Author\Editor Helen

The anchor couple Shum Yongkang and Zhang Peishan have been married for many years, and their family is happy and sweet. However, in fact, they only dated for four months before they decided to get married. Recently, Shum Yongkang He revealed that the reason why he made up his mind to marry Zhang Peishan home was that he listed seven practical questions before the marriage and conducted an exclusive interview with his wife. From her answers, he found that their values ????matched each other and decided to enter the auditorium.

According to "Mirror Weekly", Shum Yongkang compiled a questionnaire before getting married, which included seven questions that ordinary couples rarely discuss, such as "How much money do you have in your account now?" ", "How much is the monthly filial piety pension?", "Do you want to have children? How many?", "Does the mother need to take care of the children?", "In the future, the child will go to a public school or a private school?" Go straight to the reality. Asking questions, in one fell swoop, the two people's finances and values ??were laid out in front of each other.

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Sam Yongkang said with a smile that in fact, the key issue is that he had just bought the house at the time One year later, he was still under pressure to pay the mortgage, so he directly asked Zhang Peishan, "Will you help pay the mortgage after marriage?" As a result, Zhang Peishan directly stated that there was no problem, and it was one and a half. In addition, the previous questions let him know that the two people's concepts were quite consistent, and they believed that the other party was a lifelong partner. Facts also proved that the two had been married for 18 years and their relationship was still happy.

The golden 3 to 5 minutes to resolve a couple’s quarrel

In fact, Shum Yongkang and Zhang Peishan have been able to maintain a good relationship for 18 years, of course, not only relying on the compatibility of financial concepts , the two of them quarreled just like any other couple, especially when they were working together as anchors. His wife often complained that Shum Yongkang did not follow the script, or asked unreasonable questions that made her at a loss. They even had a big quarrel in the studio, but the quarrel After that, we put aside work and went to eat together hand in hand during lunch time. The couple are very aware of this. Work disputes end as soon as they leave the shed and they never bring their emotions home.

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Shum Yongkang believes that there are 3 to 5 golden minutes for resolving a quarrel between husband and wife. It is best not to continue the conversation at this time. For example, once he was dissatisfied with his wife for spending too much money on nail painting, so he criticized her. He immediately retorted that he shouldn't have bitten his nails so ugly, which made Shun Yongkang angry and angry. He had to use an excuse to go out to buy supplies. As long as he avoided it a little, his anger was gone.

Every man is itchy!

After 18 years of marriage, has there ever been a time when you felt bored? Shum Yongkang once said frankly: "Every man will be itchy!" However, he believes that an affair is a "mathematical problem rather than a physiological problem." It is difficult to spend years just for a few minutes of sex. Men should calmly and carefully calculate , how much does it cost to raise a mistress? How much money will it cost to litigate and pay alimony after my wife is caught cheating? Is it worth it to lose half of my life's happiness due to an affair?