A girl replied that she was currently in graduate school, while her boyfriend was at work, and they were in different places.

Sometimes when she is in poor health, or in a bad mood, and her living expenses are not enough, her boyfriend always sends her a WeChat red envelope.

Originally, this was a concern of her boyfriend, but always receiving red envelopes made her feel a little embarrassed.

She feels that she is not married to her boyfriend and should not always spend his money like this.

Although she tried to discuss this issue with her boyfriend, her boyfriend said that she didn't want her girlfriend to be too independent, and she could rely on him more if she wanted a girlfriend.

The answer was very disturbing, so I asked whether I should continue to accept the WeChat red envelope sent by my boyfriend.

2

I still remember many articles saying that a man who is willing to spend money for you may not really love you, but a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.

This sentence seems reasonable. After all, in the face of the person we like, we always have an irresistible spoil.

If you want to spend money for her and watch her buy in buy buy, it is important to make her happy every day.

Of course, the heart and love in it are really touching, but some girls with independent personalities will always feel guilty about spending their boyfriends' money, just like the story above.

I asked some female friends around me, and almost none of them are willing to spend their boyfriends' money.

"It's ok to do it once or twice, but the more times you do it, the more you feel like you are kept in captivity."

"Another way is to avoid him asking you for the money he spent for you over the years after breaking up."

3

Yes, money is too sensitive. I'm not happy to accept myself, and I'm not happy not to accept my boyfriend. What should I do?

A respondent named winnie gave a very good answer.

take it, keep it in the account, and when you have plenty of money, add all kinds of daily necessities to him, or upgrade his daily necessities. At this stage, you can't really spend his money, but there is no need to directly reject the other party's mind.

If the living expenses are not enough, it is suggested to communicate with your family or find a part-time job to solve the fundamental problem. I think the most important thing in feelings is not independence, but mutual care and help.

Since your boyfriend wants to show how much he likes you by spending money for you, you can accept his love completely and return it to him in the same way.

I think it's better to learn to reciprocate than to repeatedly tell him not to give you any more money. I'm sure he will be very happy when he receives the little things you carefully prepared for him.

When I was brushing Zhihu, I saw this question:

A girl replied that she was currently in graduate school, while her boyfriend was at work, and they were in different places.

Sometimes when she is in poor health, or in a bad mood, and her living expenses are not enough, her boyfriend always sends her a WeChat red envelope.

Originally, this was a concern of her boyfriend, but always receiving red envelopes made her feel a little embarrassed.

She feels that she is not married to her boyfriend and should not always spend his money like this.

Although she tried to discuss this issue with her boyfriend, her boyfriend said that she didn't want her girlfriend to be too independent, and she could rely on him more if she wanted a girlfriend.

The answer was very disturbing, so I asked whether I should continue to accept the WeChat red envelope sent by my boyfriend.

2

I still remember many articles saying that a man who is willing to spend money for you may not really love you, but a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.

This sentence seems reasonable. After all, in the face of the person we like, we always have an irresistible spoil.

If you want to spend money for her and watch her buy in buy buy, it is important to make her happy every day.

Of course, the heart and love in it are really touching, but some girls with independent personalities will always feel guilty about spending their boyfriends' money, just like the story above.

I asked some female friends around me, and almost none of them are willing to spend their boyfriends' money.

"It's ok to do it once or twice, but the more times you do it, the more you feel like you are kept in captivity."

"Another way is to avoid him asking you for the money he spent for you over the years after breaking up."

3

Yes, money is too sensitive. I'm not happy to accept myself, and I'm not happy not to accept my boyfriend. What should I do?

A respondent named winnie gave a very good answer.

take it, keep it in the account, and when you have plenty of money, add all kinds of daily necessities to him, or upgrade his daily necessities. At this stage, you can't really spend his money, but there is no need to directly reject the other party's mind.

If the living expenses are not enough, it is suggested to communicate with your family or find a part-time job to solve the fundamental problem. I think the most important thing in feelings is not independence, but mutual care and help.

Since your boyfriend wants to show how much he likes you by spending money for you, you can accept his love completely and return it to him in the same way.

I think it's better to learn to reciprocate than to repeatedly tell him not to give you any more money. I'm sure he will be very happy when he receives the little things you carefully prepared for him.

When I was brushing Zhihu, I saw this question:

A girl replied that she was currently in graduate school, while her boyfriend was at work, and they were in different places.

Sometimes when she is in poor health, or in a bad mood, and her living expenses are not enough, her boyfriend always sends her a WeChat red envelope.

Originally, this was a concern of her boyfriend, but always receiving red envelopes made her feel a little embarrassed.

She feels that she is not married to her boyfriend and should not always spend his money like this.

Although she tried to discuss this issue with her boyfriend, her boyfriend said that she didn't want her girlfriend to be too independent, and she could rely on him more if she wanted a girlfriend.

The answer was very disturbing, so I asked whether I should continue to accept the WeChat red envelope sent by my boyfriend.

2

I still remember many articles saying that a man who is willing to spend money for you may not really love you, but a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.

This sentence seems reasonable. After all, in the face of the person we like, we always have an irresistible spoil.

If you want to spend money for her and watch her buy in buy buy, it is important to make her happy every day.

Of course, the heart and love in it are really touching, but some girls with independent personalities will always feel guilty about spending their boyfriends' money, just like the story above.

I asked some female friends around me, and almost none of them are willing to spend their boyfriends' money.

"It's ok to do it once or twice, but the more times you do it, the more you feel like you are kept in captivity."

"Another way is to avoid him asking you for the money he spent for you over the years after breaking up."

3

Yes, money is too sensitive. I'm not happy to accept myself, and I'm not happy not to accept my boyfriend. What should I do?

A respondent named winnie gave a very good answer.

take it, keep it in the account, and when you have plenty of money, add all kinds of daily necessities to him, or upgrade his daily necessities. At this stage, you can't really spend his money, but there is no need to directly reject the other party's mind.

If the living expenses are not enough, it is suggested to communicate with your family or find a part-time job to solve the fundamental problem. I think the most important thing in feelings is not independence, but mutual care and help.

Since your boyfriend wants to show how much he likes you by spending money for you, you can accept his love completely and return it to him in the same way.

I think it's better to learn to reciprocate than to repeatedly tell him not to give you any more money. I'm sure he will be very happy when he receives the little things you carefully prepared for him.