driving force should be broad love, which is the true meaning of friendship. Thinking too much on this issue is self-defeating.
As the sages said, people create various boundaries because of wisdom and break through these boundaries because of fraternity. The obstacle to friendship is often excessive wisdom, but fortunately, there is still a desire for love to surmount the obstacle.
Friendship is a wing that transcends obstacles, but it will also bear heavy obstacles. Therefore, when you relax human beings, you are also relaxing yourself, and when you purify human beings, you are also purifying yourself. The result should be the perfection of both sides: when human beings enjoy friendship most deeply, friendship itself is fully realized.
Now, even though we have many friendships, it is still incomplete, because we are still incomplete. The world should give us more love, and we should also give the world more love. This is a cautious expectation in youth, and it is still a cautious expectation in the autumn of life. However, autumn is autumn after all, and life has already suffered the first frost. Hope has been sprinkled with cold dew, and the desire for friendship is like a maple leaf, but it has also begun to fall.
In the next quarter of life, is wisdom stronger than fraternity or fraternity stronger than wisdom? How many friendship signals will a young heart send today, and how many friendships will it nourish? This is an almost fatal question, and it is completely impossible to answer it rashly. In autumn, we only hope and pray. The wind blowing in my heart is a little cold.
I remembered a sketch written by a friend in the distance: when two ants meet, they just need to touch each other's tentacles and climb in opposite directions. After climbing for a long time, I suddenly feel very sorry that in such a vast space and time, similar people with such a small body meet unexpectedly. "But we didn't hug."
Yes, there should be no such regret. But with the new development of space, our bodies have become smaller. When can I meet a few ants who can only touch their tentacles?
-and leave the expectations to the next generation and let them climb happily.