? Although society advocates equality between men and women, in the relationship between men and women, the generally accepted view of consumption is that men still have to bear more expenses. First of all, in line with public expectations, the man should not take the initiative to ask for money. Even if the woman takes the initiative, she should not let the woman pay. After all, it is a blind date. If you still want to have the opportunity to continue developing with the other party, you can take this opportunity to let her pay for it next time. The other party "reciprocates the invitation" to create one more opportunity for you to get along with each other. Even if you are not destined to be together, you can establish a generous and polite image for yourself and leave some good impressions in the woman's heart. If the woman feels that she is not suitable for you, If there are other relatives and friends who can introduce you, wouldn’t it also create a good story?

? Secondly, in a blind date between two people, the man’s consumption must also include his own part. If it is AA, wouldn’t it be unfair to the woman if the man eats more? Therefore, it is difficult to define how much it is. Asking a woman for money seems fair and just, but it inevitably lacks some human touch. But the woman doesn't pay a penny, but it makes people feel ugly, stingy, and fussy. In the first meeting, the man takes the initiative to pay money out of care for the woman, but the woman should not take it for granted. In a long-term relationship, you should also take the initiative to bear part of the consumption. The relationship is generated through such back and forth. Long-term unilateral contribution will not only bring some financial pressure to one party, but also easily lead to emotional crisis. An answerer on Zhihu made a very reasonable point: What a girl cares about is not how much money you spend for her, but whether you are willing to spend money for her; what a boy cares about is not how much money he spends for you, but what you care about. Are you willing to share the money with him? ?

Finally, I want to give thumbs up to those boys who are generous and willing to give. I hope their efforts will be worth the rewards. I also hope that girls can cherish each other's efforts and respond in a certain way in the relationship.