There is no form of getting along, only easy and simple getting along can make people feel the spring breeze. In the long years, the most comfortable relationship is: getting along with each other is not tired, and getting along for a long time. Any relationship that you try to maintain must not be ideal.
A truly comfortable relationship must be one in which three views are consistent and we can talk together naturally. I have heard a saying: "The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between two worlds, but that I stand in front of you, but I can't talk together." .
As the saying goes, birds and fish go their separate ways, but mountains and rivers don't meet. Instead of deliberately pleasing a relationship and choosing to accommodate and compromise, turn around and find the person who really chats with you.
It has been concluded that true friends can be divided into three types: the first is the ideal of * * *, the second is the language of * * *, and the third is the hobby of * * *. No one wants to stay backward compatible, and no one wants to look up all the time. A truly comfortable relationship must be like-minded and congenial. Have the same ideal, can be together in towards the distant; Similar interests and hobbies, no obstacles to communication. Getting along with such people is like drinking a good cup of tea. The more fragrant and comfortable it is at the back. No matter how many years have passed, we will never get tired of each other and get along very comfortably.
In life, when some people get along with others, they often need to find various topics to ease their embarrassment. But a true confidant knows what the other person is thinking at a glance. He doesn't need to rack his brains to find a topic, think about what to say, and even the occasional silence is just right.
I think someone once asked such a question on the Internet: "What is the best relationship between people?
There is a great answer at the bottom: "that is, every time we meet, even if we are silent, we are not embarrassed. Even if we are silent, we all understand." It is true that unfamiliar relationships need to be greeted; True feelings need not be deliberately worded. "A truly comfortable relationship must be one that can understand and understand each other without words. Just like inserting the key into the right keyhole and putting your foot into the right shoe size, you don't have to be wronged or pretend, you are comfortable and effortless.
In this life, three people will associate with many people, but the few really comfortable relationships that can really fall in love with each other must be free to get along for a long time.
"Whoever is comfortable with me will be with me, including a friend who read a passage: Yes, if you are tired, stay away from me. I regard those who can enter my heart as kings, and those who can't, I'm too lazy to elaborate. In this world, there is no template for feelings, only mutual sincerity; There is no form of getting along, all for relaxation.
The best way to get along is to be with comfortable people and relax. The article "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is like waking up from a dream." It's really warm and calm. As the saying goes, a comfortable relationship is not a surprise of love at first sight, but a comfort for a long time. This feeling is like a poem: the grass is bearing seeds and the wind is shaking the leaves. It's beautiful that we stand without talking. The way to make friends is far away and cool.
For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can have a comfortable relationship and harvest precious and long-lasting feelings in a gentle way.