Tell me about a friend around me!

Around 2003, China’s computer output was already considerable. In our city, the supply of Internet cafes on the market was also in short supply. This friend of mine had just graduated from elementary school to junior high school and started to get into computer games. He has been out of control ever since.

Insert a background here------------------------------------------ -------------------------------------------------- -----This guy has liked playing games since he was a child, playing marbles, making foreign cartoons, slot machines and other gambling-like games, and he is considered to be quite good among his friends. I remember that the owner of the canteen outside the community met his mother and told him that he had won money at the slot machine. Only then did his family know that this boy was a frequent player of the slot machine game. At that time, this incident was almost a household name in our community.

Besides, he started to get into computer games when he entered junior high school. Because he had been playful since he was a child and his academic performance was average, his family helped him sign up for a middle school closer to home. I only heard about it later. Talk about his various brilliant achievements.

The most popular game at that time was "Westward Journey". Some people born in the 1980s and 1990s should know that this game can be said to have attracted many people in an era when supervision was limited and the education system was not perfect. People have stories. This friend of mine was one of them, so much so that when we talked about playing games back then among our primary school classmates, everyone just listened to him.

At first, he asked for pocket money from his family to play. Later, he found that the reasons and excuses were almost the same, so he began to steal money from his family to play in Internet cafes. I remember that he was in school for a while, and he didn’t Those who eat breakfast just want to save themselves money and go online.

I once heard him say that he was really crazy about playing at that time. The craziest time was when he played continuously from the first night to the second half of the third night in an Internet cafe, and he slept at the same time afterwards. While playing, I counted two days and three nights. He said that he went directly to a noodle shop without breakfast in the morning, thinking that he would go home and sleep after eating, but he was woken up by the noodle shop owner later.

He later became a typical example for all parents in our community to educate their children. Because of his existence, I could only play with the computer at home on weekends, and it was limited to time.

Later, there was a story. His whole family mobilized to reason with him. His father gave him hard truths and his mother gave him soft truths, but the result was still not good.

His family situation is relatively ordinary, so at that time his family discussed buying a computer at home. Because they couldn't control it, they didn't want to eat anything, so they thought it would be fine as long as they didn't go to the Internet cafe every day. But you know, the computers in Internet cafes are specially designed for playing games, and the atmosphere is also different, so I still can't restrain him.

Just like that, I graduated from junior high school. I am still in the same school as high school. I know the people and the location, so I am also familiar with the route to the Internet cafe. After high school, he became even more lawless, skipping classes and surfing the Internet, staying up all night, and so on. Parents panicked and did not dare to let the teacher know, fearing that the teacher would expel him, so he could only be criticized by the teacher all the time.

Later, when he grew up, his mother would always talk about his confusion at that time, saying that one time the family got up in the middle of the night and found that the door was open. Later I found out that at that time, my family stayed up very late to prevent him from running out to surf the Internet in the middle of the night. There were several times when he tried to escape in the middle of the night and his parents caught him on the spot. Later, he learned a lesson. There was a sound when the iron door was closed, so he simply left it open and left it ajar. Thinking about it, there is nothing to say. To use a sentence I often joke with him, it is: it is really tiring for your parents to raise you without the help of the police uncle.

Later

At Sanben University in Qingdao, I was still very playful, but I was not as ignorant as I was when I was a child. I don’t know how many stories I have learned in the past few years in college.

When I met him later, he changed completely. He was not as naughty as he was when he was a child, he was more cunning, and his glasses were much thicker. Now he works in marketing for an Internet company. The company is relatively large and we rarely meet each other. The last time we chatted, he said that he was very busy. It seemed like it was last year. Maybe it will be the Spring Festival or his wedding when we see him again.

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Now that I think about it, this friend of mine is a smarter type of person, quite smart, but he was too crazy at the time. See you next time. I told him that I would share his story online, but I didn’t know when it would happen.

Many people describe the story in endlessly and hastily describe the moment. I am an exception. I will definitely come back to make updates when I see the protagonist next time.

I am a game addict. I went to a third-rate technical school at that time, where I had 4 classes in the morning, 2 classes in the afternoon, and half a day on Fridays. . And it’s a bad school with mostly self-study classes. . Basically, I stay up all night every day. In the morning, I go to 3-4 classes if I feel like it. In the afternoon, I go to the Internet cafe when I want to. . I often go to the Internet cafe at noon on Friday! I didn’t leave the Internet cafe until Monday morning! Now that I think about it, it's basically hopeless. . Including later entering the society, working 8 hours a day, surfing the Internet for 8 hours, sleeping and eating add up to less than 8 hours. . And save money and spend enough to play games. . Quitting Internet addiction does not mean that you suddenly stop playing when something stimulates you. . When I was 10 years old, I met my goddess and felt that I should take on family responsibilities. At that time, my family was not rich, so my girlfriend set several hard goals for me. I must buy a house and get married. I must have a car before I am 30 years old, and he must be before 30 years old. I wanted to have a Mercedes-Benz (although it was said to be the cheapest, but it always felt like a dream). Although I also played games at that time, I already put work and money first. I saved 70,000 yuan in 2013 and used credit cards for 20,000 yuan. My father-in-law borrowed 30,000 yuan to advance my salary for that month. . I scraped together more than 110,000 yuan to buy a small house. . This is considered to be the completion of the first goal. . But Internet addiction is still there. . When I bought the house, I had no money, so I could only buy furniture and appliances with my monthly salary. . In addition to the bed, I first bought 2 assembled computers. . . The most important thing is to play at home. . Haha, isn’t it funny? . But I regretted buying it. . Because they only have rice, oil and salt to pay for the baby's daily expenses, they don't have the energy to play at all. . I’m no longer addicted to the Internet at this time! Because of work reasons and social reasons, I started to like drinking. . I was born in 1987, and finally achieved my second goal in December 2016, buying a car worth 120,000 yuan. . How can there be any Internet addiction at this time? Life has become overwhelming. . My friends around me seem very encouraging. They buy a house and a car by themselves, and they look awesome, but they actually know how hard they live. My monthly salary is enough to pay off the mortgage, and my credit card is barely enough. I go out to Didi every day and run late into the night just to pay for the family expenses tomorrow. Save some money to buy something for your children. . It won’t be able to bear it for half a year. . I resigned and spent 2 months recuperating at home. Decided to start my own business. . We have no ability, no education, and no funds. I can only do a small business. I gritted my teeth, swiped 50,000 yuan on my credit card, and invested in a breakfast mom-and-pop restaurant. Maybe it’s a correct attitude towards life, or maybe it’s God’s blessing. . I actually did it without any experience. . Although not very awesome. But it’s enough to gain a foothold in our small city. . In October of this year, I will use all my savings to help my wife achieve her ultimate goal ahead of schedule. . Entry-level Mercedes-Benz. . Although I didn’t buy a Mercedes-Benz, it was still a car worth 300,000 yuan. . A few days after my wife started using it, she noticed that I had no goals and became lazy. . Go out and play with your new car all day and drink with friends. . Show off and show off everywhere. . Set another goal for me. . Two more branches will be opened in three years, and she will retire and become the boss's wife. . And also a Porsche. . . The entry-level Mikan costs RMB 600,000 to RMB 700,000. . . Why. . At this time, I feel that the state of living life with a sense of happiness and hard work is back. . Now think about the life I had now. . It’s really unimaginable! But it did. . Is this considered a prodigal son’s return? It’s more inspiring! Look at the car I bought for my wife. Isn’t it beautiful? . Come on, ***Mian. .

Let’s talk about two of my classmates. They are both game masters and Internet-addicted teenagers.

One is my high school classmate Liu Moumou. We were in high school from 2008 to 2011. In the past few years, information technology has developed very rapidly. He was obsessed with playing CrossFire, the most popular game at the time. At that time, he lived on campus in high school and went home once every two weeks. This master could stay online for 13 consecutive nights.

I usually sleep during class during the day, not to mention my academic performance. Sometimes I am not at the bottom of the list even if I occasionally copy. This person also likes to play football. He works as a goalkeeper in physical education class. He can fall asleep while standing. He can open his eyes immediately after the ball passes, and his classmates all say it is magical.

Later, Liu Moumou successfully failed to enter college and went to Japan to work. Almost all the classmates in the high school class were not very familiar with him, but they all had QQ. I accidentally discovered that he had already earned a few dollars in Japan. One hundred thousand, ready to return to China to get married.

The other one is a college classmate named Jia. When he was in school, everyone used laptops, but he went out of his way to build a high-end computer, and now he can use it to make a fortune. He likes to play Lualu and Westward Journey, but he uses the former for entertainment and the latter to make money.

In one summer vacation, he earned 4,000 yuan by playing games and selling equipment, so he hardly took any money from home for college and earned living expenses with his own hands. And, the most important thing is that this person Although he skipped almost every class, he was still not near-sighted and did not fail the class. He was truly a genius. Later, he went home and found a job, earning over 10,000 yuan a month. Through his unremitting efforts and his father's 10 million yuan, he successfully bought a car and a house.

1 There is a colleague who basically plays games except for work. He even often stays up all night to play a game called Tian Long Ba Bu. He dropped out of school at the age of fourteen and is now twenty-eight. He has no house, no car, no money. He has no money, no partner, and his family no longer cares about him. Except for one or two game friends, no one is close to him anymore. Now he repeats the same life every day.

2 A friend of a friend accidentally made a profit of 380,000 yuan by playing games in an Internet cafe, and then bought a small house. From then on, he focused on playing games for a year to recharge the money, and sold the house a year later. I was penniless after playing games, and now I am working as a driver in Guangdong

3 There is also a classmate who was addicted to games in junior high school and took more than 1,000 tuition fees to go to an Internet cafe without registering on his parents’ back. He stayed online for three days and nights, ordering takeout and eating instant noodles, until the head teacher called his parents, who searched everywhere before finding him. He had top-notch grades and was very smart, so he could go to the best high school in the provincial capital, but he ended up in a third-rate high school, and now he's making do with a not-so-good university.

My husband is from a 985 or 211 key university. Let me tell you a story about his classmate in university. This incident made me deeply realize that self-discipline is more important than high IQ, otherwise I will destroy myself in minutes.

There is an Internet cafe below my husband’s university dormitory. At that time, Internet access only cost 1 yuan an hour. This "unique" condition made these boys unable to stop, and they often formed groups to book nights to play games! His classmate is one of them, and he is the only one who always comes to every occasion and comes even when there is no occasion. He plays games in the Internet cafe almost every day. At the end of the semester, he failed all the subjects, and the teacher found his parents. The parents learned the truth about his addiction to online games and began to think of a solution.

However, the parents of this classmate were also at a loss for words, and the last solution they came up with was, Buy him a computer and put it in his dormitory so that he won't go to the Internet cafe. . . what? ! ! I expressed my strong incomprehension

Later, in my husband’s words, he could still move around in an Internet cafe, but after getting a computer, he couldn’t even get out of bed! The folding table is propped up on the bed with the computer on it. When I wake up, I play games. When I feel sleepy, I just lie down to sleep. When my roommate goes out, I bring him some food. I just play games in the dark every day. When he first entered college, he was chubby at 160 pounds. By the end of his freshman year, he was only 120 pounds.

At the end of the first semester of his freshman year, let alone failing the class, he didn’t even take the exam, okay? The teacher had no choice but to notify the school and parents, and then he repeated the grade. I was really drunk when he repeated the grade in college, and then his mother quit her job and came to study with him.

However, it seems that the situation has not improved much. He must have been polished by the game. He finally failed to repeat the grade in his sophomore year, and later I heard that he dropped out of school!

I am really sad for his misfortune and angry for his inability to fight, because such a good hand was ruined by me!

Let’s talk about me. I have been exposed to computers since I was in the third grade, and I especially love playing computer games. From Legend to the extremely addictive Fantasy Westward Journey, I played it from the second grade of junior high school to the sophomore year. In junior high school, I often skipped breakfast to save money and play games at night. I spent at least tens of thousands on a Fantasy Westward Journey. But I am a student. After I graduated, I started playing games one after another and stopped playing them, mainly because I lost my addiction. My classmates all found good jobs after graduation, but I helped my uncle with odd jobs, moving goods and the like. By chance, I went to a decoration company for delivery. The designers there were all about my age. I envied them for being able to draw such beautiful drawings while sitting at the computer. So at that time, I vowed to become a designer. It was 2009, so I won’t talk about the heartbreaking process. In 2013, I bought a 220,000 Teana, and in 2014, I established a company with a friend. After working hard, I picked up a Mercedes-Benz e300l in July this year. He mentioned a Cadillac ct6.

People who are addicted to various mobile and computer online games spend all day playing games at home or in Internet cafes. Most of them are students. They are not interested in studying and have poor grades. They sometimes stay up all night, are listless, have dark circles under their eyes every day, and some eat twice a day. Packing instant noodles can cause hunger and thinness. There are also young people in society. Migrant workers spend every day on the Internet making friends and playing games.

Many young people who are studying use their mobile phones to play various games and do not want to go to work and become homebodies and homegirls.

Three years ago, there was a man in my hometown. He was a wealthy and well-known local minister. He sold two buildings of 300 to 400 square meters in the county town. His two sons did nothing after studying. They were here every day. To play games online at home, the mobile phone fee is 700 yuan per month. Young men in their twenties play games when they are full, go to bed when they are tired, and go out to eat, drink and have fun with their fair-weather friends at night, making them obese. The matchmaker introduced me to a girl who wanted to get married when her family was wealthy. However, her parents scolded her all day long and refused to find a job. Finally, her parents did not allow the girl because they were afraid that getting married would harm her and lead to divorce. In the future, many properties will be lost.

Finally, I asked my colleague to help him find a job in Foshan. He wears a gold necklace around his neck and a gold ring on his finger. When looking for a job, many factories see his style and dare not recruit him unless he has to endure hardship. He couldn't find a job for even three months. His parents said they didn't care how much he earned every month, as long as he was willing to work to support himself, and they only had to pay a referral fee of 5,000 yuan to find him a general worker in a factory. I wonder if you still work there? I haven’t asked my fellow countrymen and colleagues in two years.

Let me talk about a colleague of mine who has made his life a mess because he is addicted to games.

By the way, this colleague is quite handsome, tall and thin, and talks very little. He just nods and smiles when he sees people, and then passes by. Although he has assigned work tasks by the department manager, His work was not outstanding, but he was able to finish it on time, and his colleagues had a good impression of him.

Our unit has a batch of temporarily stored equipment in the city below, and we would like to send one of our own people to take care of it. The leader was very worried about who to send because it was in a village, remote and desolate. Who would want to go from a bustling city to a village? They even abandoned their homes and could only go home once a month. Just when the leader was worried, this colleague volunteered himself and asked to continue. He had no other requirements for living conditions and just asked if there was an Internet cable. As soon as he was told that there was a network cable and a subsidy was given, the colleague immediately packed up his things.

After a while, the leader went to inspect the work and called the colleague in advance, but he did not come out to greet him. After inspection, it was found that many of the equipment in the yard had been dismantled by the villagers and sold for scrap. When he arrived at the warehouse, he discovered that this colleague was sitting in front of the bed surrounded by quilts, playing games, and the room was full of instant noodle boxes. The leader was so angry that he took him back and punished him by letting him reflect at home for a period of time.

Two months later, his wife came to the unit crying and asked for help from the boss, asking him to come back to work. One of them was not working, and her income was too low, and she could not support the family by herself. Another reason is that he plays games every day at home and doesn't care about the children. His wife goes to work every day and has to pick up the children after work and cook for him. When he stops him from playing games, he gets furious. What's even more outrageous is that her wife I finally saved 150,000 yuan and wanted to keep it for my son to go to school in the future. I don’t know how I let this colleague know the password, so I secretly took it out and bought all the gaming equipment.

Colleagues looked at each other: Spend 150,000 yuan to buy gaming equipment? It really refreshed our outlook.

Later, this colleague came directly to the work unit to apply for internal withdrawal, and only received the minimum living allowance of 1,720 yuan a month. When his wife found out that he had applied for internal withdrawal, she fainted with anger.

Now his wife is divorcing him, and he just keeps playing games at home, paying no attention to anything, and seems to be isolated from the world. But he resolutely rejected his wife's request for divorce.

This colleague who is addicted to games regards his life as a game, and he doesn’t know when he will get out of it.

I was once an Internet-addicted teenager who was used as a negative teaching material in school. Let me tell you about my experience.

I was born in the late 1990s. I first came into contact with games in the fifth grade of elementary school. At that time, I played stand-alone games in an Internet cafe for 2 yuan an hour, and a night package was 8 yuan. I was 11 years old at that time. Because my parents often went out, I also I became a frequent visitor to Internet cafes, playing CS, Three Kingdoms, VR SWAT, and having a great time.

In the first year of junior high school, when everyone around me was playing Legend, I became obsessed with Miracle, and it was also a private server, Papaya Miracle. I spent 200 yuan on it, bought a big sky war, and led the way. In the entire Internet cafe, I stayed up all night at that time and went to school to sleep during the day.

I was expelled from school in the first semester of junior high school. As for me, I was beaten up by my family and ran away over the wall in the middle of the night. I went out and found a job in a car wash shop. In 2003, food and accommodation were included for 900 yuan a month, and the salary was paid daily, 30 yuan a day. It was not too fun. The overnight package was 5 yuan, a bottle of drink, and a piece of fried noodles in the middle of the night. Chicken legs, I still have 10 yuan left to buy clothes for the girls in the Audition or to get memberships.

I miss those days now. I washed the car every morning, went to the Internet cafe all night, and slept with different girls every now and then. Of course, it's not that exaggerated. I only slept with about ten of them in half a year.

Since I am in an Internet cafe, the security situation is not good, and I hang out with gangsters, so I also joined a small gang. Because I danced and dated others, and because of the influence of Young and Dangerous, I started fighting at the barbecue stall. , two of the other party died, one of us died, and I was stabbed in the stomach. Because we were both minors, and my family had spent some money, my parents didn’t trust me, so they took me home.

The conditions at home were not bad. I opened a small factory at that time, so I helped at home, working during the day and surfing the Internet at night. My dad always said that I was harmed by games, so we quarreled every now and then. I couldn't stay at home anymore. In 2007, I rented a house by myself, opened online banking, and started online shopping and setting up stalls, mainly in front of high schools, selling clothes, fashionable brand shirts, slippers, and creative gifts. Not many people know about Taobao, so my business is very good. I earn an average of 3,000 to 5,000 yuan a month. I once bought a dragon-print shirt and made 5,000 yuan in one afternoon. At that time, the monthly salary of ordinary people was only more than 2,000 yuan. Because freedom does not prevent me from playing games and making money, my life is incredible. At that time, my junior high school friends were still in high school. I had already bought a second-hand Fukang, which was very popular, and I still set up a stall. , play games, sleep with girls.

In 2010, my sister persuaded me that people like me who had not graduated from junior high school would have a very hard time in the future. Then she signed me up for the adult full-time self-study exam, where I had classes during the day and played games at night. I successfully obtained the certificate in 2013, and then I My sister was doing foreign trade in Shenzhen. At that time, she wanted to quit her job and do it on her own, so I went to Shenzhen to help. She was in charge of foreign business, and I was responsible for running the warehouse supply in Huaqiangbei. She did it more and more smoothly, and she made more and more money. In Huaqiang I bought an office in Beijing and a suite next to the Vienna Hotel. After 2017, I felt that Shenzhen was too stressful and I didn’t have time to play games, so I returned to a fourth-tier city. I stayed in Shenzhen for 3 years and saved a lot of money. I bought about 800,000 yuan. When I got married and bought a house and a car, my parents didn’t help me at all. I still had 20,000 yuan in cash.

Now I work 4 hours every morning, play games in the afternoon, and take care of my children at home in the evening. I live an easy life without any success. I earn about 10,000 yuan a month and my life here is not bad. The mortgage is 1,500 a month and the car is 300,000 is enough to have a beautiful wife and lovely daughter, but it is still inseparable from games. Now I play King of Kings on my mobile phone, Fortnite on my computer, and Cousin on my TV.

Now I don’t smoke or drink. I love cooking and coaxing children. Maybe I went out to play a lot in the past, but now I really hate being in a mixed environment, and I don’t like to go out and yell at people. I just like to spend time with my children at home. Watching Peppa Pig together has become the target of praise from relatives. In the past, I taught my younger brothers and sisters not to be like me, but now they want to learn more like me, haha. 3

I just celebrated my 28th birthday a few days ago. I plan to wait until I am 30 and my child goes to kindergarten. Then I will go out to make some money and save some dowry for my child.

This is a real case! ! !

My roommate for four years in college played games for four years. After graduation, he went to a certain vocational school in Guangxi to be a counselor and gave lectures on the podium! It really surprised us!

I was a freshman in September 2012. The conditions in our dormitory were relatively difficult. There were only eight people in the dormitory. I was so scared that I was scared to death. Is this still a university? Although the living conditions are difficult, there are so many people, and our relationship with our dormmates is pretty good! At that time, playing CF was quite popular in 2012. Ever since my dorm roommate got a computer, he became obsessed with playing CF. After class, I would go back to the dormitory and start playing. Not to mention how excited I was! In a dormitory, I and another dormmate don't play games. There are three or four who love playing games and are obsessed with them!

In 2013, I switched from CF to League of Legends, also known as LOL, which was really popular at the time. Let’s play the game and post the score table on QQ space. Don’t mention how happy you are! Just like that, I just stared at the computer, playing and playing, and just like that I graduated

I didn’t fall in love for four years in college, I didn’t even hold my girl’s hand, I just touched the mouse and keyboard every day, Facing the screen, I played the game for four years in college!

I believe that many people will meet college classmates who love to play games and sometimes skip class to play games!

In 2016, we graduated! I forgot to tell you, our major is environmental art design! After graduation, we all found jobs in relevant companies that matched our majors!

My classmate who had been playing for four years resigned after less than three months of design work, and later became an insurance company. I took out insurance for a short period of time and resigned.

It happened to be last year, that is, July 2017, when a college in Guangxi was recruiting counselors! My roommate applied for the job and was successful!

We all know that counselors are the lowest level in the university teaching profession, but that doesn’t matter!

A person who has been playing games for four years actually became a tutor in a junior college. Moreover, he has never spoken on the podium in his four years of college. The kind that still shakes!

Now he is bringing with him junior college students from the Department of Economics and Management! A graduate of the environmental design major of the art college, who did not take the teaching qualification certificate, and had always been a roommate who played games in school, actually became a teacher in a junior college, and led students from the economics and management department of a certain junior college. They met on August 20 I will go to Guangdong to work around the same time, which is the so-called internship, and it will be led by my old friend!

Awesome!

I will obey the whole class!