It is inevitable that we will encounter such a situation in our life: people often talk about their own shortcomings and shortcomings. So how do you face it? Should we laugh it off or be upset?

I think it depends on your friend's relationship with you and the type of things being said.

If it's an irrelevant person, you don't have to care at all, because people who understand you will naturally understand you. You don't have to let people who don't understand you understand. But if you are intimate friends, you have to put a question mark on your relationship. A true friend will not satirize a person casually, because he will consider the feelings of his friends before doing anything. Of course, you should also learn to judge whether this is a joke or a real irony. Everything still has a limit. If he exceeds this limit, you should remind him that he has gone too far, and you will be angry. If he does it again, you can have a good talk with him. For such a person who doesn't care about the face of his friends, you should also think about your relationship.

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There is also irony. If it is something innocuous, don't worry about it, because your friends may just be joking with you to adjust the atmosphere. But if it is related to your privacy or your family, it is a bit too much. It is extremely impolite to discuss other people's privacy in public, and it should not be regarded as entertainment talk. This kind of joking irony without considering other people's thoughts, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, you can talk to him seriously and tell him that you don't like him like this, and he has seriously hurt you and your dignity. Some things must be put on the table. If you have been embarrassed to speak because of your feelings, he doesn't know what you are thinking, and he won't change it. He doesn't know that you don't like his jokes, and you have been immersed in unspeakable pain.

There are also some malicious people who are deliberately sarcastic and sarcastic. The more embarrassed and sad you are, the happier they will be. At this time, you must not show weakness, and you must not let the bad guys succeed. If you can laugh it off, they will feel meaningless, because their starting point is to make you sad. If you show indifference, they will not make such boring jokes.

although we can't stop others' long crowd, we can change our mentality of looking at problems. How you look at the world, the world will repay you. So don't think too complicated. In the face of the irony of friends, what those people who really care about will make you care, and it is necessary to communicate. As for those irrelevant people, no matter what they are, they don't care. Laughing it off is the best way to deal with it.