Incompetent, self-sufficient
On Making Friends on the Internet
When it comes to online dating, most people will say that "online dating" is unrealistic and deny it, but who can extricate themselves from it?
First, appear
1999, the network tide, the post-80s era of online entertainment, online games, online chat came into being. The original entertainment should be pure entertainment.
The real online dating should be developed in the post-80s generation, 2 1~26, and everything is so happy. Strangers talk about everything, and their topics and personalities are speculative. Maybe this has made a good impression. After a short and in-depth exchange, we naturally met. If we are excluded from the light, then the familiar and the unfamiliar will be more closely linked, and online chat will become an assistant and a phone call. Let's call it the "simple period" of online dating for the time being.
Second, development.
In the period when the Internet is booming, online games are diversified, and more and more people are suitable, and online chat software is merged on a large scale, our QQ is on the throne of online chat software, which provides a good platform for our communication. Then, with the younger development of online games and the popularity of home networks, a new generation of online dating appeared, 17~20. During this period, the feelings between men and women are very subtle and individual. Like is like. Step aside if you don't like it. If you like it, you will fall in love. Break up if you don't like it. You can't control your emotional age. When hit, it is inevitable to make a series of jokes. Suicide by jumping off a building ~ ~ Let's call it "complex period" online dating.
Third, the stale online dating.
In the chaotic period of online games, 16~ 19, to meet the needs of young netizens for games, dating sites and personality display, and to maximize the stale entertainment, some undesirable elements or boys and girls will flock to it in an all-round way, which is chaos. For entertainment and display, there is a purpose and no purpose, and it becomes lively for a while. This is the following "chaos"
Fourth, the emotion of online dating.
Online dating is boring, so why are there so many people online dating? -Just because it's boring.
Say boring first. Bird cage life in the city, the complexity of people around you, distrust among friends, or disappointment in love, and so on. , so that you can choose the Internet for cheap and simple entertainment, easy communication and game entertainment. Whether there is a purpose or not, the other party should have a chat and a topic. Secondly, the understanding in the game is relatively simple. Equipping you, recharging you, high level and good technology are all conditions to attract each other. Unless you have a heart in reality, the longer you talk, the higher your goodwill will be. After self-presentation on the internet, the shortcomings will not be revealed, beautifying the hidden shortcomings of the object and the truth that cannot be said in reality. Returning to pure love, isn't the basic thing that constitutes love the exchange of hearts? It is with this condition that online dating becomes difficult to leave. The dependence of communication develops into acacia, and the yearning for each other becomes a feeling of traction and heartbeat.
If you feel like it, you should treat your feelings well. The difference between traditional and modern heterosexual relationships lies in your view of this relationship. The traditional heterosexual relationship is simple, serious and one-on-one. Maybe you are the only one to go in this life, but the modern heterosexual relationship is different. First of all, I feel heavy. Follow my heart. Today I am happy, I think it is happiness, and tomorrow my wife and husband are all screaming sweetly. Now the times have changed, morality is thin, responsibility is absent, we do whatever we want, and everything goes with our feelings. For online dating, if you choose traditional online dating, well, communicate first, communicate in reality, and then follow a step-by-step approach. If you choose a modern one, you should be prepared to lose your virginity (never heard of a man losing his virginity) or enjoy it and enjoy the feeling of love. Believe, like (love is incomprehensible at this age, there is no need to argue) are variables, see what value you give it. So what "believe" and "like" are actually not credible.
This relationship continues to develop. Then bless you. The reason for lovelorn is nothing more than the exposure of the other person's true side or the disappearance of heat, or after playing. Online dating is not a big loss for men, just a little money, which should not be big for girls with a high degree of openness. The only sad thing is the feeling of being lovelorn, feeling cheated and dumped. What would you think if you were in a heavy mood? Cheating, cheating, painful and sad tears ~ ~ ~. That's the process. This is a normal relationship between two people. What should I do if I meet someone who just wants to cheat money and color? You can also face it calmly, because this is your choice and the way you deal with emotional problems.
Online dating, the network is just an acquaintance intermediary, similar to matchmaking, depending on what you think.
5. I believe that there will be no boring emotional problem of online dating after 1995, and the times have made the relationship more civilized, indifferent and crazy. Their world view may have been divorced from their emotional view.
After 80, netizens were shy; after 90, netizens were shy; after 90, netizens were tasteless.