My answer is no

1. Work is division of labor and cooperation, and colleagues are just a competitive relationship.

I’m here to work, not to make friends. I’m here to make money. Can you tell me that the moon is clear and the years are quiet? Those who really want to work hard and seriously will not think about making friends. You become friends with your supervisor, he treats you to supper, you stay up late to make reports for him, you become friends with your manager, she draws a five-year pie for you, you work overtime for him to earn customers, you and your colleagues Make colleagues and become friends. You can have dinner together at noon, go shopping and bad-mouth your boss, but this will not stop him from taking your performance and your promotion spot.

The boss can only see what you can bring to him. If you want to be friends with him, you are just working hard for him. The competitive relationship between colleagues. If you want to be friends with him, he only wants to use You plan.

2. Network ≠ Friends

The definition of colleagues and friends given by Baidu Encyclopedia. Wherever there are people, there is a world. There is such a big world in the workplace. Just do your job seriously, work hard to improve yourself, climb to a higher position, and make more money. Friends are the emotional sustenance when you are sad. It is someone you rely on when you are lonely, someone who has the same three views and makes you feel comfortable, rather than some intrigues in the workplace. You will be on guard against whether he will steal your ideas, occupy your position, or snatch your reports. Once you are on guard, Still friends?

I struggled to survive in society and finally found a place. One night you complained to me that the company worked too much overtime and that the boss was a fool. He wanted you to work hard for just a little money. I agreed. You just said a few words, and you were interviewed by your boss the next day, and all your quarterly bonuses were wiped out. Are we friends? No, I am the first chicken leg that you serve as your boss’s lackey. Competitive relationship, connections ≠ friends.

A group of colleagues will work together for one thing. He will make up for your shortcomings and maximize your strengths. You will make a beautiful plan. This is not Because you are friends, but because you have related interests. Your mistakes may cause the bonus to be wiped out, and his delay may cause the loss of customers, so you have to help each other. How can you be friends if you have related interests? When it comes to self-interest, no one will give in. The fittest will survive, and people and wealth will die.

3. Make friends≠without reservation

Everyone comes out to work to make a living. I regard you as a friend and share with you the ideas I come up with. You and I will discuss it and then write You come up with a plan and hand it over to your boss, and then you get a promotion and a salary increase, and you get promoted and make a fortune, but I still write the plan silently. Are we friends? No, I'm more like a stepping stone on your way to promotion. It's a competitive relationship, so don't talk about it in a superficial way.

So the better the relationship you have with your colleagues, if something goes wrong, it's usually him who gets the most serious