"If it can't be solved now, I think it will be difficult to gain a foothold in society in the future! ！” Hehe, this sentence makes me feel that your knowledge and understanding of interpersonal communication are biased. Interpersonal communication is not only the exchange of interests between people, but more importantly, the process of people instinctively seeking safety and being recognized and accepted. Therefore, interpersonal communication is skillful, and honesty is the foundation. Without sincerity, more skills will only be self-defeating. 1. Respect privacy, don't say anything easily, and don't ask about things that others are not ready to say, because if you or the other party have not reached the level of unconditional acceptance after listening, then any reaction of the listener will make the speaker feel unsafe, so you will avoid this person in the future. 2, let nature take its course, you have your circle, things you like or are good at, people who play ball games have a bad relationship with you, people who paint may have a good relationship with you, no one is loved by everyone, and friends are natural things. Deliberate pursuit will only make you feel defeated and make others uncomfortable. 3. When you meet your friends, you are in a good mood, or even if you are in a bad mood, you should smile when you meet your friends. This is your way. No one asks you to do this, and you can't ask others to do the same. Especially when you visit others, they may be really busy with other things and not ready to receive you. In social etiquette, it is impolite to visit without an appointment in advance. In western countries, friends may even shut you out. Friends should also respect each other's space and time, and you can't disturb them at any time. 4. As mentioned earlier, people do have the motivation to seek support and help when making friends, but this is definitely mutual. This mutual relationship is not as simple as buying and selling things, but the time and value are equal. If you really help a friend, it will deepen the friendship. When you need help, friends will naturally lend a helping hand. For those who are only profitable, don't treat them as friends. If you can always let so-called friends bother you and use you, that's just your personality. Never being right doesn't mean that friends should get along like this. Finally, I want to say one more thing: be yourself first, not portray yourself for making friends. Be yourself sincerely and frankly, and friends will naturally come to you. I think your idea that you want to make more friends now is based on "more friends will make things easier in the future". Think carefully about what position you put your friends in, respect and accept them, and whether you use more ingredients, so it's not that they think you are "hypocritical", it's your own feeling.