People play different social roles according to age, gender, occupation, position and environment. When interacting with people, different roles have different codes of conduct, so when interacting with different people, they have different requirements and skills.
First of all, we should think of others everywhere and avoid being self-centered. To improve the relationship between colleagues, we must learn to consider problems from other angles and be good at making appropriate self-sacrifice.
Express yourself and treat everyone's achievements as your own. Providing opportunities for others and helping others achieve their goals in life is very important for dealing with interpersonal relationships.
Thinking of others is also manifested in giving a helping hand and helping others when they encounter difficulties and setbacks. Good interpersonal relationships are often mutually beneficial. All the care and help you give others will be rewarded when you are in trouble.
Secondly, open-minded, good at accepting others and accepting yourself. Don't waste time praising others. But you should be careful not to exaggerate blindly, which will give people a false feeling and lose others' trust in you.
Thirdly, we should master the skills of talking with colleagues. When talking with colleagues, pay attention to his speech and give appropriate feedback. Listening attentively represents understanding and acceptance, and it is a bridge connecting the soul. Pay attention to being subtle, humorous, concise and vivid when expressing ideas. Implicit not only shows your elegance and self-cultivation, but also plays a role in avoiding differences, explaining opinions and not hurting relationships. When commenting and pointing out others' mistakes, we should pay attention to the occasion and use peaceful words to avoid hurting others' self-esteem and causing resistance. Humor is the spice of language, which can make conversation lively and interesting. Conciseness requires that when talking with people, you should master what you should say and not say what you shouldn't. When talking with people, you should have your own emotional input, so that you can impress people with your feelings. This is called vividness. Of course, to master the skills of expressing yourself, you need to practice constantly, increase your cultural confusion and broaden your horizons.
Finally, take time to mingle with colleagues. This is also a good way to cultivate your various interests and make friends with them. In addition, exchanging information and learning from your own experience can coordinate interpersonal relationships.
Good interpersonal relationship is an art. All people need constant study and practice to master it. I hope you can make a self-analysis according to your own specific situation, break through the self-enclosed barrier with an open mind and build a harmonious interpersonal relationship.