If you are in high school or junior high school, and a dormitory is a classmate in the same class, then everyone will definitely leave a good impression on each other from the beginning, and it also depends on your personal personality. If you are a little introverted, don't know how to find a topic, and are carried away by the enthusiasm of others, you can be lively once in a while (after cooking), but you don't have to force a smile, everything should cater to the feelings of others. Over time, this will make you feel very tired, because you have established an intimate and kind image in front of everyone, and if you are not good at words, people may tend to talk to you about something, and finally you will be physically and mentally exhausted. . So you can be enthusiastic and don't force yourself to do something that makes you uncomfortable when you should relax.
If you don't want to make friends with roommates who don't like you, don't show your disgust. The relationship should be handled well. You can do me a favor, say something small normally, or listen to them chat. After all, everyone is in the same class, so just face it with a normal heart.
If you have a good time here, you can start running around with her, as long as the other roommates have the right relationship, and don't be too flattering. At ordinary times, there are some things shared that can ease each other's classmates' friendship, and some are of poor quality or do not pay attention to personal hygiene. If your roommate secretly discusses that person's shortcomings with you again, all you have to do is stay neutral and don't make excessive remarks, even if you agree with her, then you just need to listen to your roommate's complaints.
Since this roommate told you about that person behind your back, there is no shortage of him to discuss your situation in front of others. Therefore, if you are unfamiliar, you should know how to read and feel, talk to different people in different ways, and leave less disasters that are easy to leave criticism ... Pay attention to things, everyone is not as kind as it seems.
Some people who are really annoying, reduce contact, but normal conversation is still ok. If he asks you for help and is in a position within his power, you can help him, and sometimes you can find a reason to refuse when he asks you. If you keep rejecting him, then your dislike has been detected, and it will be more difficult to get along with him in the future. In case one day your need happens to be that only he can help you, then the consequence of doing so is to lose someone who can help you. Don't make some decisions on impulse, because you never know when this decision will lead to a detour or a straight road. .
College students are roommates in different places, which may be more complicated than the previous stage. Here, you should get along more carefully. With reference to the above, the skills are similar. If you are a cheerful person who loves friends, you don't have to stand on ceremony. What you need is to be coarse and fine, to be cheerful and delicate on the surface, not to do whatever you want, and to learn to put yourself in other people's shoes. Some people may feel a little disgusted from the bottom of their hearts if they keep quiet. If this person doesn't agree with you, then don't be so enthusiastic, just give her a smile occasionally, so be enthusiastic and cheerful.