If it doesn’t involve money, be strict with your words and compare your heart with your heart

If it doesn’t involve money, as the saying goes, brothers settle accounts clearly, and there are countless examples of falling out over money, so there is no need to challenge it

Be strict with what your friends say and what they say to you, remember not to say too much, know what to say and what not to say, don’t speak ill of others behind their backs, and don’t be stingy with good words. Because no matter whether you say good or bad things, they will all reach the other person’s ears

To make friends, you need to be heart-to-heart. Everyone has their own privacy and things that cannot be said. You must know the right amount and don’t say too much to hurt the other person’s heart. Don’t say too much. The explanation is too shallow and makes people feel perfunctory. When a friend has something to do, if you put yourself in his shoes, you can help him

This is what I can understand and I just summarized it