Apathy among colleagues is caused by many reasons.
First, colleagues don’t have many common topics and pursuits. They just complete the company’s tasks as planned every day. Nowadays, many employees just complete the tasks assigned by their bosses and then go home to eat and sleep. Because they are tired from working in the company, they have less pursuit of life and have no extra energy to talk to you about personal interests. Normally in the company, everyone is busy with work and cannot discuss personal matters. There is only a short break in the middle and everyone takes a break. Without the opportunity for in-depth communication, the relationship will naturally become indifferent.
Secondly, there is competition among colleagues for jobs and promotions, so it would not be good if there is competition. Working abroad is no longer like when I was a student, and there are not many disputes over interests. In the workplace, although everything does not have to be about self-interest, when it comes to fundamental issues such as promotion and salary increase, even the best friend may use you as a stepping stone for his promotion. Even if you have no intention of competing for something, there will still be some people who secretly view you as competition and look down upon you for it.
Third, many companies do not allow subordinates to form small groups privately for fear of affecting work harmony. In fact, this also affects the daily communication among employees to a certain extent. If the company can take the initiative to set up some interest groups, allowing employees with the same hobbies to exchange their experiences and experiences in the group, so that everyone can relax from the busy work, this will be very good for the physical and mental health of the employees and their work efficiency. of.
Finally, although you have a weak relationship with most of your colleagues, you can still find one or two like-minded friends in the company, which you need to discover slowly. It's enough to have a confidant in life, what does it matter if you have a weak relationship with other people!