As a father, Fu Lei has never regarded his son simply as a child. Instead, he treats his son as a rival and friend who can discuss art and music. Talk to your son about music, performance, literature, painting, philosophy, and Eastern and Western culture. Come out and talk about art with your son in an equal and heart-to-heart language. Guide your son's vision and knowledge to grow day by day, and climb to new heights in the music world.
"My son has become a friend. Is there anything in the world that can compare with this kind of happiness?".
As a middle-aged man, Fu Lei tried his best to communicate with his son. To stir up some of the unique feelings of young people in my son. In this way, you can gain new insights about thought, art, and life.
Therefore, he showed great interest and concern in what he saw and heard when his son traveled around the world to perform. Fu Lei said: Although we will get older, we will not be left behind and will always want to follow behind you.
Fu Lei wanted to achieve the purpose of sorting out and systematizing thoughts through letter training.
Mr. Fu Lei believes that if a person's thoughts are not written down, he will not be systematic. As time goes by, he will let them go or even forget them. Wouldn't it be a pity!
Fu Lei encouraged his son to write more letters with ideological substance. Therefore, in addition to trivial matters in life, the content of the letters is more about discussing art and life, and encouraging his son to be an artist with both morals and art and outstanding personality.
"While writing letters to sort out my thoughts, I will find that I have many new ideas. No matter about music, life, or piano skills, I will definitely have new inspirations at any time, which will be helpful for my future life."< /p>
Mr. Fu Lei clearly told the child through a letter. Writing letters can improve your understanding of things, your thinking ability, and your realm of life.
Mr. Fu Lei not only cares about children's academic studies, but also provides children with comprehensive care and education in the ideological and moral fields.
Fu Lei will guide children to understand what love is. “What an artist needs most, besides reason, is love.” "This love is by no means the emotion of a vulgar mother-in-law, but a passionate, sincere, pure, noble, raging, and selfless love. Only in this way can art be understood and expressed."
Fu Lei will also guide Children should have a broad mind. To be an artist, you must first learn to be a human being. A broad mind can accommodate the "broad world of art". Accept the "infinite variety of shapes and colors" to understand any work of art.
Teach children to be sincere. Only by being sincere can you have an open mind and thus make continuous progress.
Guide children to establish lofty educational goals: first as a person, then as an artist, then as a musician, and finally as a pianist.
In the process of educating his children, Mr. Fu Lei sets an example for his children at any time and anywhere. No matter in terms of life, details of life, artistic cultivation, or performance posture.
Fu Lei believes: "The most powerful argument in the world is through practical actions; the most effective education is through setting an example."
He not only regards this as his creed, but also Make it all your own.
Communicate sincerely and speak truthfully. The valuable thing about Mr. Fu Lei is that while educating his children, he will also put himself into it. He will do ruthless self-analysis when he fails to do so, so as to guide his son to take his own problems and shortcomings seriously and reflect on them.
In summary, after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter",. The role of letters from home in the communication process between Fu Lei and his son is fourfold: 1. Discussing art, 2. Inspiring ideals, 3. Training writing and thinking, 4. Being a faithful mirror.