Do you know the skills of chatting with girls? Many boys don't know how to chat with the girl they really like. In fact, this is also the reason why boys are cautious about this relationship and don't want to make mistakes, so everything is very cautious. Let's share the skills of chatting with girls and have a look.

Chatting skills with girls 1 If you have the following questions:

1, can't chat, often can't find a topic, and chat can't find anything to say.

You can clearly feel that this girl knows that you like her, but she always tells you that she is a friend.

You have a girl you like, but you don't know how to pursue it.

You often date girls, but you just eat and watch movies, and there is no real progress at all.

Then please take mine directly, open it and send it to me. I will help you analyze the situation and solve the problem directly! At the same time, my circle of friends updates a lot of chat skills and skills to get along with girls correctly every day, and can also add learning (if there is anything that can't be added, you can also click on my avatar to chat with me privately and send your number directly to Yu Ge, and I will add you). Now, let's cut to the chase and let Yu Ge show you how to make women fall in love with you through chatting.

Teaching dry goods

What's your name? "

"Where are you from?"

"How old is it?"

It is often called "three questions in a row" by my sister.

"oh"

"Ha ha"

"take a bath"

It is often called "high cold strikes three" by men. So, did you toss and turn in the middle of the night like me and ask yourself, why is the goddess always taking a bath? Nonsense, of course, because you are ugly. What, you said you weren't ugly, so Brother Yu told you something to chat about today.

First of all, as an old driver, I must tell you that the purpose of chatting must be an invitation, because you want a real person, not many people who chat with women, and women will only treat you as a good friend (knocking on the blackboard here). Secondly, you should remember that the core of your chat is to make your sister feel emotional.

For example, when you go to work early in the morning, you find your wallet lost on the way, and then you are in a trance all day. When you get off work at night, you will feel happy in an instant when you find that it was brought back to you by a kind person. Did you find out? The wallet is still the same wallet, but your emotional changes of the day are still fresh in your memory.

So chatting with girls is the same. On the surface, you don't let her gain or lose through chatting, but you can make her feel emotional happiness or sadness with your language. This kind of emotional interaction can make her feel different pleasure in chatting.

In order to learn to chat quickly and catch up with the people you like, I have prepared gifts for everyone! Often send a lot of interesting chat topics in the circle of friends, and also send a lot of interesting topics to girls! If you can't chat? Chatting embarrassed, can't find a topic? You can add mine directly to my circle of friends. You can see many interesting chat topics and topics that girls are interested in. I will also send my actual chat cases with beautiful women to my circle of friends for your reference.

So the four steps of chatting should be: arousing interest, establishing attraction, consolidating attraction and establishing relationship. So, how to arouse the interest of girls? I will discuss it from three aspects. Many of my classmates also call it "three-axe chat" What is cold reading? Simply put, it's a wild guess. Just like a fortune teller, you can see through your sister's past life at a glance.

For example, if you ask your sister: Where are you from? Note: Interrogative questions always give people the feeling of being interrogated, so they will make my sister feel a little disgusted. At the same time, simple and repetitive questions will give my sister a visual feeling when she comes home for the New Year and is besieged by seven aunts and eight aunts. But if you use the cold reading method, you can change it to: you are from the south.

Note: with the demonstration, the tone will be much easier and there will be a speculative tone. No matter right or wrong, my sister will have an impulse to defend herself and will probably continue to chat with you. Going up one level, it can be changed to: Look at your white skin, you must be from the south.

Note: Cold reading with praise will make girls feel excited. After all, this is a society that looks at faces. Who hates compliments? Time error is called time illusion, which means making your sister feel that she is a friend who has known you for a long time through chatting. Love at first sight is rare, but many. We often make friends with people who have the same experience or similar gas fields, and the same is true for picking up girls.

Here, I can teach you a formula: time illusion = scene description induces time sharing. The concept is very simple, that is, yesterday, today and tomorrow, you can talk to your sister from three-dimensional space, thus producing * * * sounds. For example, I remember always being afraid of pain when I was a child. Later, my aunt gave me sugar pills, and I formed a good habit of loving sugar.

Note: I can always find some interesting points when I recall interesting childhood stories, and my sister will also share some interesting childhood experiences with you. In the process of chatting, you can quickly upgrade your relationship with your sister and make her feel that you are close, just like your playmates when you were young.

Of course, this method can be applied to the description of reality or imagination of the future. For example, I just saw an old man selling candied haws and bought a bunch. When I was a child, my mother said that I would eat a sugar-coated gourd when I was in pain. I often think that if someone can give me a bunch of candied haws when I am in pain, I will really marry her, haha.

Note: This example can be vividly described as using the wrong method by describing the present situation, recalling the past and looking forward to the future. When chatting, find the right opportunity through simple topics and quickly promote the relationship between two people! This is an effective chat! You will only care about each other every day and never catch up with her!

If you want to see more wonderful chat records with women, you can add me directly. I will post some wonderful chat records with beautiful women in my circle of friends. There are many chat topics and topics that girls are interested in! Show me how masters chat with girls and study hard.

Let's look down: this is a big move in the three axes. In short, it is to hit a stick and give a sweet date. This kind of use is best estimated by military training instructors, who beat us in broad daylight and secretly sent us ginger soup in the middle of the night. We were moved by the sparseness inside. Stay close to home and continue to talk about how to push and pull to make my sister happy ~

Or for example:

Boy: It's beautiful.

Girl: It's just that my girl's face value has always been very high.

Boy: I said the clothes you are wearing.

Girl: You hate it.

Note: praise my sister first, and then make her complacent. Then, let my sister think what she just did is funny.

In fact, if I were you, the above conversation could continue in a similar push-pull process.

Boy: To be honest, I've seen other people wear the same style, but it doesn't feel like yours.

Girl: Haha, don't praise me.

Boy: I'm talking about the feeling of the villain.

Girl: Note: By pushing and pulling, my sister's mood changed from joy to embarrassment. Of course, if the skills and attraction are not in place, don't blindly push and pull, especially push, because the girl's psychological endurance is limited, and it will be silly to accidentally push it away.

Of course, it is more about chatting. How to improve your emotional intelligence and make yourself more attractive? Please add the number of Brother Yu directly, and we will tell you how to do it one by one. Of course, I can also learn the chat skills updated every day in my circle of friends and the correct way to get along with girls, so as to improve the level of chatting with girls!

These skills and methods are just some of the most commonly used skills in Yugo's internal courses, just the tip of the iceberg. Maybe you haven't heard of it or seen it. But none of this matters. Do you want to learn to change? This paper completed its mission here. If you want to learn how to win the goddess faster and more effectively, you can join my internal course. But you should know by now that you have to study systematically if you can't chat. If, brother, you can't chat, and you are determined to learn to chat, go directly to Brother Yu and click to send three words directly to Brother Yu-I want to learn.

Seeing this, I believe you must want to learn, learn chat skills, and talk about this skill! Learn the chat course in the leaderboard, which is well received by the whole network and teaches you to catch up with the woman you like through chat. From then on, you are no longer a buyer, and you are no longer a lover card given to you by a woman. We then look down:

how to improve

Brother, you can always see this place from the beginning, so the wing tutor believes that you must be the kind of person who wants to change the status quo quickly and improve the level of love quickly. Maybe you can't stand talking to girls anymore. Maybe you don't want to go out with girls every time without results. Maybe you want to improve yourself and make yourself better. These questions may be difficult for you who have no love experience. But Brother Yu tells you responsibly that everything is not a problem, but whether you meet the following three conditions is very important:

1, you must make up your mind to change yourself and make yourself better.

2. Willing to invest in yourself, not just spending money on women.

3, able to cooperate with the tutor, with execution and action, rather than a "mouth gun man" who only talks but can't do it.

If you have made up your mind, are eager to change the status quo, are willing to invest in yourself and actively cooperate with your mentor, then you can continue to look down. It's actually a very simple thing to associate with girls. Why? Because as long as you are normal and have the learning ability, you can fall in love; You just need to learn love skills, learn to associate with girls, improve your emotional intelligence and improve your love ability.

Question: Isn't financial ability very good and useful? Is it useful not to be handsome? The tutor replied: As long as you have a normal income and are willing to invest in yourself, on the surface, you can invest the money you spent on women before. Men are just like women, just lazy men, not ugly men. Don't always make excuses for yourself. In fact, as long as you can master the methods and make up your mind to study, you can still get the results you want.

Wing tutor is a short and not handsome student. However, after choosing a wing tutor and actively cooperating under the guidance of the tutor, you can also catch up with the girl you like. People who are short, ugly and have no money can still find their love and be happy with their beloved woman. You make women like you and never give up on you; Instead of simply liking your money, pat your ass and leave when you are down and out; Only by choosing the right method and having the help of professional tutors can we achieve the expected results.

Began to change

In fact, brothers, it is not difficult to get along with women, whether it is chatting or dating! As long as you master the right method and have the help of a professional tutor, you can do whatever you want. Don't worry about chatting with girls, girls suddenly ignore you; I don't know how to reply; Go out with girls and don't know where to play; And I don't know how to improve the relationship with girls, because you haven't studied systematically at all. Brother Yu wants us to know each other because of the topic of love, but in the end we will become good friends, even brothers!

Do you know the skills of chatting with girls? If you want to have a sweet love, a sweet girl, then join our internal course directly and click to tell the teacher directly-I want to change. At the same time, you can send any emotional problems directly to the teacher, so that professionals can do professional things, which is much better than if you want to break your head alone. The teacher will also send daily dry goods in the circle of friends, order the collection number, and usually look bored, and there will definitely be gains. Born with emotional wings of love. Your love will be escorted by us! I'm brother Yu, and I'll wait for you in the inner hall!

Chatting with girls II. Dating and chatting skills

1, find a breakthrough

The starting point of chatting is: at the right time, open the other person's chatterbox with the right tone and topic. For example, for a girl who likes makeup in a circle of friends, you can say, "I find your eyelashes are very delicate today. Do you usually have any experience in staying up late for skin care? " Then just sit and wait for the girl to talk.

2. Divergent chat

In fact, many books about dating and chatting skills are written. If you don't know what to say, you can extract a word from the other person's words as your key word, and then start narration. Using the first example, when a boy asks a girl if she is busy at work, if the girl says no, then the boy can use "busy" as the key word and say: I really envy you, I am busy at work, and I always want to see a movie without time. Then the girl may take the movie as her key word, and then chat around the movie and discuss her favorite movie. If girls don't like movies, they can continue to ask: Do you have any hobbies when you are resting? Then the girls may say something about their hobbies, and then follow the dialogue.

3. Guided chat

You can guide the topic of your chat to the topic you want to say. 20 17 what is your most unforgettable thing? What do you think of the photo of friends circle 18 years old some time ago? Guided chat is to slowly pave the way and guide the chat to the topic you want to talk about. This is a good dating and chatting skill, rather than suddenly asking questions awkwardly. On the first date with a girl you like, you will inevitably be nervous and worried that you will not be able to talk properly. The topic is not pleasing. Actually, chatting on the first date is not that difficult. First of all, we should start with a relaxed conversation and gradually induce topics of mutual interest.

4. The conversation focuses on you.

Conversation should focus on the subject, not ramble. The theme is to let the other person know about you. Talk about your growing experience, working environment, views on love and marriage, and your future. Your childhood memories must be interesting. Talking about some interesting childhood stories can adjust the atmosphere, and you can naturally tell each other about your family. Tell the story that you were punished by your teacher in high school. By the way, put your story into which university you were admitted to. Introduce yourself with stories, and don't read your resume carefully. Tell me about your present job. Mainly tell interesting things at work, naturally tell each other the nature of your work, your work unit, colleagues' views on you, etc. But don't tell each other your income, although they may want to know. Of course, if the other person asks, you can tell her. Tell the other person what you want to say with interesting stories, and she will find it very happy and interesting to be with this person. Remember that girls are emotional and stories are emotional, and only emotional things can impress each other. If you talk about history seriously, she will feel bored. Her understanding of you is carried out in the process and content of this chat. Your eyes, expression, attitude, your personality, habits, love, talent, three views and so on. Has been integrated into it, and she has been looking for feelings in her feelings.

5. Be confident and control your desire for expression.

Some boys, who are afraid of dating failure and want to leave a good impression on each other, are eager to show themselves, or excessively identify with and please each other, or always want to pour out their own advantages, thinking that they will fall in love with him knowing that he has a chance of promotion, money, housing, talent, literature and life. Your idea is a little naive. Even if you can't help but want to reveal the information that you are going to be a manager soon, you should show it cleverly and don't leave the impression of showing off. This is just a first date. If it is fate, the third date will show up. If there is no next time, it will be in vain for you to say more. Remember not to try to please each other, let alone go along with each other unprincipled. You can be silent, but you can't lose yourself in order to identify with each other. About Ma Rong, your opinion is different from hers. It can be expressed or not. Just change the subject. Don't refute, and don't promise at once. You are right. What if she finds out that she is wrong? If you do this, you will make the other person look down on you.

6. Humorous and meaningful

Both men and women will find it interesting to talk humorously. Your first date with her is to find feelings, so the content must be interesting. If you are interesting, you will feel it. If you are bored, where will you feel it?

Man: After chatting for a long time, didn't you find any advantages in me? Like looks or something.

Woman: Yes, very handsome!

M: thank you! I also found one of your advantages, that is, you are honest!

Dating and chatting should also be connotative, high-grade, obscene, short-lived and naive, and people will know your weight as soon as they listen.

Second, the theory of dating and chatting for half an hour

According to scientific analysis, 90% of the results of interpersonal interaction are often determined by the results of half an hour of classroom interaction. If your interaction with the other party doesn't arrive in Chengdu within half an hour, the other party's mood will slowly decline, and at the same time, you will be defined as an ordinary person or friend, thus putting you in a certain range of friendship. But if you get along well within half an hour and your relationship is gradually upgraded, then you and the other party will have the possibility of subsequent development.

Third, the secret of the success of the first date

1, please keep a good image.

When you meet for the first time, your every move may be within the observation range of the other party. Once you leave a bad impression, the door of love may be closed. First impressions are usually hard to change. Therefore, in the process of daily communication, especially when interacting with people for the first time, we must pay attention to leaving a good impression on others. Being polite, humorous, elegant and generous will definitely leave an unforgettable impression on people.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be like a child. Girls are generally eager to find someone to rely on, at least think you can be reliable. To this end, you should not only show confidence in the future, but also show a strong sense of responsibility. Maybe every excellent man has his own characteristics, but the most important feature is that they all have a strong sense of responsibility.

When dating, you should try to show yourself, show your best side, make her feel good about you, and then she can go on with you. In addition, when two people get along, they should listen to each other's opinions more, and don't make their own decisions, causing each other's disgust.

3. Dating and chatting skills

First of all, girls have a crush on you the first time they meet. Apart from objective reasons, they are either attracted by your talent or girls think they can talk to you better. Once there is silence, he will be embarrassed and a little nervous. Of course, he may hide this nervousness very well. However, he will try his best to change this silent atmosphere, lest you get bored. For example, explore new topics and make arrangements for the next activities, even if it is to talk about some clumsy and irrelevant topics to solve the embarrassment, such as weather and work.