The first is to pay attention to the child's personality and temper during the child's growth. The key here is not to tell children how to change their personality and temper, but to tell their parents whether their temper is good or not. "If parents are willful, children will have a sense of fear and escape. If parents are reasonable and all behaviors are predictable, children will not have strange temper. "
The second is the code of conduct. It is not parents who tell their children to study every day, but how to treat people and things in daily life. Yu believes that the key here lies in the exemplary role of parents. Parents should not neglect the little things in life. "Things that look particularly small, but when one thing, two things, three things, five things and ten things add up, the child becomes very polite and easily accepted by people around him. Once accepted by the people around him, he will have a strong sense of security, and his character and character will become more sound. In fact, many small things will become big things. "
The third is interest guidance. "Interest guidance is not that parents impose an interest on their children and tell you that you must do it, but that it becomes a force in your life according to the child's nature. Once he encounters this incident, he will have a sense of accomplishment and a sense of existence. " Parents should not emphasize that their children are inferior to others, because everyone is inferior to others. What parents should do is to help their children build some self-confidence. "This kind of self-confidence must not mean that he wants to learn this course well, but let the children deeply believe that no matter where they are, they are actually accepted by others."