I keep saying to my friends, "I can send you text messages and write books for you, but don't call me."
My social phobia shows that I don't like shopping when there are many people.
There is a delicious noodle restaurant in our school, but every time I go to buy it after school, there are already many people in front of his shop. My voice is very low. If I want to buy something, maybe the boss can't hear what I need. The boss didn't hear me, so he ignored me. That time, I wanted to find a crack in the ground.
My parents would say, "Just shout once".
But for a person who doesn't like talking to strangers, it is not easy to say it once, and it is still in the case of so many people.
It also means that you don't like going out with friends.
I stayed at home all winter vacation and never went out to play once. Although we go out with familiar friends, it is inevitable to eat and buy things, but I am really afraid to talk to people I don't know. If his tone is a little heavy, I will feel uncomfortable.
Afraid of answering/making strange phone calls.
The WiFi in my dormitory is always bad. My roommate asked me to call the maintenance master who repaired WiFi and ask the master to help with the maintenance. I really dare not. I had to say, "Never mind, I've had enough traffic this month. Let's talk about it next month."
However, I am very happy because of this social fear.
I can stay at home all day playing with my mobile phone, watching variety shows, reading, writing and drawing. ......
It's really great and happy to be free to do what you like at home, okay?
If I really don't think about anything, I will sit on the balcony and hold the dog and chat with it.
The inner world of social phobia is very rich. We won't feel unhappy if we don't go out to play and make friends. We will talk to ourselves and play with ourselves.
Because we are rich inside, we don't need to ask for anything from the outside world.
I believe that everyone has his own value.
When I was a child, my parents thought I was particularly introverted and worried that I would not communicate with others in the future. But when I grow up, even if I am introverted, I will do my job well. If I need to socialize with others at work, I can also express my needs normally and finish my work well.
As a social phobia patient, I just don't like some useless social activities to occupy my leisure time.
Don't worry! Look at the introverted babies who answered, we all have our own bright spots. As long as we are happy, as long as we don't break the law, break the law and violate morality, social fear is social fear. No big deal.