What is happiness? The meaning of happiness depends on a normal heart. What is a friend? A hedge between keeps friendship green.

Friend, this word sounds familiar and vague. I wonder if I am a clock, who will be my Yu Boya. Maybe it's really like what I wrote: Who likes drinking water these days? Aren't Coca-Cola and Pepsi exciting?

Think of Emil Wakin Chau's classic old song Friends, it's very nice! Maybe we've always been friends with playmates. Friends are not just a simple way to meet, say hello and say goodbye every day. They should be the intersection of hearts. That faint feeling.

Some people say that speculation and intrigue between people lead to distrust between people. The relationship between people and children is subtle, and people always have a little bit of self-protection. He won't open the door for you in your career, but only a small window for you at most. Sometimes he thinks that if everyone opens their eyes, the relationship between people should be closer. Maybe that's the truth.

Mom says it's hard to be a good person, and it's even harder to be a good person. It is not easy to understand this sentence now. It is really not easy to find your own position and play your role well. Maybe you will feel the same way. Many times we are wronged for that good friend. I don't know what a good relationship is. The old class always said, don't think that you have a good relationship with everyone now. When it comes to conflicts of interest, who? Are the so-called good friends just school playmates? If you really find a bosom friend, maybe you will wronged yourself sometimes. What's not worth being wronged? At least you have taken care of the Changchun friendship tree between you. Maybe the other person is wronged and tolerant of you?

Trust each other, tolerate each other, and really care for the relationship between you and your friends. Friends don't need to go to war. No matter how serious the fire is, we will share weal and woe. That's good.

Still the feeling that a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. Take care of the relationship between you and your friends. Perhaps the highest level of friendship is that a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. It's light and pure, but it's not vulgar. It feels good.

Do so-called friends really betray themselves when there is a conflict of interest? Maybe it is possible. I just hope this doesn't happen to me. If you like the feeling that a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, why don't you come to me? Let's be friends as light as water.

(2) It is really a wonderful thing to establish sincere feelings between friends. Boya guqin bosom friend, high mountains and flowing water. It is even more valuable to maintain this friendly friendship and make it stand the wind and rain.

Distance is the natural attribute of interpersonal relationship. Two close friends are no exception. Being good friends just means that you have the same goals, hobbies or opinions in some aspects and have spiritual communication, but it doesn't mean that there are no barriers between you. Everything has its own personality, and the existence of things lies in personality. * * * Sex is the connecting belt and lubricant of friendship, while personality and distance are the roots of friendship attracting non-permanent life.

Friendship is like spring. Keeping a moderate distance and stretching and compressing will keep it permanently elastic, which is strikingly similar to freedom.

With the shortening of the distance, the leisure spots of "golden" human beings also appear in the aura of friendship. In-depth understanding allows you to discover the selfish and even despicable side of each other's human nature. Then, the shadows of leisure attractions conflict in your mind. Some disharmony followed, and you and he both asked each other to swing with themselves. A little violation makes you particularly concerned. So the feeling of being cheated and disloyal is that you have doubts about friendship. Indifference and disputes shake the foundation of friendship and it is difficult to restore the original harmony. At this time, you will be annoyed: Why do you want to destroy the beauty of distance and harmony?

People make new friends all their lives, but new friends are not necessarily better than old friends. Losing friendship is a loss in life, so I emphasize that good friends should keep their distance together.

The process of making friends is often a process of attracting each other's temperament, so you have the same "things", so you suddenly crossed the barrier and became good friends, even "love at first sight, hate seeing each other late." This phenomenon is the same whether it is heterosexual or homosexual. However, there are some differences in how to attract each other, because they come from different environments and receive different education, so no matter how close they get, their outlook on life and values cannot be exactly the same. When the "secret month" of two people has passed, they will eventually become both sides! When the requirements can't be met, start criticizing behind your back and then end the friendship.

People are so strange: when they can't get it, they always want it; Because they always want to stick together when they are close; Really getting closer and closer, the requirements are too high. People always hurt themselves unintentionally. Strangely, the feelings of good friends are very similar to those of husband and wife, and a small matter may also cause emotional breakdown. Therefore, if you have "good friends", instead of getting too close and hurting each other, it is better to "keep your distance" and avoid collisions!

Some people say that husband and wife should respect each other, respect the customer and be naturally harmonious, but because husband and wife are too close, it is really not easy to respect each other and respect the customer. In fact, it is a better way for friends to respect each other and keep their distance.

What is "keeping your distance"? Simply put, don't be too close and stay together all the time. In other words, the heart is near, but the body is far away. Being able to "keep your distance" will lead to "politeness" and respect for each other. This kind of politeness is a "sponge" to prevent collisions and injuries.

When friends get along, it is important for both sides to understand each other emotionally and help each other when they encounter difficulties, rather than knowing something unnecessary. Some people show their trust in their friends by telling the whole story, which is an act of belittling themselves. If the friend you make is a trustworthy and virtuous person, you can say that you are lucky. If the other person is someone with ulterior motives and ulterior motives and you don't see through it, then the situation will make you nervous.

If the other party starts to pay attention to you and decides to "kill" you once in the dark, then this hasty approach is likely to create favorable conditions for the other party's action. A person's behavior habits, frequented places, some special activities and personal privacy are all personal secrets. The other person is not a confidant, so you can't tell others easily, even your friends.

If your friend is a reasonable person, he will certainly persuade you, enlighten you and advise you not to talk about others casually. If your friend is a troublemaker, he is likely to pass on your words to the person you said, causing disgust. If your friends have ulterior motives, they will exaggerate, embellish and deliberately provoke conflicts, which is likely to put you in a very embarrassing position among your friends, and even lead to great disaster.

Some people think that friends and themselves are soul mates, and don't care what they say, just tell them your dissatisfaction to their face. Maybe your friend is not as generous as you think. He has a grudge.

When making friends, don't blindly trust each other's friendship. If the other person is someone with ulterior motives, friendship may be defiled at any time. So you must be careful, set up more lines of defense to prevent the trap laid by "friends", which is only good for you, not bad. As the saying goes, "You can't give all my heart to everyone." .