1. They don’t know men.

Most women do not have the qualities to be chased by men who are attracted by them at first sight, and most of their feelings are not expressed through persistent stalking, but are easily dealt with. Especially beautiful girls, they have been immune to sweet words since they were young. Sisters, if you haven’t seen pigs running, how can you eat pork? So those stupid young people who come over and say I admire you have no feeling at all.

But after they are immune to sweet talk, they have no other way to get to know men. What are men doing? They are playing games, playing mahjong, watching girls in AV, looking for opportunities to masturbate... (Of course not They must all be doing this, I can do anything just to rhyme) In short, men have many hobbies, which in the eyes of these girls are not part of their real job, but in fact these are just the normal needs of men. If you want men to know your good qualities in a serious way and then pursue your good qualities, you have to give them opportunities to get in touch. No matter how good-looking a girl is, the most men want is a girl who has no chance to hang out with men. You use QQ to say hello, but how much goodwill can you increase in mutual favor through QQ? If you only pursue a way to get to know a man by being talked about, it is easy to become more and more artificial, hypocritical, insincere, restless and boring, so your understanding of the opposite sex will become more and more biased.

Hello, brother, I am the author of the love secret book "Nan Hao's Attack on Love"! In fact, girls need to be coaxed not only during their menstrual period, but also when they are in a bad mood or when they are frustrated. However, many boys mistakenly think that being nice to her means coaxing girls. This is a very straight and wrong behavior. What girls want is the soul. comfort, emotional comfort. This is also the best chance to catch her. If you still don’t know how to do it, I suggest you search online for Dongyiyun Love Secrets, which will give you a love manual with high emotional intelligence, from chatting skills to emotional driving skills, using high emotional intelligence. By upgrading your relationship, you will find that girls are really easy to chase. You don’t need to be handsome or rich to attract girls with high scores.

So I think girls, especially when they are studying, should take part in more part-time jobs, play more online games, participate in more card games, go to dance halls to dance, and even learn to drive. Participating in some group activities are all feasible methods... To find a man, you have to look for him in a place where there are many men. Even if this lifestyle will not add 10 points to your exam, it will not make you earn more money every month. , but appropriate, even entertainment activities that are not part of the real job are necessary. Don’t be afraid that men will take advantage of you. Firstly, rape is not that simple. Secondly, you don’t have so many advantages to take advantage of. Thirdly, in fact, the more you understand that a man is not your enemy when you are young, and treat him as a... normal person to distance yourself, the easier it will be to distinguish between fragrance and smell.

In short, the first step to find a boyfriend is to get to know the man.

2. The entry threshold is too high.

Many girls have such a problem, that is, they do not "love" easily, but if there is no "love" as a prerequisite, they are too embarrassed to have more contact with men. If they have had sex with men a few times, After chatting for a few times, they will be eager to come to a conclusion about whether they are suitable or not. If they are not suitable, they are not ready to contact them again. Moreover, if they find a person who seems suitable, they will refuse all contact with other men. (Of course, I also hope that men will reject all interactions with other women). This kind of personality seems to be quite good, but in fact it is not suitable for ordinary people to interact step by step. Instead, it has made itself... an island. And when you feel that it is not suitable and want to change, you find that time has passed, your mind has not matured and you are more anxious, and you don't have a man at all. The more you are afraid, the less worthwhile it is, and the less valuable it is, the less you dare to start.

In fact, unless the conditions are particularly favorable, or two people are particularly eye-catching, most people’s judgment in dating requires investing time and energy in advance, investing first, and then judging. Finding a suitable person is not easy. It's easier than finding a job you like. You see, we have to do the job we want to do, go to a good school, take exams, get a scholarship, and then we have to be a good horseman for a few years...and then we can slowly adapt to work and work creatively.

The same goes for the relationship between the sexes. How can someone who doesn't know anything else know how to make a decision and know whether to advance or retreat immediately after eating a few meals?

So in fact, when dating a man, you should never rush to make a judgment. The more inexperienced a person is, the easier it is to make a mistake in judgment. And you have to be open-minded. Boys are just like you. They are very nervous about dating. Occasionally make a mistake and struggle with it. Don’t preconceptionally think that someone is not suitable. You can complain to your sisters and think they are the best. You can masturbate for the rest of your life - - I know the outstanding men around me, and I will tell you some of the mistakes I made when I first started, which is even better...

Men and women can grow together. It is impossible to get it right in one step. They grow up together, but they also reject their own growth, so girls, find more things to do with men, hang out in front of men more often, find more excuses to play together, open the windows and let the wind blow in. As for whether you feel comfortable enough to take off your clothes, take your time and think about it.