The following 49 points are views on love. Can we do it?
1. Don’t fall in love just for the sake of loneliness. Time is a devil. It lasts forever. If you are a passionate person, even if you don’t love the other person, you will have feelings when the time comes. What will you do in the end?
2. Don’t get married just to be responsible. You know, marrying someone without loving them is the most irresponsible thing. Even if it makes the other person sad at that time, it is better than making him sad for several years or even a lifetime.
3. No matter how old you are, no matter how much your family and friends urge you, don’t treat marriage casually. Marriage is not a game of cards, and reshuffling the cards will cost you a lot.
4. Basically no one is right or wrong when it comes to relationships. If he (she) wants to leave you, there will always be something about you that cannot satisfy him or her. Looking back on the days we spent together, there will always be wonderful. Of course, there are also despicable emotional liars. Their sweet words are purely to trick the other person into sleeping with them. Such people are still very few.
5. It doesn’t matter if you fall in love with someone whose living habits are very different. You should be cautious about getting married and think about whether you can tolerate each other’s differences for a long time.
6. Some people say that to fall in love, you need to find someone you like, and to get married, you need to find someone who likes you. These are all one-sided. What's there to love about your lover if he doesn't like you? How can you live your life if your wife doesn't like her?
7. If you really love someone, you should try your best to make him happy. When he is happy, you will be happy, and then both parties will have passion.
8. Don’t give up your intention to pursue someone just because your looks are not as good as the other person’s. Looks are just a temporary impression. The real decision on whether to combine or not depends mainly on the personalities of both parties. I have seen too many handsome guys paired with ugly girls, and ugly girls paired with handsome guys.
9. Women should learn to dress themselves up, and don’t use simplicity as a shield, and don’t use housework as an excuse. If you don’t understand fashion, you are not a complete woman.
10. Love can last as long as possible. This has at least two advantages: First, you can fully enjoy the joy of love for as long as possible. The feelings of marriage and love are very different. Second, the longer two people get along, the more they can test whether they are sincere and whether their personalities are compatible. In this way, the relationship after marriage will be much stronger.
11. Men are not bad and women are not loving. Bad does not mean being vicious, selfish or heartless. Rather, it refers to glib words and sweet words. Generally, good men think that talking about love is a sign of glibness, frivolity and disgustingness, so they are unwilling to do it. It's wrong to say this to others, but to your own wife, you should be more glib. Why can't I be a man with a soft heart and a smooth mouth?
12. It is said that marriage is the tomb of love. That is because you are already on the way to the tomb before marriage. Even if they don't get married, they will break up in front of the grave. Why not break up first and then dive into the grave?
13. A woman who can only read is like a dictionary. No matter how good people are, they will only look at it when needed. A woman who can only dress up is just a vase. After looking at it for a long time, it will become useless. That way. Clothing and beauty are a necessary condition for being a good woman, not a necessary and sufficient condition. You also need to read more books. You will find life more beautiful this way.
14. The dullness is true, yes, but it should be the dullness after the passion, and then there will be passion again, and then there will be dullness. Passion and dullness should alternate in waves. What's the point of having a dull life without passion? As long as you truly love him, you will be passionate until your death.
15. Do you love him? Love tells him why he has to hide the pain of longing deep in his heart. Are you afraid that your appearance, status, or status will not match yours? Don't be afraid, loving someone is beautiful.
16. My wife and mother fell into the river. I saved my mother first, because it was my mother who gave me life, and I couldn’t find any reason to leave her alone. If my wife is not rescued, I can bury her with her and continue our love in the tomb.
17. It is already wrong to get married hastily. Never divorce hastily again. Give it a try first, if it doesn't work it's never too late to leave.
18. I often hear that masculinity is feminine, but do you know what masculinity smells like and what femininity smells like? Masculinity means being open-minded and brave, while femininity means being gentle and considerate.
19. What is charm? Charm is not about beauty. Beautiful women may not necessarily attract me. I only like dignified and elegant women. So you don't have to worry about not being pretty enough.
20. First love is unforgettable and beautiful. Why? It's not because he or she is beautiful or handsome, nor because what you can't get is good, but because when people first fall in love, their hearts are extremely pure and have no selfish thoughts. They only know how to love each other with everything they have. And the love in the future will not be so pure and flawless. Innocence is the most precious thing in the world. It is she we long for.
21. Most people who fall in love for the first time don’t understand love, so most of them fail in their first love and few succeed. You should find an unmarried person when getting married, because everyone likes the original. As for falling in love, it is better to find someone who has been in love before. Because only those who have experienced love know what love is and how to love.
22. Men become bad when they have money. Yes, many men are like this. However, men who become bad when they have money are not much better even if they have no money.
23. Whether a man can give you a sense of security does not depend at all on his height, but on his heart. I have seen many tall and useless men. I have also seen short but high-spirited men. A man must be proud and arrogant to be like a man. Of course, the premise is to be talented.
24. Is there everlasting life? Of course! Why don't most people believe there is? Because they have not found the one that suits them best in their life journey. That is the one who is destined to be. Why can't it be found? In the vast sea of ??people, life is like dew, how easy is it to find the one that suits you best? You may be able to find the one destined by God at the age of 40, but can you wait until you are 40? You can't find it in your 20s, but you have to get married. You can find it in your 30s or 40s, but you have to give up. This is the tragedy of life.
25. Why are there so few legendary love stories that last forever in life? Because such feelings are very precious. Are precious things so easy to see? Are gold and diamonds easy to see?
26. In the past, when I was broken up in love, I would hate her and why she was so heartless and unrighteous. When I heard bad news about her, I would secretly enjoy myself, but I can’t do that now, even if I lose her now. , I will also wish her well and sincerely hope she will live well. I would be sad if she wasn't doing well. This is also the difference between liking and loving.
27. It will be very happy to fall in love with smart people because they are humorous and good at talking, but there are always crises because such people can easily change their minds. Falling in love with an honest person is very reassuring, but life is also very boring.
28. Women should not be too strong. Some women have too strong self-esteem. She has a tough attitude when it's someone else's fault, and she has a tough attitude when it's her own fault. She always thought that asking for help from others was a sign of despicability, and she would never ask for help from a man. Such a woman is a headache. A smart woman will know when to be strong and when to show weakness. You should be so strong towards outsiders, but if you are so strong towards the person you love, do you still want him to protect you?
29. To see whether a person has connotation, look at the conversation on the inside and the appearance on the outside. You can also read and write. Conversation can reveal a person's knowledge and cultivation. Dressing can reveal a person's taste, and writing can reveal a person's character.
30. If you want to know if a person loves you, just look at whether he is energetic and happy when he is with you. If he is with you, he loves you; if he does not, he does not love you.
31. Some people always complain that they can’t find anyone. It doesn’t matter once or twice. If there are too many, there will be problems. First of all, you have to examine whether you have any problems. If not, then you have to take a closer look. Your own vision is gone, why do you always encounter bad guys every time?
32. Some people say that once a man changes his mind, even the nine-headed ox can't bring him back. Could it be that if a woman changes her mind, the nine-headed ox can't bring her back? There are only physical differences between men and women, and the psychological aspects are similar.
33. Love has little to do with character. Once upon a time, a female colleague told me that she liked Yang Kang in The Condor Heroes but disliked Guo Jing. I was surprised. Do you like the bad and hate the good? Thinking about it later, it didn't matter. Yang Kang considered a thief as his father and betrayed his country for glory. But he is very persistent in love. Why can't such a person enjoy love? There are also such examples in real life. Young and Dangerous also have young and Dangerous love.
34. Some people say that love without bread will eventually die. I say the person who said this doesn’t understand what love is. In the past, when I was in love, I was disgusted by other people saying that the woman's conditions were good or that. I don't care where you come from, what education you have, or what your status is. If I love you, I don't care if you shine shoes or even work as a prostitute. Adults say I am naive, how can I live without money? When did I say that I had money but never had love? I am happy to be with the one I love, drink water and eat pickles.
35. If you truly love someone, you will be willing to change for him. If a person goes his own way in front of you and ignores behaviors you don't like, then he doesn't love you. So if you don't care about him enough or he doesn't care about you enough, then you don't love him or he doesn't love you. Don't think that you are careless or believe that he is a careless person. When you meet the person you truly love, a coward will become brave, and by the same token, a careless person will become careful.
36. Having intentions for each other without saying it is the highest state of love. Because at this time, both of them are enjoying their flirtatious glances, enjoying the fervent emotions when their eyes meet, and enjoying the thrilling feeling when their fingers touch each other. Once spoken out, the taste will be much lighter, because after two people agree, all actions are approved and psychologically prepared, and they will gradually become numb in the end.
37. A carrot and a pit refer to the marital situation. In fact, for love, this is not true. Excellent people, regardless of gender, will be a carrot with many pitfalls. Therefore, stories of joys and sorrows are staged in this world every day.
38. There are two types of women who are very cute. One is mother-type, very considerate and good at taking care of others, and will take good care of men. When you are with such a woman, you will feel strongly loved. There is also a younger sister type. Very timid, very shy, and very dependent on men. Being with such a woman will stimulate the manifestation of his own manly personality, such as beating mice and carrying heavy objects. I will often think of protecting my little woman. There is also a kind of woman who neither knows how to care about others nor shows weakness to men. This kind of woman leaves men helpless the most.
39. Being stingy is a big taboo for men. Even if you are poor, don’t act like you are poor. Some people complain that women only love men's money. In fact, this is not necessarily the case. Some women like men to spend money for her, sometimes to confirm their position in men's minds. If a man likes a woman, he will definitely be willing to spend money for her. Spend money.
40. When men and women are matched, work is not tiring. Because in front of the opposite sex, men always like to show their masculine side. This is how you look like a man, so machismo is sometimes necessary.
41. It is a very common saying to pursue the opposite sex that you admire. In fact, if the other person doesn't like you, it's useless no matter how much you chase him. If the other person likes you, there's no need to go out of his way to chase him. Maybe one day he will be moved by your sincerity, but most of them will break up in the end. Because love is not touching, you are not his ideal partner. Even if he accepts you for a while, he will still leave you when he meets the one he likes in the future. Of course, for someone who likes you, you still need to put in some effort to please him, because this way it feels like a date and is romantic.
42. People often ask you to choose between friends and lovers, which one would you choose? In fact, this question is redundant. Friends or lovers who really understand you will understand your behavior. If they don't understand you, don't worry too much about losing them. Friends or lovers should help each other, not be forced to accommodate.
43. Once upon a time, everything was difficult to overcome, except for Wushan, it was not a cloud.
But what if I come back before I have passed through Canghai or just visited Canghai, and I have never been to Wushan before diving into the siege?
44. What is romance? Sending flowers? Walking in the rain? Are you standing in front of the building? If two people are deeply in love with each other, they will feel romantic if they do nothing and just look at each other quietly. Otherwise, even if two people sit on the moon and date, they will not feel romantic.
45. It doesn’t matter whether you are the right person or not, the most important thing is that you have the right interest. Otherwise, if you don’t have the same language, you will still feel lonely even if you are together.
46. Learn to look at each other with understanding and appreciation instead of caring about each other with self-righteous concern.
47. There is no problem between naive people and naive people, there is no problem between mature people and mature people, but there are more problems between mature people and naive people.
48. Some women let their boyfriends pamper them when they were in love. After getting married, they still want their husbands to pamper them in every possible way, but they forget what they should do as a woman. Such a woman does not understand love.
49. Lasting love comes from each other’s true love from the heart and is based on equality. Anyone who only cares about loving others crazily without caring about whether they are loved, or who only cares about enjoying being loved without knowing how to truly love others will not have a good ending.
In addition, I would like to add: Love is the most difficult to explain clearly!