The first thing you need to know is that needing help and using it are completely different concepts.
Well, people will certainly encounter some troubles in life, some of which can be solved by themselves, while others can't. When we need outside help, we are more willing to seek the help of close people, which is normal. So as a friend, it is no problem to come to me for help when you need help.
But if you use me directly without my knowledge because you need it, this is a big problem.
We often see that bad people use good people and traitors use good villagers. Once friends get involved, this friendship will be broken. To put it bluntly, will he use you because he doesn't treat you as a true friend? At least at that moment, using your results is more important than your friendship.
You can't deny friendship just because you meet a junk friend. If friendship is false, how can anyone praise it?
Therefore, when you meet someone who uses you, you can only say that he is not your friend, but that your friend used you.
Therefore, when you meet such a person, you should stay away from him immediately. When you start making friends, you should be reserved with each other. After all, people will look at you for a long time. It's not too late to open your heart to this person only when you are sure that he deserves your sincere treatment.
Don't despair of friendship, just as we meet scum in love, so does friendship. So abandon this hypocritical friendship and be yourself, and you will meet friends who are sincere to you in the future.