Second, no matter what you want to lose, no matter how tight you hold it, you will lose it. If you are good friends, and you want to make it right, find out why and how. Maybe they are not on the same level as you, and alienation is inevitable. Might as well go and see for yourself. If you are not good friends, then don't take any action.
Don't care about those friends, cherish the intimate voice.
My humble opinion, hope to adopt.