There are too many people to meet in this life. Some people you like, but you must let them go. Some people you hate, but you can only let them wander in front of you because of face. But decades have passed, and they have experienced the bitterness of life. After watching the ups and downs of life, their mood is different. When things are clear, life will start to subtract. See those bad friends, travel light and really enjoy life. When people reach middle age, these four kinds of people are not worth making friends with. The sooner they leave, the better!

First of all, fair-weather friends

When I was a child, some friends always got together just to have fun. At that time, I thought this life was the best. However, with the growth of my age, my interest in eating and drinking has gradually declined, and unrestrained eating, drinking and having fun is extremely harmful to my health. So I should gradually stay away from eating, drinking and having fun after middle age.

Fair-weather friends are called by this name because they will always appear only when you are eating, drinking and having fun. When you are in trouble, they run faster than anyone else. When I was young, I still had the courage to start over. But when people reach middle age, they are often at a loss. Therefore, it is best to have less contact with people who only hit people when they are down, and stay away as soon as possible.

Second, people with bad hobbies

Bad habits are never formed by young people, and people of any age are no exception. Because bad habits themselves take advantage of the weaknesses in human nature and can drag those people to the abyss step by step, so don't feel that you are used to watching the ups and downs of the world and are indifferent. When you fall into it, it's too late to regret it.

From the beginning, it is the wisest choice to stay away from those who have bad hobbies. Those who come near Zhu Zhechi will be black. Maybe you will say that you will control yourself not to touch these things, but if the other party intentionally drags you into the water, you can't stop it. Many people get addicted to drugs just by going to a KTV, and many others are cheated by their friends to be thieves because they want to. People are unpredictable, so stay away from those risk factors as soon as possible.

Third, the opposite sex with an ambiguous relationship

The relationship between men and women is the most invisible. Maybe you think it's just an ambiguous object. What's the big deal? However, this ambiguous object is likely to completely ruin your life. When people reach middle age, life is stable, children grow up and the relationship between husband and wife gradually improves, then an ambiguous object can destroy you. It's not easy for anyone. I hope to have a happy ending along the way. Why bother asking for trouble? You ruin all happiness in a flash.

Fourth, people who can't hide from you.

People who can't see what you are will naturally not look forward to what you will be like in the future and contribute to your success. Therefore, it is unacceptable to have such people around. You think it's okay for them to say a few sarcastic words when you are good, but if you are in trouble, they may get into trouble and cheat you.

Green uncle's conclusion is:

After middle age, there is no need for these four kinds of friends to associate with each other again, which is costly and frustrating! Friends in life must keep their eyes open. If you are optimistic, make friends again. If you find that this friend is not worth making, stop in time. After all, it's not easy for anyone to live, so why bother?