The key to whether a blind date is successful or not is not who introduces the person, but the mentality of the introducer.

If parents and elders are serious and cautious in the early stage, they have weighed all aspects before introducing them, and there are many successes.

If it must be said that blind dates introduced by parents and elders are difficult to achieve, except for the fact that most people do not live in the same city as their parents, or the attitudes of parents and elders are more casual and they feel that the gender is different and singles Those who live meet the standards for introduction to children; or the parents and elders are too concerned about the situation after the introduction, thinking that whatever they introduce is good, ignoring individual needs and preferences;

It is also possible that it is the parents The elders completely ignore the positioning, advantages and disadvantages of their children in the blind date market. They close their eyes and want to find what they want without considering the children's ideas, such as good economic conditions, well-organized, well-informed, and easy to handle. These are just generalizations. "Advantages" force children to get along with them, completely ignoring the reality that neither party has any language and cannot have feelings.

Parents simply don’t understand the so-called “feelings” and “heartbeats” in your heart.

Your parents simply cannot pay attention to your inner emotional needs. At what stage have you reached? In the eyes of your parents, marriage is about living a good life and stability, and liking is not their biggest concern.

In the eyes of parents, suitability is much more important than liking.

However, in the eyes of the children themselves, liking is more important than suitability.