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Be careful when making friends. what did you say ?
Depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out. Friends are a part of life. There is a good saying: "a person without friends can only be counted as half a person." So, what kind of people can be regarded as true friends? Asuncion once came to the bottom of the Alps and met several gods. The gods said, "Asuncion, have you ever had any friends?" Yasens said, "Yes, he loves me more than himself." This sentence angered the gods, who were determined to kill this friend of Asuncion, so they asked who this friend was. Asuncion saw God's intention and hid it. The gods took out their treasures to seduce Asuncion, promising that he would have a beautiful wife and become a very majestic king, and so on. All this failed to move Yasen's heart. However, the miraculous god still caught Asuncion's friend, and they didn't kill him immediately. They didn't quite believe Asuncion's words, so they seduced Asuncion's friends by the same means. As long as he betrays Asuncion, he can get everything he wants: beauty, wealth and power. Like Asuncion, this friend was unmoved at all, and the gods were envious and ashamed, so they quietly let them down from the mountain. Yasens said: "We are loyal and trust each other, and nothing is more important than our friendship."

Environment and friends have a great influence on our life. It can be said that what kind of friends we make will lead to our fate. So be careful when choosing friends, and don't make friends that are harmful to you, so as not to be dragged into the muddy water by them. Make friends with people like Yasen and his friends. Their loyal friendship is true friendship, and their loyal friends are true friends.

A louse lives in the bed of the rich all the year round. Because of his slow and gentle blood-sucking action, the rich have never found it. One day, fleas visited lice. Lice don't care about fleas' temperament, the purpose of visiting, whether it is harmful to them, but just welcome them blindly. It also took the initiative to introduce to the flea: "This rich man has sweet blood and soft bed. You can have a full meal tonight! " "I can't wait for dark.

When the rich man fell asleep, the impatient flea immediately jumped on him and bit him hard. The rich man woke up from his dream and angrily asked his servant to search. The clever flea jumped away, and the slow louse became the scapegoat for the uninvited guests. Lice don't know the root of this disaster until they die.

Therefore, when choosing friends, we should try to associate with those optimistic, enterprising, noble and talented people, so as to ensure that we have a good living environment and get good spiritual food and sincere help from friends. This is what Confucius said: "People who have no friends are not as good as themselves".

On the contrary, if you choose friends carelessly and only make friends with people with negative thoughts, low character and bad behavior, you will be trapped in this bad environment, even dragged down by "bad friends" and become innocent "lice".

Making friends is still a problem for universities, especially after entering the society, when different people are together, it is not as simple as you think. Therefore, we must be careful to make friends, look on coldly, and make friends after determining our personality.

When we make friends, we must know the choice, especially if we want to make real friends, we must narrow our circle. Mr. Lu Xun once said: "It is enough to have a bosom friend in life." We shouldn't treat everyone indiscriminately as bosom friends.