1. Treat others well
How you treat others will be how others treat you. If you are polite, respectful, and kind to others, most people will treat you the same way. And learn to take the initiative, approach and be kind to others, instead of just standing there waiting for others to approach you.
2. Listen carefully to others
Listening is a very important skill in interpersonal communication and communication. When everyone expresses, they hope that what they say can be understood by the other party. When listening, they should concentrate on listening and give feedback in a timely manner. This can make the other party feel that you are listening with intention.
3. Take the initiative to care for others
In life, learn to take the initiative to care for others. Greetings in daily life, greetings and care when others are sick or frustrated, will bring people A touch of warmth will make people feel your kindness. They will recognize you, appreciate you, and affirm you more.
4. Take the initiative to help others
As much as you can, take the initiative to help the people around you. Helping others is also a kind of happiness. Helping others solve their difficulties can also give you a sense of satisfaction.
5. Refuse to hesitate
No matter what you deal with, you are always hesitant. You have to think for a long time even to say something. Over time, you may lose patience. Say it decisively for what you want, and learn to say no decisively for what you don’t want. You can have your own ideas and your own preferences. Rejection does not mean that you are unreasonable, but it shows that you are straightforward and honest.
6. Remember to express gratitude to others
After others help you, even if it is a small thing, don’t forget to express gratitude to them. Sincere gratitude will bring good feelings to people. Sometimes, when you are exhausted, maybe a simple thank you can make people feel more relaxed. You can also give someone a small gift to express your gratitude. Although it is insignificant, it is really meaningful and represents your heart and thoughts.
7. Don’t stay the same
Staying the same will make you look dull and boring. If you eat the same food every day for a long time, I believe you will get tired of it before long. The same is true in life, we need more rich things to spice things up. Usually try more things, and when you get along with people, you can also bring them some surprises.
8. Reduce arguments
Whether in life or at work, try to avoid unnecessary arguments. Many times there is no result in the argument. Learn to adjust your emotions. and cognition, learn to put yourself in others' shoes and understand each other. When you encounter problems, reduce arguments and focus on how to solve problems. I believe you will be loved and respected by more people.