After that, try to choose a crowded place, which is more public. Because it is inevitable to be nervous when you meet for the first time (especially you, you feel particularly nervous ...), and the fewer people there are, the more embarrassed they are. Once two people don't talk, can't find a topic, or chat one by one, you don't know what to say because you are nervous, which will lead to embarrassment or silence. So, when you meet for the first time, try to reduce the situation of only the two of you. Of course, it doesn't mean to bring a group of people to meet together, but to be lively around, so as not to appear "just the two of you", and the lively environment can also relax your mind, or change the topic at any time because of the environment, so as not to have nothing to say. And then ... this will increase the safety factor. I don't doubt that he has ulterior motives for you (in fact, not necessarily, or you have ulterior motives for others and can't help but want to hold their hands, ahem ~). However, since this is our first meeting, since you want to have a longer-term development with him, this meeting should be "solemn" (but unlike the meeting of national leaders. ), so the place you choose is very important. Too private space will make meeting seem too ambiguous.
I suggest you choose the meeting place and the following itinerary according to your interest. (In fact, if two people meet, even if they just sit in the shade of the park and watch the pedestrians come and go, are they happy to talk? After that, see if you want to have dinner together according to the time, and try to choose your favorite place. If he says you like it, or it's casual, it will test your understanding of him and try to choose his favorite food and place to eat. In this process, what to drink should also be according to his preferences. If you can buy the right drink and take him to eat his favorite food, he will be very touched and very happy when you let him know that your understanding of him is so true, so considerate and so unobtrusive.
If you want to start with friends, there is nothing to worry about. You're just too nervous, so your heart is in a mess. ) naturally, you are friends. Since you agree to meet, the premise is at least a friend (or maybe he has fallen in love with you). Hey ~), since he has regarded you as a friend, why are you still worried about this problem? !
Finally, the problem of your performance. Take it easy! Nature! You are you!
Although you are really nervous, you may be more nervous then, and this kind of tension seems inevitable. However, it must be remembered that just let nature take its course, and you at ordinary times are you in the future. From dressing to talking, don't be too different from yourself. It is of course essential to dress up before going out, but this is to show that you attach importance to this meeting. Right? )
In addition, the most important thing is that no matter how nervous you are, you stutter, your brain is short-circuited, you can't walk, your parents don't know you, but don't be expressionless, you don't like to pay attention to what he says, even if you are already nervous, you won't say anything at this time, so you must respond, even if it is an uh-huh, ah, oh. Try to express your feelings. Otherwise, after meeting, he will probably think that you are disappointed in him, which is why you are so indifferent, so indifferent!
You know you're not like that, but he doesn't know! The misunderstanding just appeared!
This is definitely what you don't want to see, right What's more, although he was very hurt, he didn't say anything. When he came back, he thought you had a bad impression on him, so he dared not talk to you. You also thought he had a bad impression on you, so he ignored you!
Terrible misunderstanding, that's how you talk!
So, so, no matter what happens, you should try to express your true feelings!
If you are too nervous to do it, pinch yourself or encourage yourself in your heart, XXX, are you a man! Do you want to be misunderstood !
The final conclusion: the meeting place should be open, and the activities and itinerary should be mainly arranged by the two of you (mainly his, but also arrange some things that you are interested in to let him know more about you. ) people's interest. Eating and drinking is a test of how well you know him. Let him move!
Finally, what does it matter if you stay at home too long, what does it matter if you are out of touch with the outside, and what does it matter if you are stupid and unsociable? My heart is still beating. Wouldn't it be better to let him teach you how to speak and communicate?
Come on! You will succeed! (After listening to my advice, of course. Ah, hahaha, I really contributed, hahaha. Ignore me, I'm just hungry ...)
Ah, ah, I forgot to mention, I want to increase my feelings, and I will get familiar with it after I get familiar with it. To increase the time of two people, at that time, the more two people, the better. Hey hey.