Communication is the most important part of interpersonal relationship, which is the process of transferring emotions, attitudes, facts, beliefs and ideas between people, so good communication refers to a two-way communication process, not that you are making a speech, casting pearls before swine, or letting the other person sing a monologue, but listening to what the other person is saying with your heart? To know what the other person is thinking. How does the other person feel? And give back your thoughts to each other. In the process of communication, misinterpretation may be caused by the communicator's own characteristics or communication methods. Therefore, the sender and the receiver must clarify whether what they receive and understand is consistent through constant feedback. Besides, there are many easy things that can help us build good interpersonal relationships:

deep self-awareness and acceptance. Always have a sincere attitude. A humble and gentle heart. Moderate self-expression. Respect others and appreciate yourself.

seek partners who share the same values. Eliminate interpersonal barriers. Outlook on life of service. Obey the rules of the group. Positive interpersonal growth.

2. How to maintain good interpersonal relationships and live in harmony

The external expression of interpersonal relationships is ethics, and ethics is a reasonable division and division between people. The Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan: "Qi Jinggong asked Confucius about politics. Confucius said to him,' A monarch, a minister, a father, a son and a son', explaining the meaning that the monarch, the minister and the son should observe their respective duties. Interpersonal relationship is based on this, so that each component can have appropriate thoughts, words, behavior patterns and values according to its role, responsibility and position to achieve a good organizational atmosphere, and then improve organizational efficiency.

Improving the ability to communicate effectively with others is the first condition to maintain good interpersonal relationship. The following general rules provide reference:

Put yourself in the other person's position, take care of others, and communicate in a warm, respectful and understanding way. Understand the communication barriers and try to break through them. Have the will to communicate with others, listen with an open mind, never make a value judgment immediately, but it is best to imagine from the other side's position and viewpoint. To be a good listener, listen to each other's thoughts and feelings with our hearts, not just literally. Then tell each other frankly, what did we hear? What are your feelings and thoughts? To be considerate, we don't have to agree with others' different opinions, but if we can understand others, we will be very happy ourselves. Strengthening your understanding of yourself and knowing what you will say is also one of the skills to maintain good interpersonal relationships with others. Be good at dealing with your emotions, and don't let bad emotions affect your relationship with people around you. When there is a conflict or quarrel with others, and you are colleagues who work together, you may be angry and think that it will bring difficulties to your work later. But it's a little difficult to bow your head first. Smile more and try to be tolerant. Pass on friendship with communication, create friendship with care and maintain friendship with tolerance; Friends are very important in life! Think for others, and think about others' feelings from others' point of view! The way you talk! This will be fine! Don't worry! There are also personal cheerful optimism and positive attitude towards life, and personal charm is also very important! Society is complex. If you want to gain a foothold, you must first know how to arm yourself with cultural knowledge and social practice. Do you think people who don't know how to protect themselves can mix in groups? After learning all aspects of society, you will find interpersonal relationships very beneficial. For example, learn some tropical fish, home, famous cars, games, chess and so on. It's very important to learn to understand people when you are in contact with them. It's urgent. The communication between people is established on the basis of mutual benefit, not for personal benefit. Friendship is based on congenial interests and mutual assistance in difficulties. Learn to change yourself and change your personality. To be friends, the first thing is to talk about "honesty" between each other. This is the premise, which will give each other a feeling, "You are more reliable." In addition, we can't let others think that we are conceited. It is important to show interest or sympathy to others. Know that others also have their own needs, fears and hopes.

Dealing with interpersonal relationships in the workplace according to the "type" is concise: simplicity can make people happy, like and accept. Talking long and cumbersome will make people confused and bored, and you will not achieve your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you get twice the result with half the effort. Never be conceited: always talk about your strengths and show them off in front of others. This invisibly belittles others and raises yourself, and the result is to make others look down on you more. Never complain: complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you should be brave enough to admit your own shortcomings and try to make things complete. A moderate review of yourself will not make people look down on you. On the contrary, it will always emphasize objective reasons and complain about this and that, which will only make others look down on you! Don't lie or break your promise: lying to your friends and colleagues will lose their trust and make them stop believing in you, which is your greatest loss. Avoid talking big, do what you say, and don't say what you can't do. Vision: It's easy to think of poverty when wealth is booming. Smart people prepare for winter. Make more friends. Maintain good relationships between friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that seem unimportant now.