What makes people feel very convenient now is WeChat chat, which is also a communication method that most people will choose. Not only couples or lovers, but also many people who may not be very close will use this dating software to communicate in all aspects.
When chatting on WeChat, what were the two people's conclusions, which revealed the depth of their feelings. Have you noticed it at ordinary times?
1. Use? I'm busy. Maybe next time? Those who are eager to end the conversation are impatient with each other.
With a tentative attitude, many people send text or voice to the opposite sex they like through WeChat, hoping to bring each other closer through chatting and achieve the purpose of enhancing their feelings unconsciously.
However, this goal may not achieve what you want. People who don't have the same idea won't waste a lot of time talking nonsense with you on such seemingly meaningless things, so without exception, they will want to end this situation as soon as possible in a very reasonable form and free themselves.
When you see each other, you always use? I'm busy? 、? Maybe next time? When these words are sent to you in a hurry to end the conversation, you should understand that the other party is generally impatient and has not talked with you and is willing to accompany you.
And if they are both like this, it proves that the relationship between two people is only the most common, and may not even be called friends.
2. use? Good night Give me a minute. Love you? When it is over, it is sweet.
For those couples who are in love or married, their WeChat chat is another style. Even if there is no chance to stick together all the time, as long as conditions permit, I will have a good chat on WeChat. No matter how busy they are, you can find time to send some gentle and sweet messages to let the other person feel how important they are in your mind. This is why lovers can intuitively feel their position in each other's hearts.
If you can't see through other people's WeChat chat records, you can say good night to each other as long as you accidentally aim at the conclusion of others' WeChat. Can you give me a minute? 、? Love you? And so on, is very close to each other, the relationship must be extraordinary, generally full of goodwill.
They will express their thoughts to each other through this kind of undisguised words, thus helping each other to quickly grasp and understand each other's thoughts and attitudes.
3. Conversations are often interrupted, people forget to reply, don't care about each other or feel bored.
Some people may be ill-educated, or they may deliberately use an indifferent attitude to let the other party know that you are insignificant in his or her mind. No matter what kind of friendship they want to develop, it is not rare. In order to let the other party retreat, it is possible to reply to WeChat in a less polite way.
Chatting like that, the other party suddenly doesn't give any explanation, and the conversation is often interrupted; Maybe I had other things to deal with at that time and walked for a while, but then I forgot to reply to the WeChat sent by others, and so on. This fully shows that in the other person's mind, this person is dispensable and has no important significance for them. They don't care about each other, or the feelings between two people are extremely dull.
You won't do this to anyone who feels cared about, because this attitude will make the other person feel alienated and make the inside story disappear. Once done, it represents the friendship between two people, and it is almost impossible to develop further.
In fact, no matter whether people are close or distant, at least courtesy and education are needed. In the face of the WeChat sent by the other party, if you feel that their attempts and demands are beyond your psychological expectations, you can make an excuse to refuse to disappear like the first reply. As long as you don't take the initiative to contact each other afterwards, you will generally be interested and won't bother.
The way of not replying or disappearing halfway is much worse in education and manners. If you don't want to leave a very bad impression, it is recommended to avoid this rude way as much as possible.