Contents Method 1: Deepen the friendship with the girl you already know 1. Find similar interests and do interesting things together. 2. Communicate sincerely and show your vulnerable side. 3. Compliment her in non-sexual ways. Method 2: Maintain a strong friendship 1. Keep in touch with her. 2. If she invites you to do something, go with her. 3. Give her emotional support when she needs it. 4. Don’t have any intention of falling in love or having sex with her unless she so desires. Method 3: Meet new girls 1. Attend social gatherings with girls present. 2. Find the girl you want to make friends with and introduce yourself to her. 3. Find what you have in common and talk about it. 4. Get her contact information. 5. Send her a message and ask her to hang out. Relationships between people can sometimes be blurry. Even among friends, how comfortable they are with each other can be affected by gender. As a man, you have to remember that men and women are different and sometimes have different values. Women are generally more interested in emotion sharing and are more willing to communicate their emotions to close friends. Therefore, being a good friend to a girl may require a different approach than being friends with a guy.

Method 1: Deepen the friendship with the girl you already know

1. Find similar interests and do interesting things together. Participating in activities with a girl can improve your relationship with her. After you spend some fun time with a girl, she is likely to remember the experience. Friendships often start when two people share the same interests, so it's important to have the same interests before the two of you become better friends. To avoid misunderstandings, you can tell the girl how much the event will cost. This way, you can make the event more of a hangout with friends rather than a date.

You can go out to a restaurant, go to an amusement park, attend another friend's birthday party, go surfing, take an art class, or anything else you both enjoy.

If you have nothing else to do, you can always stay home together and watch a movie.

2. Communicate sincerely and show your vulnerable side. As humans, we build trusting relationships over the course of conversations, especially about in-depth topics. The more you talk about each other's lives, the more connected you feel. Showing your vulnerability means listening to her fears and emotions and talking openly about your own. If she comes to you with a problem, don't find fault with her. When a girl knows she screwed up, the last thing she wants is to hear someone tell her what she did wrong.

Be sure to listen to the girl’s point of view and understand her intentions before giving your own advice.

Asking a girl for advice can increase trust and make her more willing to seek your advice.

3. Praise her in non-sexual ways. Getting compliments makes us feel good and motivates us to do something. Every time a girl achieves something you admire, you should give her a compliment. However, don't compliment her on her appearance because doing so will make her feel uncomfortable if the only thing you have is friendship. You can refer to the compliments she gave you. If she hasn't mentioned your appearance, you'd better not mention hers either. Don't say, "You're so beautiful," or make other general comments about her appearance.

Method 2: Maintain a strong friendship

1. Keep in touch with her. Maintaining a strong relationship with a girl may become more difficult over time, so you may need to text or call her more often. If you still live close to each other, remember to call her when organizing and attending social events and gatherings. Celebrating a friend's birthday is also a good reason to contact her or visit her. If your friend has moved to another province or city, try to interact with her regularly on social media.

If your friend is busy, you can go to her. If you have more free time, you can accommodate her time. She will thank you for it in the future.

2. If she invites you to do something, go with her. The more often you accept social invitations, the more likely she is to invite you to future events. Your presence is especially important if a girl is attending an event she doesn't want to attend and needs a friend to support her.

If you are busy or have other things to do and are unable to attend, you must tell your friend far enough in advance so that she can find someone else to spend time with her.

If you don’t want to do something, don’t do it. Otherwise, your negative energy may make your communication less effective than usual.

3. Give her emotional support when she needs it. Many people go through different ups and downs, and most people need the emotional support of friends during tough times. Being a good friend also means knowing when to back away and allow her to grieve. Be sure not to be overbearing.

Emotional support is also necessary during stressful but joyful moments, such as before a performance or sporting event.

4. Don’t have any intention of falling in love or having sex with her unless she has such intention. The easiest way to destroy a heterosexual friendship is to reveal your intention to fall in love or have sex with her at an inappropriate time. Not only will this make the girl feel uncomfortable, it may also make her feel sad because she cares about you as a friend and has no intention of becoming a lover. It is possible to move from friendship to love, but it only happens when the two people are in love. If you like your friend, you should tell her. But be careful, this may hurt your friendship in the long run.

If your friend wants to develop further with you, and you have the same intention, then boldly fall in love. The best relationships are built on friendship.

Method 3: Meet new girls

1. Attend social gatherings with girls present. If you want to make friends with certain girls, try attending social gatherings where they go. Pay attention to what's happening in your city or town right now and be prepared to get to know them. Take a class that interests you, such as a community arts class, or join an on-campus sports club. Making new friends is not difficult, you just need to get into an environment where you can interact with strangers. If social opportunities are limited, try to use your creativity. You can meet girls at the grocery store, place of worship, gym, or shopping mall.

If you are still in school, then you have a good chance to meet the girls in your class. Head over to her before or after class!

2. Find the girl you want to make friends with and introduce yourself to her. Tell her your name, ask for hers. Start by making small talk about what you have been doing recently or where you have been at a certain time. If approaching strangers makes you anxious, the only way to ease the tension is with practice. The worst that can happen is that she doesn't want to talk to you.

Suitable questions are "This place is really interesting, do you like it?", or "That class was really boring, what do you think of this class?"

Try to appear confident, but don't be persistent. You should talk to her the same way you would talk to a male friend, but in a polite way.

3. Find what you have in common and talk about it. The girl you want to be friends with probably has something in common with you because you both show up at the same social gatherings. For example, the girls you meet in a sports club may be interested in sports like you are, whereas the girls you meet in an art class will usually be interested in art. Try to find a common ground and something you both know something about and enjoy talking about. When talking to girls, try to be funny and light-hearted. If you can make her laugh, she'll probably want to be your friend.

Be a good listener and listen to her. The more questions you ask, the more likely she is to open up to you and want to spend time with you. You should respond and make your point, but most importantly, focus on listening.

4. Get her contact information. If you think you'd hit it off with a girl you meet, be sure to get her phone number. Be bold when asking for your phone number, especially if the conversation is going well. Tell her you enjoyed the conversation and ask her if she wants to talk again another time. If she's willing, take the opportunity to get her contact information. If the conversation isn't very exciting, then there's a good chance she doesn't want to give you her phone number.

If you're not sure when you'll be leaving, you can even ask for a phone number before the conversation ends.

5. Send her a message and ask her to hang out. Find something you both can do and ask her if she wants to meet up with you.

You could invite her to lunch, rock climbing, or to see a band perform. If you can't think of something to do, try recalling what you've said before and pick something that interests you both. Don’t give the event a date vibe and don’t flirt in text messages or you might send the wrong signal. You can even go a step further and tell her explicitly that you're not interested in dating right now. Don't send her too many messages if she doesn't respond. She might be busy or just don't want to talk. Don't make her feel like you desperately need a friend, don't make her angry, or make her feel harassed.

When sending a message, you can also share some funny or interesting pictures.

Make the content of the message as friendly as possible. Since she can't hear the tone of your voice, you should prevent her from misinterpreting you and making her think you're being sarcastic.

If a girl texts you frequently, then you should reply. Try to figure out how much she enjoys communicating through texting, and then try to put in the effort to match.