Female college students encounter their mother's "fancy blind date"
Zhao Qianqian, 2 1 year-old, from Anhui, will enter senior three after this summer vacation. She just broke up with her boyfriend recently. Unexpectedly, her mother's "blind date radar" reached the sensitivity of 10, and began to give her a "new feeling" as soon as the summer vacation.
"Mom, I am so young and beautiful that I don't need your introduction!" When I first heard the word "blind date" from my mother, Zhao Qianqian refused.
"Young and beautiful, you need your mother to help you get through it so that you won't be cheated." In order to persuade her daughter to go on a blind date, the mother tried everything. Summer internship is so busy, Zhao Qianqian has to work hard to cope with the "fancy blind date" from time to time.
On rainy days, she broke the old habit of backache and wanted her mother to help her rub it, but her mother snorted and said that she was not available and asked her to "find someone herself" to help her rub it. Every weekend or holiday, my mother will definitely "spy on the military situation" and ask her how she plans to live. Do you mind making some new friends? Later, my mother even dared to say that the person she introduced must be 10 times stronger than Zhao Qianqian's ex-boyfriend. If you don't believe me, she can go and see for herself.
No matter how difficult her mother is, Zhao Qianqian instinctively refuses blind date. Destiny takes a hand, natural fate is the way she has been longing for making friends. In her eyes, in the world of blind date, everything is based on material conditions, and she always feels that the feelings of blind date have an unspeakable "impure purpose".
My mother called this idea of hers childish. "The so-called destiny takes a hand, but when you go out for coffee, you accidentally meet the right taste. Blind date is nothing more than serving the coffee you need to go out to buy. My mother chose this cup of coffee and ground it. As long as the result is the same, why care so much about the process? "
"I'm so young, and I'm not an old maid. Is it so urgent? " She had to take a step back and use age as a shield.
"Not small!" Mother raised her voice. "It's not that you want to get married right away. Just make more friends. Your little girl has an immature eye for men. You have to get in touch with some excellent men so that you won't be cheated in the future. "
Unlike Zhao Qianqian's helplessness, Sun Ni, 20, was so angry that she almost ran away from home when she learned that her parents had arranged a blind date for her.
Sun Ni's parents took the initiative. I thought it was an ordinary family dinner. When Sun Ni arrived at the hotel from school after class, she saw two families sitting at the dinner table. At that time, she felt dumbfounded and surprised, and the feeling of being cheated and betrayed surged from the soles of her feet to the top of her head.
Because her parents are old, she has been under strict control since she was a child. From high school liberal arts to college volunteering, and now to blind date, parents strongly control every pass in her life. "I feel that blind dates are all people with bad conditions and can't find their own objects. Why are they so anxious to arrange my blind date? Am I so bad in their eyes? " Sun Ni said with grievance.
Zhao Qianqian and Sun Ni are not the only college students who were arranged on blind dates before leaving school. Searching for the word "college students' blind date" on social platforms such as Weibo, Douban and Tianya, we can find that many college students have told their experiences of being blind date, and many people in the comment area are in the same boat. On Zhihu, there was a question about "What's the experience of young people being forced to get married after 1990s", which was answered by more than 400 users. When their families forced them to arrange blind dates, most of them shared their fears.