When most people are in love, they may have been told by their friends that they value sex over friends. So I think this is also a very common phenomenon. , it will indeed be more immersive, and may even make friends feel as if they are no longer friends. So what should we do to balance love and friendship? 1. Becoming exclusive with your boyfriend. In fact, at this time, our good friends feel that we don’t love him anymore. This is because we originally did many things with him, but after falling in love, we slowly fell in love with him. Not looking for him anymore could be said to be isolating him, and that's what he felt. If we want to balance love and friendship, we must grasp the boundaries between love and friendship. When we did something with our friends before, we can also do it with them after we fall in love. For example, some girls like to get manicures and go shopping with their friends. After falling in love, it is very likely that this kind of thing will become exclusive to their boyfriends. 2. Properly distance yourself. At this time, you are undoubtedly neglecting your good friends. Therefore, when we are in love, we can also make appropriate appointments with friends to go out and play together. Then we can do manicures and go shopping together as before. . When we get along with our friends as before, he won't feel that we are neglecting him. And we can also think about it, if we often stay with our boyfriend, it may make the boyfriend feel bored, so it is also a good choice to distance ourselves appropriately and give the other person a sense of space. Third, it is understandable that there is no substitute for being immersed in love with your boyfriend. After all, some people will be very over the top when they are in love with their significant other. There are many things that they want to do with them, but we also need to keep a little mysterious. Yes, we can just do some things with friends. When you are in a relationship, there is no need to tell each other every detail. For example, we can do manicures with friends. We can go shopping with friends. Especially for girls, there is still a need to whisper a little bit. And the relationship with friends cannot be replaced by a boyfriend.