Among them, a paragraph in the bumpy memory is quite impressive.
This passage is excerpted from Shen Fu's Six Chapters of a Floating Life. This passage describes that after his wife, Yunniang, died of illness, Shen Fu personally arranged the funeral for Yunniang with the support of his friends and the sale of everything at home. At this time, Shen Fu had nothing. Sadness and loneliness arise.
Therefore, this sentence in the passage advises couples in the world not to hate each other or be too affectionate.
For Shen Fu, it's actually more like a kind of feeble wail.
The last sentence in the paragraph says "loving couples are not coming to an end", and the rest can be used as a lesson.
It can be translated into the saying: "A loving couple never ends", and people like me (and the couple with a mother) can serve as a warning.
After the death of his wife, he expressed to the world that even if he and his wife were as affectionate as each other, it would not be permanent after all, thus expressing his grief and indignation at the injustice in heaven.
Shen Fu has only one book, that is, this self-rotating prose Six Chapters of a Floating Life, with six volumes. Recorded what he saw and heard in his life. It is also because of this book that he is famous in history.
Compared with what he saw and heard in his life, what I probably can't forget is the love between him and his wife Chen Yun.
Shen Fu fell in love with Chen Yun at first sight. Chen Yun is actually Shen Fu's cousin. She was smart and fond of reading since childhood, and she could memorize Pipa when she was young, but her father died early, which made her family poor. And her mother and young brother are left at home.
When she grows up, she is good at needlework, and a family of three all depend on her craft for a living. Shen Fu said to his mother: Chen Yun will not marry in this life. His mother saw that Chen Yun was knowledgeable, virtuous and capable, and she liked it very much. I promised Shen Fu to marry her.
since they met, Chen Yun and Shen Fu have been congenial to each other. After their marriage, they naturally took Qi Mei as an example and accompanied each other. Often talking about poetry books, enjoying the moon and drinking, every move is enviable. Chen Yun is considerate to Shen Fu. Shen Fu loves small drinks and doesn't like many dishes. She makes a lunch box like plum petals and puts it on her desk for him to eat at any time. Shen Fuai's dating association, she will try her best to help him. Shen Fu's clothes are mended in time when they are broken, and cleaned in time when they are dirty. The family is poor, and Chen Yun also grows vegetables by hand to supplement the family, and never complains.
Shen Fu was also very caring for Chen Yun. In feudal society, women were like frogs sitting in a well, and they were not allowed to go out at will. But when Shen Fu meets something new outside, he will tell her in detail, so that she can feel the same. Occasionally, they will secretly deceive their families. Chen Yun disguised as a man and took her to the temple fair to enjoy the lively scene outside.
In that era when men were superior to women, Chen Yun did not live a daily life like other wives. But in addition to ordinary life, I will choose to discuss their preferences with my husband. From Chen Yun, we can see that she not only has the characteristics of women, but also has the characteristics that they don't have. Such Chen Yun was obviously a very "special" woman at that time.
Not only did she tell her husband that she would be a man in her next life and travel around the world with her husband, but she also took the initiative to find a concubine for her husband because she liked a woman's personality. But also thinking about finding concubines for her father-in-law, etc. … From these, we can see the difference between her and women of this era. As the saying goes, "beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million."
Shen Fu and Chen Yun are supposed to be a match made in heaven. As good wives and friends, they are deeply attached to each other. However, the good times don't last long, and you can't grow old.
Every time I read Six Chapters of a Floating Life and look at Chen Yun written by Shen Fu, I can't help laughing when I read their ordinary life. How wonderful it is to feel interesting in such a boring and boring life. How can there be such a lovely person as Chen Yun in the world? Unlike ordinary couples, they are more like bosom friends and soul mates. The two people's three views are consistent, and the tacit understanding is full, which makes me very envious.
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