Social interaction is also divided into useful social interaction and useless social interaction. The main topic is to learn to distinguish useful social interaction from useless social interaction. The topic owner raised this question, and I think the topic owner belongs to people who are not good at social interaction. Then the topic owner should face up to this problem. Next, I will talk about social interaction in detail. I am also a social person, take me for example.
I am a relatively introverted person. Generally, introverted people are not good at socializing, especially when they are at school. They are new to the small society, and they don't know how to get along with new classmates. They also have the same idea as the topic. They think that if they want to play well with them, they should like what they like, play the games they play, and force themselves to do things they don't like to echo others. This has lasted for a while, and the result is certainly not very satisfactory. After all, those things are not what you are interested in doing, and they are definitely not done well. Besides, after a long time, do you really like them and really have the same hobbies with them? After a long time, they will naturally show up, and they will not play together, and this kind of flattery is a pathological flattery. Gradually, I discovered that this is a flattering personality. Yes, this is my personality.
Let me introduce the expression of please-pleasing personality, so that the subject can compare himself.
Of course, if you are a flattering personality, you should try to change it
and then we can talk about socializing.